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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 8:05:07 PM

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Why do people who say that they refuse to answer bother to say that? Why don't they just not answer?

(1) Its easier to be negative than it is to be constructive.

Translation:

I get my butthurt on any time a dominant woman actually exercises her authority and agency by refusing to answer questions she feels are inappropriate and stating her reasons why she feels that way because it threatens my over-blown sense of male entitlement.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 8:18:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

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Why do people who say that they refuse to answer bother to say that? Why don't they just not answer?

(1) Its easier to be negative than it is to be constructive.

Translation:

I get my butthurt on any time a dominant woman actually exercises her authority and agency by refusing to answer questions she feels are inappropriate and stating her reasons why she feels that way because it threatens my over-blown sense of male entitlement.

Exactly. When cloudboy starts giving out detailed descriptions of his own private sex practices, THEN he can bitch and moan about us not doing it. On second thought, umm, I really DON'T want to know that information.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 9:03:49 PM

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When cloudboy starts giving out detailed descriptions of his own private sex practices, THEN he can bitch and moan about us not doing it.

I disagree. He can yak about his cock and ass all day long and it won't change anything. Neither he, nor any other man, is entitled to that information. If he asks, he can suck it up and deal with the consequences.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/9/2012 9:23:35 PM

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It's absolutely not 'trade a story' day here, ever. Technical questions, no problem. Happy to help with lube and dildo and harness issues. My personal life? Not for display.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 6:59:12 AM

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 7:46:42 AM

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We're cranky broads, we dominant females. Men think that they can be the boss of us, and we disagree. It's a thing.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 8:20:15 AM

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We're cranky broads, we dominant females. Men think that they can be the boss of us, and we disagree. It's a thing.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 8:21:02 AM

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YAY!

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 8:45:33 AM

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I have to agree with all of you, sex is an intimate and deeply personal thing.

Plenty of other places on them interwebs to find stories to satisfy his craving

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 8:55:10 AM

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In a pinch, Dan Savage is always there at the ready:

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My boyfriend let me experiment on him with a strap-on. At first he didn't like it, but now he loves it. Now I want to have sex with another guy and watch him suck a real cock. How can I get him to try this?

Pretty Eager Gal

Jesus Christ, PEG! I have plowed years -- years! -- and thousands of words -- thousands! -- into convincing straight boys that there's nothing gay -- nothing! -- about a woman fucking a man with a strap-on. Whether he's penetrating her or she's penetrating him, I told 'em, it's still straight sex. And people were buying it! (Well, not the editors of Vice Magazine, but they're not human.) And then you come along, PEG, and undo all my good work in less than 50 words! Now every guy whose girlfriend wants to peg his ass is gonna think it's some vast conspiracy to turn him into a dick lickin' bitch. And it is, of course, but we don't want the straight boys to know that!

I can't bring myself to answer any more letters this week. I mean, why bother when all my hard work can be undone in an instant by a thoughtless person who can only think about what she wants? So I'm turning this week's column over to a pack of female-to-male transsexuals. They've got some good advice for The Impossible Fantasy, the gay man who's attracted to "guys with pies," or hypermasculine FTMs, but wasn't having any luck finding an FTMGWP willing to sleep with him. Take it away, gentlemen.

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Hey, Dan, have you ever notice that the word "Strap-On," spelled backwards, is "No-Parts"? Kind of ironically perfect, isn't it?

DB in Vancouver

No, I hadn't noticed, DBIV, but now that you've pointed it out, I'll never forget it.

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"You Don't Have To Be Mistress Asscrusher or Worthless Buttslut To Enjoy Strap-On Sex"

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And alas, the true hidden question of the OP:

Once upon a time, women were doing guys in their asses with strap-on dildos and it was good. But when a guy wanted to ask for it, or a girl wanted to propose it, they had to say, "Hey, would you be willing to do me/would you let me do you in the ass with a strap-on dildo? Annoyed by this mouthful, a Savage Love reader suggested that I harness the collective wisdom of my readers and come up with a name for girls fucking guys' butts, and "pegging" won"

That about sums it up, how do you ask about doing something taboo? God knows this is a tricky thing to mention tactfully on a date, and it poses a serious run-away factor. Even here on the CMMB, there is a stiff (pardon the pun) resistance to answering the question.

