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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:05:55 AM

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So have him blow ya ;) have him lick your feet. etc etc.

(and please, hon. STOP with the txtspk??)

Ha! Yeah, this, please. You say you're a mature 25 year old. Not if you text speak.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:07:33 AM

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There is always making him get himself off while you do some small penis humiliation or some light cbt. You could always get a copy of "The Family Jewels" and see what interests you.

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I believe his point is that the label straight doesn't apply to men who engage in bdsm with men according to what straight is generally considered to mean.

Not getting into whether the OP is straight or not for wanting to engage in activities that will sexually excite him and another man. I can tell you that, as a straight chick, I engage in S/m with females fairly frequently. If you're just talking about whether it happens to be a female who is bottoming, I can promise that it doesn't necessarily mean that someone isn't straight.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:09:17 AM

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question: you do the public humiliation thing (and for the love of whatever diety/or none, please make sure it's in a bar where you won't end up getting arrested!!), his dick is hard. You know he likes CBT. Are you going to APPLY the CBT? Think about that. if you are not comfy doing that, or at least be willing to be present/watch him rub one out, then perhaps this needs a re-think.

Just my opinion, though.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:20:00 AM

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I'd rethink the venue. one thing is that we don't have the right to force our kink onto nilla folks.

What about this? find a local munch that is in a private room with only kinky types and as you sit and eat or whatever, he is kneeling and doing a thorough job of shining your shoes and various other domestic chores. Fetching drinks, cleaning up things you drop, etc.

Hell, I dunno. Tell me folks. Is this a lame-assed suggestion?

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:21:44 AM

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I think it's spot on, Hilly.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:25:58 AM

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I'd rethink the venue. one thing is that we don't have the right to force our kink onto nilla folks.

What about this? find a local munch that is in a private room with only kinky types and as you sit and eat or whatever, he is kneeling and doing a thorough job of shining your shoes and various other domestic chores. Fetching drinks, cleaning up things you drop, etc.

Hell, I dunno. Tell me folks. Is this a lame-assed suggestion?

It's not that it's lame, but most munches are vanilla gatherings. No fetish wear, no play at the restaurant, etc. A private party might be a better venue or an actual club.

Still have to consider that nice wait staff that comes in and out.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:27:24 AM

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This is where we combine a bunch of ideas and finally come up with something that might just work.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:32:57 AM

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oops! I read the word "munch" as "play party" or "event". WHat can I say, it's about sleepytime for me....

mea culpa!

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 9:38:33 AM

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Hell, take the sub to a play party, put him in a skimpy blouse and panties and have him serve drinks, etc.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 10:48:03 AM

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I agree with not using unsuspecting members of the public to get your exhibitionist kicks. Even as a kinky person myself, I do not wanna see that. Or at least, not in a bar where I'm not expecting it. If I go to a play party I'm going to expect to see some boners.

It sounds like you both already have some ideas, so don't worry yourself too much about having dozens of cool crazy sexy plans. The first time, start small, figure out what's working for you both and what isn't. You can always build on it next time. You can't do everything in one night anyway, so pick a starting point and afterwards you can say 'so how was it for you?' and figure out what you want to do next time (or indeed if there will be a next time).

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 10:56:26 AM

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I agree with not using unsuspecting members of the public to get your exhibitionist kicks. Even as a kinky person myself, I do not wanna see that. Or at least, not in a bar where I'm not expecting it. If I go to a play party I'm going to expect to see some boners.

It sounds like you both already have some ideas, so don't worry yourself too much about having dozens of cool crazy sexy plans. The first time, start small, figure out what's working for you both and what isn't. You can always build on it next time. You can't do everything in one night anyway, so pick a starting point and afterwards you can say 'so how was it for you?' and figure out what you want to do next time (or indeed if there will be a next time).

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 11:17:11 AM

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This is the funniest shit ever - you actually thinking that you're straight - and that you're actually trying to convince anyone that reads your "all about hard-drippy-precum cock" bullshit--- that your looking for a "straight" male to join in on your "nonsexual activities".

