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littlemissub -> cum control.....is it healthy? (6/6/2006 6:44:31 PM)

Ok, So I was reading someone's post in another forum when I first became introduced to cum control.  I honestly didn't even know it existed.  It is something I might like to try but I had some concerns.  I read the old forums but didn't find anything mentioned on my particular question. 

The question being:

If you are trained to cum on command from one person and one person only, could this have some long-term effects on your body, ie not being able to cum with different partners say if your current situation ends.  It has very much to do with mental control so I was wondering what sorts of issues this could cause and if anyone has ever experienced these problems.  if so, how did you reverse it?



Lordandmaster -> RE: cum control.....is it healthy? (6/6/2006 7:13:59 PM)

Yes.  We've discussed this before; try searching some of the "cumming on command" threads.  LA and proudsub are better at finding old threads than I am.  Let's hope they come on this thread and give you some links.

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ORIGINAL: littlemissub

If you are trained to cum on command from one person and one person only, could this have some long-term effects on your body, ie not being able to cum with different partners say if your current situation ends.



littlemissub -> RE: cum control.....is it healthy? (6/6/2006 7:16:02 PM)

well i didn't find this particular discuss in the link that LA had given someone else on the subject but I will look again, thanks.



Lordandmaster -> RE: cum control.....is it healthy? (6/6/2006 7:25:28 PM)

Well, here are a couple of things I wrote:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_114274/mpage_1/tm.htm#114619

http://www.collarchat.com/m_167541/mpage_1/tm.htm#167634



littlemissub -> RE: cum control.....is it healthy? (6/6/2006 7:30:17 PM)

thank you very much, I will check into those.



mew -> RE: cum control.....is it healthy? (6/7/2006 3:41:09 AM)

I have been trained to cum on command by 2 Masters in the past, at different times in my life.  
It takes a lot of mental control on your part to detach from that Master when you go your seperate ways.    It can be very hard when your a slave, ( as I am) and suddenly find yourself single, to detach completely.   Once you do, there shouldn't be any problem having an orgasm, ( my opinion only from my experiences).  
When I met second Master, I had to totally give myself to him before I could cum on command for him.   It didn't happen right away, it took time. 
 
I would also like to mention, that for me personally, cumming on command is more of a mental or emotional ( not sure which) orgasm, rather then a pure physical one.   It doesn't feel the same as a "normal" orgasm with stimulation.  
 
I believe that you can move on with another Master, or without for that matter, and still orgasm normally or on command, but as I said, it takes A LOT of mental detachment and control on your part to do that. 
 
Since I have been celebate for 5 yrs, I am kind of out of the loop on this these days, but take what you want and leave the rest. 
Hope this helps some.
 
~mew~



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: cum control.....is it healthy? (6/7/2006 7:16:53 AM)

Anything that you condition in yourself can be re-conditioned- it's pretty much exactly the same process as well.

As well, conditioning without reinforcement loses its hold over time naturally.

Thanks for the links LAM.



NyxNymph -> RE: cum control.....is it healthy? (6/8/2006 8:40:55 AM)

I agree entirely with mew.. I think it is more of a mental/emotional orgasm at that point and if that's the type of orgasm, it shouldn't interfere with normal "physical" orgasm



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