FemalecumLover
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Interesting Article A must Read http://sexpositiveactivism.wordpress.com/2010/09/28/sadomasochism-violence-and-pacifism/ When I started thinking about it, I realized that it really comes back to the systemic nature of violence and war. That system is patriarchal, violent, and aggressive. It’s often imperialist, racist, and marginalizing. It’s a system that celebrates one ideal (masculine, physically strong, able to destroy others) and posits that anyone who does not fit that ideal should be either protected, crushed, or ignored. This kind of violence shows up everywhere. We see it in war. We see it in colonialism. We see it in racism. We see it in the treatment of people with disabilities and immigrants. We see it in capitalism. Sadomasochism doesn’t fall outside of this structure. We all live in this world, and our sexuality is necessary a part of the world and affected by it. To varying degrees, systemic violence may inform our practice of BDSM. Some people may use BDSM as an outlet for aggressive tendencies, or as a healing mechanism for the wounds sustained by systemic violence, or to carry out violent fantasies that are embarrassing in a political context. Pain can be about sensation, but it also be about violence for many perfectly safe, sane, and consensual practitioners. And that’s okay.
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You pry apart my thighs and tell me to be still And I willingly submit to you because I love the way you dominate me Demanding that I cum for you so I do as I'm told http://youtu.be/a0U3sBfw98o http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/15413
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