RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes

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MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes (10/21/2012 4:17:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl You can practice D/s without ever engaging in BDSM. You can engage in BDSM without ever engaging in D/s. Your assumption is that D/s automatically involves BDSM is incorrect. 100% TRUE! Thank you for making this point.

lilcracker -> RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes (10/21/2012 5:25:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: Realbabygirl2 50 shades of grey might be but a man in bdsm would not treat a girl like crap and not care for her.a real master protects and provides. REAL Master is a subjective term and not everyone will view it the way you do. quote: you can't wake up and read 50 shades of grey say o i am submissive it does not work that way.you need to be born one and experienced. No one is born A submissive. Being A submissive is a learned behavior. You can naturally have a submissive personality but that does mean you're A submissive. quote: This is reality.are you ready to be in a cage and being beaten black and blue that what bdsm is you must enjoy the pain this not vanilla missionary style and trust is the main key in bdsm. That might be your reality, but it's certainly not mine. I'm never put in a cage and I'm rarely beaten black and blue. There are a large number of submissives in WIITWD that do not enjoy pain and do it because it makes their mates happy. There are people that engage in D/s and never engage in BDSM. There are people that engage in BDSM and never engage in D/s. quote: ORIGINAL: Realbabygirl2 get a trainer before starting this lifestyle.you can't become a sub or slave over night it takes years of experience. As has been covered many times in the forums....being trained is primarily bullshit unless it is for protocol or service skills. For someone that seems to think experience is important, your posts read like the bulk of yours has come from porn and internet fantasies. Thank you OsideGirl and I might add that those who hype about trust being the key are normally the ones who trust some guy to beat their ass black and blue but can't trust him enough to walk out of the house unsupervised because he might talk to someone of the opposite sex.

lilcracker -> RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes (10/21/2012 5:33:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sybercat1 I just fell it's rude to bring in someone who don't know what they are in for into a lifestyle they have no idea about. Umm gee whiz most people would not get a start then---because at least I for one had no idea what I was getting into when I started. I mean I was not born experienced or anything.

RinT -> RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes (10/27/2012 8:16:20 AM)
Well, sounds like some rated Fifty shades a good beginner's manual for our vanilla friends (in french) : http://www.marianne.net/50-shades-of-Grey-mode-d-emploi-moderne-du-sadomaso_a223534.html J.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes (10/27/2012 3:39:13 PM)
O just Farkin YAY on that. Now I'll have all my french relatives and friends reading the damn thing too. JUST what I need. [8\|]

BoundSlave4Life -> RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes (10/27/2012 3:48:53 PM)
quote: “I could recommend way hotter BDSM fiction, but I think Fifty Shades of Grey is a really great, mainstream way to get people sort of used to the idea,” says Morpheous, who has been in a master-slave relationship with his girlfriend for the last two and a half years. “Maybe 1,000 people read it, and maybe five people look up their local kinky social media site and get a chance to explore a little bit more – well, that’s five people that are going to be happier and little more satisfied with their sex life.” And THIS is my problem with 50SoG. Master/slave isn't about sex. There's a hell of a lot more to a Master/slave relationship then sex, and that's a misconception that's all too common in this lifestyle already. Now a crappy book made it a millions times worse.

Biandsubcur -> RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes (4/27/2013 9:36:10 PM)
For all that I knew better than to think that his penchant for BDSM was related to his past trauma, I still think that it was well researched, in that the negotiations for the contract rang true based on what I've read in Wiseman's "SM101" along with the SSC concept and the safe word topic. Let's not throw the baby out with the bath water here. BDSM is a preference just as much as gender, etc. And intelligent people reading the series will realize that. But again, let's give Mrs. James credit for the things she did right.

LafayetteLady -> RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes (4/27/2013 11:00:31 PM)
It's against TOS to post on threads more than 3 months old.

SwitchNSpanky -> RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes (5/29/2013 10:40:30 AM)
Hmmm. I've never read the books but was privy to all the rage the vanilla chicks were making of the books. I'll bet a thousand bucks that ten years from now nanny female kinks terms will be telling us how fifty shades brought them into our lifestyle. In exactly the same way as folks tell me they read "my side of the mountain" and were crazy about falconry ever since. Despite the fact that book is more falconry fantasy than reality. It gets folks started in our direction.

VideoAdminRho -> RE: Fifty Shades of Grey critics slam bondage stereotypes (5/29/2013 10:43:38 AM)
Please do not resurrect threads that are more than three months old.

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