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Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/29/2012 8:55:55 PM   
UtterMayhem


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Status: offline 		I am finding it near impossible to find a r/t pet,,,I'm not sure if its just me,,,Possibly..... or the area that I live in or if I am just to critical....There must be some out there but I'm not meeting them,,,,,just my quick rant lol
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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/29/2012 8:57:13 PM   
littlewonder


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Once again, bdsm doesn't mean you will find someone faster than anyone else. Hell, if anything it makes it MORE difficult.

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/29/2012 9:13:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		You say in your profile you've been attached to someone for 15 years. Most people are not interested in sharing. Also, you say you want someone intelligent. It's really hard to take you seriously on that because your narrative is horribly written. Take out the negative remarks about time wasters and anything else that sounds like whining. Revise your profile to use proper spelling (too instead of to), punctuation (periods where you have commas, for instance) and grammar. CM is a written medium; your writing is your first impression. Don't blow it.

Get to know people face to face in your local community. Be patient. Good luck and enjoy the journey.

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/29/2012 9:16:48 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I have really gotta learn to read people's profiles before I respond lol. Never mind dude. Listen to MistressDarkArt.

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/29/2012 9:21:59 PM   
UtterMayhem


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Status: offline 		Good advice<<<<However I like my punctuation,,,,I'm not overly into meeting the locals,,,,,I have been into the lifestyle for over 15 yrs.....
I have met many from out of town,,,,I have had a few Pets who wanted to stay however as I say I think it"s just me,,,,I'm to critical.......

I'm sure the right one will come along eventually,,,just impatient,,,,working 90 hr weeks doesn"t help either,,,,,,Hard to get out,,,,,

As I said just my quick rant

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/29/2012 10:03:43 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Well there's one reason you haven't found someone yet. You said you are too critical of yourself. It could be that women see that in you and it's a turnoff. Women like confident men.

And there's the fact you're already attached to someone. Most women have little desire to be the other woman or the third wheel.

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/29/2012 10:12:30 PM   
UtterMayhem


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Status: offline 		Ahh lol no not critical of myself ,,,, of the pet !!!! Guess I didn:t make that clear,,,,,

See I get bashed for a spelling error but you didn"t read correct,,,,,

Hmmm confident ,,, no problem there ,,,,, I'm heading up a 16 million dollar project right now..... 2nd one this year

will be onto the 3rd in a couple of months.....

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/29/2012 10:24:04 PM   
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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/29/2012 10:48:41 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		ok so you're critical of the women you seem to approach or have had in your life. You know, most people don't like it when someone picks at every single thing they do or are. They take it as meaning they are never good enough for you and it kills their self esteem. If that's the case then all I can say is good luck!


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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 3:29:06 AM   
kalikshama


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quote:

Original: MistressDarkArt

You say in your profile you've been attached to someone for 15 years. Most people are not interested in sharing. Also, you say you want someone intelligent. It's really hard to take you seriously on that because your narrative is horribly written. Take out the negative remarks about time wasters and anything else that sounds like whining. Revise your profile to use proper spelling (too instead of to), punctuation (periods where you have commas, for instance) and grammar. CM is a written medium; your writing is your first impression. Don't blow it.


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Original: UtterMayhem

Good advice<<<<However I like my punctuation,,,,I'm not overly into meeting the locals,,,,,I have been into the lifestyle for over 15 yrs.....


Well, I won't repeat advice so you can reject it again. Hope your rant left you feeling better.

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 3:41:10 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Uh, let's see. From this brief glimpse of you I'd say you're all about how much money you make, how important you are, and how hard you work.

Can you say: Next !

Men who are all about their jobs and the money they make are a dime a dozen, seriously. You couldn't be more boring, b/c it's always going to be all about you.

You can't keep a pet b/c you can't keep their interest. Basically, you're just not worth the aggravation. You want someone great who wants to be with you? Then be great yourself.



