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Finding the one? - 10/31/2004 6:32:38 PM

Borch

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Hello everyone,I'm just a tad frustrated I my search for the one to fill my desires.In north west Iowa there is not many places to go or people to mingle with and talk to.If anyone has any ideas on where to go for such meeting places please drop me a note.I'd really thank you much for such help.Thank you.

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RE: Finding the one? - 10/31/2004 6:48:27 PM

mastersslave1

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ORIGINAL: Borch

Hello everyone,I'm just a tad frustrated I my search for the one to fill my desires.In north west Iowa there is not many places to go or people to mingle with and talk to.If anyone has any ideas on where to go for such meeting places please drop me a note.I'd really thank you much for such help.Thank you.

Borch I know the frustration, I am fairly new to the scene and it has been suggested to go to muches and even been given web to go to but no one there to talk to. plus on shy side so don't like going to new things alone am in central wisc and want to meet more in lifestyle so you are not alone. mastersslave1

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RE: Finding the one? - 10/31/2004 8:26:51 PM

Estring

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My suggestion would be to move if possible.

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RE: Finding the one? - 10/31/2004 9:37:22 PM

RiotGirl

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It can be very difficult. I posted a message in postive experiences The One if you would like to read it. Its about basically the search I have had in looking for the right one. It gets long, hard, and very frustrating.. oh so frustrating. The internet can be a great place if you find it difficult to get out. Just keep looking. Make friends here.. it will help the wait and be good for you in the process. It will eventually happen. All things eventually happen, whether good or bad. = ) There are a few other sites like this you can go to as well.

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RE: Finding the one? - 11/2/2004 3:03:44 PM

blushes4u

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Well i have only been in this lifestlye for a short time and found coming to this forum has helped answer a lot of questions. But *sighs* I still am trying to find myself so until then the right one is beyond my reach.

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RE: Finding the one? - 11/2/2004 3:18:39 PM

subbiejenn

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Hi Borch

Trust me Your not alone! It is differcult to say the least but all good things are worth waiting for.

I live in the Southeast in a small town and not much around here either!

Don't give up, just keep exploring and something wonderful will happen. The "other side" of collar me is full of profiles with people looking and new ones added everyday. Wish i knew of a place for You to go and mingle in real life but i don't, maybe someone else will :)

I wish You luck and hope something wonderful turns up soon for You. Just hang in there *smiles*

~jenn~

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