Its funny to think that the vocabulary itself is so important, i.e. by converting the terminology to "pegging" men and women become empowered to bridge the gap between them.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 10:53:19 AM

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Thanks for providing the words of someone else again, cloudboy, but I'm still waiting for those links where you are telling people all about your sex life and especially those details that some might consider intimate. I'd really have an extra appreciation if the links were provided in those situations where you didn't have any particular familiarity with the original poster or occasions where the person isn't a long term member and/or regular poster.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 10:58:42 AM

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WTF happened to your purple? Is the site down? Are you a sock......?

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 11:01:31 AM

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It's really Me, Ron. I've lost the ability to colorize, reply to a specific post, or quote.

Yes, I've restarted the computer, etc. (Thankfully, spell check still works.) I know it's on My end, but I haven't figured it out yet, computer twit that I am.

Thanks for the concern.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 1:10:12 PM

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It's absolutely not 'trade a story' day here, ever. Technical questions, no problem. Happy to help with lube and dildo and harness issues. My personal life? Not for display.

I so hear you. The thing is... there was no threat of any information being provided. First of all, if he provided anything about what his mistress got out of it, it wouldn't be so personal and if it were, he would be disrespecting his domina. She would either have to willingly come provide it or give him permission to. Therefore my little clause of asking for the information to be provided as well as a picture or email that the wankers that surely would see it, could use to contact her as they would us. No way was the boy going to come forth with anything other than what he has come forth with these last few years... bashing the women here. Secondly... he isn't here to provide or give unless he can do so in a manner in which he can make us look bad.

No deal and assurance that there wasn't a chance in this lifetime that we would have to share... even if we would. We knew the challenge wouldn't be met and were only calling him on his shit.

Who knows... maybe he will do what I think he won't. LOL... If so... I will give what I think appropriate. I won't back down. We have to have a picture and means to contact his dominant and details. Her in the same position we are in. Not going to happen.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 1:24:53 PM

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Cloudboy has a wife and a domina, neither of whom come to speak here.

Perhaps it's that security that makes him speak as he does? Back when I was friendly, I reminded the newbs that Women Listen and Women TALK. If we see or hear someone ranting about women, or generally being a jerk, we remember, and we tell our friends. It's not that "we" expect men to me obsequious, or not call someone on her horseshit. "We" notice if he claims to be into female supremacy and speaks disrespectfully to anyone who isn't of immediate use to him. "We" notice when he complains that we're not leaping through hoops and scrambling to meet every fantasy.

What response would there be if we'd trotted out some tales, true or imagined? Would we be a bunch of fuck and tell whores?

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 2:19:32 PM

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Women TALK.

Sometimes they don't. A few weeks ago, I saw two women on a train. They were obviously friends, but they weren't talking to each other.

It's not the only time I've seen that happen, either.

So you shouldn't generalise.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 2:55:36 PM

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How do you know they weren't using ESP?

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 3:42:21 PM

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How do you know they weren't using ESP?

What would be the point of their communicating by ESP? This would be silent and wouldn't be in the least irritating to all the males around them.

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 3:46:58 PM

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RE: What do Mistresses enjoy about using a strap on on ... - 7/10/2012 4:27:48 PM

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What response would there be if we'd trotted out some tales, true or imagined? Would we be a bunch of fuck and tell whores?

That's a good question. I say we find out. The next time some wanker who is obviously fapping furiously as he types comes along, let's concoct the wildest, most imaginative stories possible. We're all very creative, it should be very entertaining, if nothing else.

We should at least be able to do as well as the "tap tap" guy.

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