You just keep on telling yourself that - and while you're at it, turn off that "straight non-gay porn" with the two dudes giving each other "non-sexual rim and blow-jobs". -

Tisk -Tisk ----> someone needs to quit kidding themselves.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 12:00:11 PM

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Like others have mentioned, I know many tops who like to top, they are not gender specific about it in the least.

I'm glad you've acknowledged that you are bi, or perhaps (like me) bi-lite. In other words I like men, but I occasionally stumble across a female.

As to what to do with his cock, well, I don't know what tools you have available. Here are some universal a/o cheap ones: Clothes pins, little hair clips, large stretchy hair bands, string or twine to tie the balls up or make zippers with the clips or the pins, sand paper (the local hard ware store will have it applied to blocks with handles, those are perfect), heavy wooden spoons for thud, use your imagination. Don't forget the single most important tool in every dom's toy bag: your hands. If you don't feel comfy touching his cock with your hands, make HIM do it.

As for the finale, it's entirely up to you if you allow him to come or not. Have him come into a cup or a bowl and make him drink it?

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 12:11:03 PM

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I am not a gender specific sadist. At the same time, I am not likely to do sexual play with women.

Don't get hung up on the labels, just entertain yourselves.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 3:43:32 PM

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A straight sadist I've played with says he likes to occasionally play with males because "they can take more pain." Leaving that assertion aside, I don't get the least bit of a bi vibe from him - it's about the sadism, not about the erection.

This, on the other hand, screams that you do have a sexual interest in him:

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We then continue to discuss what all is going to happen to him until his dick is rock hard, and dripping so much precum that the front of his pants are soaked. I then tell him its time to go, I make him get up and walk out in front of everyone, boned and wet.

Have at it (but please not in public) and enjoy, but do be aware that many people will challenge you about being str8.

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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Str8

An abbreviation for "straight" most commonly used by a bisexual male or a homosexual male who is in denial of his sexuality. Used in reference to himself to distance most often in the phrase "str8 actin" to distance his impending oral or anal homosexual activity from that of flagrantly gay males.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 5:45:17 PM

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This, on the other hand, screams that you do have a sexual interest in him:

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We then continue to discuss what all is going to happen to him until his dick is rock hard, and dripping so much precum that the front of his pants are soaked. I then tell him its time to go, I make him get up and walk out in front of everyone, boned and wet.

Have at it (but please not in public) and enjoy, but do be aware that many people will challenge you about being str8.

See also:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Str8

An abbreviation for "straight" most commonly used by a bisexual male or a homosexual male who is in denial of his sexuality. Used in reference to himself to distance most often in the phrase "str8 actin" to distance his impending oral or anal homosexual activity from that of flagrantly gay males.

Yeah, I'm kind of thinking he's not as "str8" as he claims. He's at least "bi-curious." At any rate, if he didn't want to have anything directly to do with the guy's cock, he could make the guy jerk off and then lick it up or something like that.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:04:55 PM

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THANKS TO YOU ALL THAT HAVE BEEN HELPFUL, BUT I THINK I MADE A MISTAKE POSTING HERE..

NO MORE POST PLEASE..

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/29/2012 8:07:33 PM

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You are not the boss of us!

And have fun with your playmate, that's what it's all about.

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 6/30/2012 12:13:20 AM

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I am looking to use my first straight male sub, I think roleplay is something we are both interested in, and Im looking for suggestions since I havent been with another male alone. I dont think either of us are intrested in men, but both are curious about trying this. Any other str8 masters have any experiences they care to share? Thanks JT

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RE: str8 male master using str8 male sub suggestions - 7/1/2012 5:07:10 AM

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I can tell you that, as a straight chick, I engage in S/m with females fairly frequently. If you're just talking about whether it happens to be a female who is bottoming, I can promise that it doesn't necessarily mean that someone isn't straight.

As someone who is actually straight I can promise you that finding activities sexually stimulating regardless of whether you're participating in them with a male or female is not the same thing.

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