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TNDommeK -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 2:00:23 PM)

I see the artist making friends. Maybe this is why he only attracts Fin Dommes, he has to pay bc his charming attitude is way to much for a lifestyle Domme to want to deal with.

Is it just Me, or does anyone else notice how some posters will start off normal and making good comments then out of the blue just go left field? I have noticed this with a few of the newer folks in the forums.



LadyPact -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 2:29:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Maybe he will answer Roch. I am just channelling rantiness by typing, it's not like I care one way or the other. How often do we hear from people in kink nirvanas who can't manage to find the scene?

Makes you wonder how LadyPact and I managed![;)]

Yeah, I was just coming in from the tag.

OP, there used to be a guy on these boards who posted a thread some time back which basically boiled down to "what are you willing to do" to meet someone? Frankly, creating an account, reading some profiles, and sending out a few emails really isn't much. Basically, you're doing the same thing as (I'd estimate for males) 66% of every other active member on this website.

Do you know who is actually getting those women who aren't interested in financial Domination? The guys who get out from behind their computer and put some effort into meeting people. Sure, there are some success stories about people who have met on the net. Compare that number of relationships to the number of people who have met face to face.

I have to throw this part in. Really? You're in Chicago? Do you know what kind of hell I could raise if I was in that city? I'd be meeting and beating people within the week.




TNDommeK -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 2:35:15 PM)

Ha, meeting and beating. Has a nice ring to it.



OneKinkyArtist -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 2:36:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

I see the artist making friends. Maybe this is why he only attracts Fin Dommes, he has to pay bc his charming attitude is way to much for a lifestyle Domme to want to deal with.

Is it just Me, or does anyone else notice how some posters will start off normal and making good comments then out of the blue just go left field? I have noticed this with a few of the newer folks in the forums.



What you fail to realize is that I am a human being and when I feel that I am being attacked for my views and lack of agreement with the masses then Im prone to defend myself. Contrary to popular belief (your own) I am a actual cool person and not by my own account. The thing that you fail to realize is that most of you are more established in your respected regions, whereas I have not gotten that much outside experience. Im not looking to start a netfight but I am also not willing to be demeaned in any fashion. IM not saying people have to be play nice but common courtesy and simple respect is everyones right. Clearly I doubt that you have read every response and if so you probably dont agree with what I am saying but even your obvious sarcasm wasnt drenched in bs. My final point is that Im not an elder on the message boards meaning Im not use to the funny sense of humor that many on here possess and because pf that I am prone to react as if Im being attacked.




OneKinkyArtist -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 2:46:45 PM)

All foolishness aside I will take the road less traveled and apologize if I have offended anyone. I am not a horrible little troll or any other colorful adjective that can be placed upon me. I thank all for the input and suggestions.



TNDommeK -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 2:47:47 PM)

[sm=Groaner.gif]*sighs* Okay.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 3:37:13 PM)

I like the new boy, we'll keep him!



JanahX -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 3:39:28 PM)

I concur.



TNDommeK -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 3:45:19 PM)

Greedy says he has kilt pics, but I have yet to see them. But yes, a lovely addition Methinks.



Rochsub2009 -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 4:08:49 PM)

OP,
I'm inclined to think that you're not serious about finding real people in Chicago.

I reached out to you as a fellow African-American who happens to know a lot about Chicago, but you totally ignored my message.

Good luck in your search, but as I mentioned, you're not likely to have much luck on-line. But if you decide to look off-line, send me a PM.
-Roch



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 4:10:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I like the new boy, we'll keep him!


Indeed! He needs a moniker besides 3 of 5, no matter how adorable it may be.

Ladies, put on your thinking caps. [;)]

As for the OP (so I don't get mod spanked for hijacking): You should already know the answer to your original question. You didn't really come here for answers, you came here to whine. Several people have already given you excellent advice. Now you're just making excuses. You don't have to be "established" in your local community to attend a munch. It's a freakin' meal at a vanilla restaurant. Go, converse, meet people, network. It ain't rocket science.



OneKinkyArtist -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 4:10:31 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

OP,
I'm inclined to think that you're not serious about finding real people in Chicago.

I reached out to you as a fellow African-American who happens to know a lot about Chicago, but you totally ignored my message.

Good luck in your search, but as I mentioned, you're not likely to have much luck on-line. But if you decide to look off-line, send me a PM.
-Roch



I received no such message from you. I merely saw you posted on the thread a few times.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 4:11:26 PM)

That's what he meant, dude. Were you looking for an engraved invitation?



OneKinkyArtist -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 4:13:42 PM)

yes I was...with gnarly design concepts!



Rochsub2009 -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 4:15:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist

I received no such message from you. I merely saw you posted on the thread a few times.



Sigh. Nevermind. [8|]



OneKinkyArtist -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 4:16:48 PM)

ok I joke I joke! I did take your suggestion and made a fetlife. I also did state I would take suggestions. I didnt name any particular advice that I would take but did state that I would. All one has to do is go back and look at my responses



OneKinkyArtist -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 4:18:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: OneKinkyArtist

All foolishness aside I will take the road less traveled and apologize if I have offended anyone. I am not a horrible little troll or any other colorful adjective that can be placed upon me. I thank all for the input and suggestions.



here it is



kalikshama -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 4:23:11 PM)

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All one has to do is go back and look at my responses


I did, after Roch's posts you made 7 snarky, attacking or defensive posts before the generic blurb of thanks, which could be also be interpreted as defensive.



kalikshama -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 5:16:46 PM)

Are you aware of how forums work? When you say "All one has to do is go back and look at my responses" anyone can and will do so. I am free to agree that Roch gave you very good advice which you essentially ignored. You appear to be far more invested in picking fights than in your putative goal of attracting a Domme.



OneKinkyArtist -> RE: Is being a Pro/FinDomme the only way to test a prospective submissives authenticity? (7/12/2012 5:28:16 PM)

Just because I didnt specifically give credit or make it my obligation to single out every person does not mean I didnt take the advice. Thanks for your input but You yourself gave no positive input , all you gave was negativity..



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