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TNDommeK -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 7:07:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

you'd be surprised



This.^ There are some houses where the "Head" runs everything, finances included. And yes, that would be marriage as well,lol.




myotherself -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 11:01:18 PM)

When I was looking, I had been chatting to this local guy online for several weeks.

We met for coffee and I wasn't really convinced it would work for me. No particular reason, just no real spark. But he persuaded me to meet again, and we went for a drink the following Saturday.

We had a pleasant evening and we talked about a lot of stuff. One of the things I told him was that I wasn't going to jeopardise family relationships or my career for kink. I also told him that Sunday afternoons during term time had to be my time because that's when I do my marking, lesson prep etc for the coming week.

Sooooo...next day, he texts me. "Come to my house". Well, at that point I'd also made it clear there'd be no play or sex until I was comfortable with it. And it was Sunday afternoon. So I politely declined and explained why.

The next text said "no sub EVER says no to me! Get here NOW or take the fucking consequences".

So I told him to shove it up his ass and carried on with my day.

Next day he texts me and demands that I come to his house for 'punishment' for my disobedience.

I won't repeat what I told him, but that pretty much ended things [:D]




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 1:12:08 AM)

Well this is just depressing...




smartsub10 -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 4:56:46 AM)

I had chatted for a few weeks with a guy, exchanged pics and decided to meet.

First thing he says to me when we were seated in the diner?

"Wow, what great tits!!! I'm going to have so much fun with them!!"

I got up and left.




Deliena -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 7:32:03 AM)

Today's amazing first contact message:
quote:

wow, you're a fucking sexy bitch.

/rollseyes
Gentleman old enough to know better, me unimpressed. Score - Zero. Result - Blocked [:D]




Delilya -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 8:03:19 AM)

One presented himself to me as a sub. During coffee he told me that deep down all women were subs and that he would prove it to me. Um, yeah. end of discussion.




Deliena -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 8:44:52 AM)

After meeting you he thought you were sub??? How dumb was this guy?




OsideGirl -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 9:04:08 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Deliena

Today's amazing first contact message:
quote:

wow, you're a fucking sexy bitch.

/rollseyes
Gentleman old enough to know better, me unimpressed. Score - Zero. Result - Blocked [:D]


My message for today was some guy asking me to go to Texas to pose on his Harley. Like I'm supposed to be impressed.




Delilya -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 9:14:14 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Deliena

After meeting you he thought you were sub??? How dumb was this guy?


I get messages from Doms wishing to convert me. Most say all I need is a good fuck. This one though posed as a sub. Guess he thought I would be impressed by his domliness and throw myself at his feet. What a moron.




OsideGirl -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 9:30:33 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Delilya


quote:

ORIGINAL: Deliena

After meeting you he thought you were sub??? How dumb was this guy?


I get messages from Doms wishing to convert me. Most say all I need is a good fuck. This one though posed as a sub. Guess he thought I would be impressed by his domliness and throw myself at his feet. What a moron.



I've had male Doms ask me to top them.




Deliena -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 9:33:43 AM)

[sm=doh.gif] and I just get nutters shouting at me, I should count my blessings!




Fullfilher -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 9:47:30 AM)

I have enjoyed reading this thread. Its amazing what some guys will say to get laid, or cope with their insecurities. Its amazing what women will say and do because of insecurities also, but they often don't have to try too hard to get sex.

This thread makes me feel almost "normal". [8D] What ever that means.




BossyShoeBitch -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 9:48:22 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya


quote:

ORIGINAL: Deliena

After meeting you he thought you were sub??? How dumb was this guy?


I get messages from Doms wishing to convert me. Most say all I need is a good fuck. This one though posed as a sub. Guess he thought I would be impressed by his domliness and throw myself at his feet. What a moron.



I've had male Doms ask me to top them.



Yep. I've had quite a few male Doms write me and express their need to submit to me.




kittycake -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 10:00:48 AM)

I was very very new, and was at a club that allowed clothed kink. I was receiving a paddling from a male dom friend, and was enjoying myself very much. After we had finished the mini session, he had wandered off to grab me some water and I was standing talking to a friend, when I felt a very painful blow on my lower back. I turned around and there was this woman, who I had never met, holding a paddle. Not only had she not had permission to swat me, but the swat was waaaaay too hard for someone who was new, and unprepared for it, and she missed my rear entirely and hit me in the back. When I started freaking out on her, caught between holding my back and fighting back tears, she got all riled up saying that she was a Domme and if I was a sub, I should just be happy for any attention paid to me.




fucktoyprincess -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 12:53:03 PM)

Well in the online search process one encounters a lot of ridiculous behavior. Where to even begin? But at the end of the day, little investment of time and effort on my part for people like that - so I don't spend a lot of time worrying about that aspect either.

In real life, the worst Dominants were those who fundamentally had relationship issues. In other words, it wasn't usually the BDSM aspect that de-railed us. It was other stuff - things that could be part of any vanilla relationship. Can only share my personal experiences, but that's pretty much it.




Hillwilliam -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 1:32:35 PM)


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ORIGINAL: smartsub10


"Wow, what great tits!!! I'm going to have so much fun with them!!"



You say that and yet there's not even a clothed pic of em on your profile. *SIGHS*[X(]




ReMakeYou -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 2:01:58 PM)

Every time I get along well with a sub, I make some crack about her losing her Real Sub card when she has other obligations. All of them have gotten the joke.

Then again, I spend enough time watching 'nilla daters have many of the same behaviors. They just justify them differently.




MissKittyDeVine -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 3:18:15 PM)

The answer to them has to be:

WHAT WOULD YOU KNOW ABOUT GIVING SOMEONE A GOOD FUCK!!!


quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya

I get messages from Doms wishing to convert me. Most say all I need is a good fuck.






Endivius -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 3:23:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


I've had male Doms ask me to top them.



no no, get ON top of them. You know...reverse cowgirl.... [:D]



You and BSB can get on top of me like that anytime [;)]




OsideGirl -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/14/2012 4:18:09 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Endivius


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


I've had male Doms ask me to top them.



no no, get ON top of them. You know...reverse cowgirl.... [:D]



You and BSB can get on top of me like that anytime [;)]
[sm=excuseme.gif]




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