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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 6:08:29 AM   
UtterMayhem


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Status: offline 		I have always noticed that on these forums its always bash or agree with the person,,,,,I guess I'll get bashed LMAO

Its at least providing me with some mild amusement,,,

Only reason I mentioned anything to do with money was because I was told wasnt confident,,,,,Was just giving a quick example,,,If I wasn't I wouldn't be were I am today,,,Being that I haven"t met anyone on here of course I'm getting judged solely on what I have written,,,,Definately getting the point I need to step up my writing skills,,,,,

I have also had no problems keeping a pet,,,it has always been me who has sent them packing,,,,The ones I have found have always wanted to stay,,,

I just havent found one I thought was the match,,,I'm sure there out there,,,,,just have to find,,,,,

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 8:29:57 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Confidence has nothing to do with money. Your ability to take criticism does not show you in a good light.
I'm assuming your job has to do with math or science skills, in that case you should be aware of your deficiencies in writing and use spell check and grammar check to help you appear better.

When you bid on a job, do you misspell words? You're trying to attract someone into a relationship with you, in just the same way you try to attract clients. If they aren't important enough to make your bid as professional as you can, that tells them that you aren't someone to run their projects or their lives.

More importantly, when you are adamant about not meeting anyone local, while telling us that you've been involved in a relationship for over 15 years, that reads as though you're seeking to cheat on your wife/gf.

If that's not true, then the two of you need to seek for a third together. Because anyone you're involved with will need to be friends at least with her. If you can't understand why that is, then you aren't ready to open your relationship.

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 8:44:50 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: UtterMayhem

I have always noticed that on these forums its always bash or agree with the person,,,,,I guess I'll get bashed LMAO

Its at least providing me with some mild amusement,,,

Only reason I mentioned anything to do with money was because I was told wasnt confident,,,,,Was just giving a quick example,,,If I wasn't I wouldn't be were I am today,,,Being that I haven"t met anyone on here of course I'm getting judged solely on what I have written,,,,Definately getting the point I need to step up my writing skills,,,,,

I have also had no problems keeping a pet,,,it has always been me who has sent them packing,,,,The ones I have found have always wanted to stay,,,

I just havent found one I thought was the match,,,I'm sure there out there,,,,,just have to find,,,,,


Duuuuuuuuuuuuude......you don't seem to realize that guys like you are a dime a dozen. Every week on here there is a rant, similar to yours, first whining about how they can't find a weal twue slave to suit their unbelievably high standards. Then, when it is pointed out what a putz the OP is, the OP tries to salvage himself by citing humour, or the 'clique' and it's unbelievably low brow attacks, or increasing the height of his already overly high and shaky self built pedestal. Usually a combination of the above.

Thanks for the attempt at Saturday morning entertainment but, sadly for you, it's not even a new spin on an already over played, old story line. Bugger off. We are already bored with you.

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 9:02:34 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		Gawd, I love you, LaT... *starts stockpiling apples, catnip, milkbones and... BELGIAN CHOCOLATE!!!!!*

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 9:05:45 AM   
UtterMayhem


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Status: offline 		Wow lol,,,people make a lot of asumptions,,,My GF is fully aware,,,we have had pets before,,,,I guess as in local not meaning imediate area as in this city,,,close ones for sure,,,,I know many in the local community but don't need there politics and am not a munch fan etc...It seems that people very much focus on mispelled words but I don't use a spell checker and really don't care about my spelling,,,,Desfip has obviously never seen any math or science scribblings or would well know most are mispelt as they are often put down in a rush ....Sorted out and rewritten by someone with time....

It's possible that many say the same as me,,,I never asked you to respond had a bored minute and never for a second thought it would carry on but at this point I'm just interested in seeing how long it will go,,,

Bugger off very amusing,,,After spending time to write I would have expected something better ,,,It's making my morning interesting....

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 9:07:11 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		dude.. do you have ANY friggin idea how annoying it is trying to read your posts? QUIT WITH THE COMMAS!! learn to properly use an elipse!! SERIOUSLY!!

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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 9:07:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		And this gives your sock away: ',,,'.  We know who doesn't know periods.



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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 9:13:18 AM   
PowerXXXchange


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RE: Real Time Pets,,,Subs - 6/30/2012 9:19:38 AM   
MissKittyDeVine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: UtterMayhem

I'm heading up a 16 million dollar project right now..... 2nd one this year



It´s hard to believe that someone could advance to that level in business when they can´t or won´t use correct grammar and spelling.

Next delusional twue dom please ... or rather not.


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