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NuevaVida -> RE: The Best Qualities (7/6/2012 2:17:10 PM)
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ORIGINAL: RemoteUser
I stay away from the "Worst Dom" thread because I know I'll get caught up in the toxicity.
Here's a positive alternative. What do you consider the best qualities in a person you consider a dominant figure?
If you want to share why you feel those qualities are the best, bonus. It certainly goes a long way towards creating conversation.
Kudos to you for a positive thread! I don't even open those "worst" threads - too much toxicity for me, too.
The first quality for me is his character. Everything else falls under that umbrella for me. I was just thinking this afternoon about the Mister and the way he manages me, and how incredibly fortunate I am, to be with the first man in my life who actually knows how to handle me and my complications - who accepts those complications as part of me, and who finds them to be wonderful qualities in me. Whether I'm goofing around joyfully or having a melt-down about something-or-other, he somehow manages to know exactly the right response to it, and to turn it into something awesome.
The fact that he's honest, transparent, funny, into music, open-minded, fun to be around, loving, sexual, sadistic, patient, family-oriented, loves good food, and supportive of people being who they are....well that's all part of who he is, and part of his character. He can throw me around and beat my ass one minute, and scoop me up in his arms, showering me with hugs and kisses the next.
In my world, these are very good qualities, indeed. [:)]
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