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Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:03:10 PM   
dink22


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Status: offline 		Sorry. Not willing to let it die. I don't care how much people are sick of it, it IS sickly, and CM should at least TRY to stomp it out. It is my position that they have a moral responsibility to do so. They can either step up to the plate or be pussies. Let's see what they do.
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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:09:30 PM   
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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:09:34 PM   
searching4mysir


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Status: offline 		Why should financial domination be stamped out? Because it isn't your kink?

Since when did you become the final arbiter on morality?

BTW: There are male fin doms on this site as well as female.

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:10:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Dink- Why? Seriously, Why? Why do they have a 'moral obligation' to 'stomp out' user profiles for findommes? Who are you to say it isn't a valid kink, on both sides of the table? Just because it's not YOUR kink doesn't mean it isn't one, or that- even with the hordes of girls flocking to it with no other interest in BDSM- it shouldn't get the same respect or at least consideration others hope/expect for theirs?
Yes, the fakes are annoying- on both sides. But as long as there are suckers willing to send them money, they will be.
Still, that doesn't mean the kink itself is bad- just easy to abuse, like so many others.

edited: I remembered where I was going with this.

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:11:55 PM   
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I always find it interesting when the morality police show up on a kink site. I mean, really?

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:12:30 PM   
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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:12:42 PM   
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Why should financial domination be stamped out? Because it isn't your kink?

Since when did you become the final arbiter on morality?


There are lots of "kinks," but financial domination is not one of them. It's phony. It's sick. It's total bullshit, and the people who do it are phony and fucked up. Not real dommes, not real submissives.

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:16:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Dink22, just drop it and stop being a pussy. Your username really fits you well. hahahaha

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:16:52 PM   
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FR

I always find it interesting when the morality police show up on a kink site. I mean, really?

IKR?

I mean. I've seen the same sort of thing amongst LGBTQ groups when it comes to certain things. Where they should be promoting solidarity, they attack each other in order to separate themselves from 'the other' so as to make themselves look.. 'not so bad' as one put it to me once.
I sort of wonder if this isn't the same thing, here. What kink is it the op has that he's so ashamed of that he feels he has to go and attack someone elses?

edit: Meh, I'm outtie. I can tell this isn't going to be anything near a reasoning discussion.

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:17:21 PM   
Greta75


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Status: offline 		How is someone who wants to be financially dominated not a real submissive? That involves heavy submission for someone to do that.
Female subs who surrender all their money to their doms and let their doms control their money.

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:17:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

Why should financial domination be stamped out? Because it isn't your kink?

Since when did you become the final arbiter on morality?


There are lots of "kinks," but financial domination is not one of them. It's phony. It's sick. It's total bullshit, and the people who do it are phony and fucked up. Not real dommes, not real submissives.



Says you, but you see, when you can't even control your own money, then you truly have given up ALL your power. And not all financial domination is "buy me amazon gift cards, you worm".

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:19:02 PM   
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Dink22, just drop it and stop being a pussy. Your username really fits you well. hahahaha

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ooohhh....that's why he keeps going on!! Now we know his reason and his fetish!!!

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:20:01 PM   
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What kink is it the op has that he's so ashamed of that he feels he has to go and attack someone elses?

I tried to find out, but he hid his profile.

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:25:04 PM   
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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:29:10 PM   
dink22


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Status: offline 		I'm right. Most of you know I'm right. I'm looking out for, and being a sort of activist for, het female dominants/submissive males. We are probably the coolest people in American society, but our sexuality is less understood than the gay community. We're sort of like the heterosexual equivalent of being gay.

I am contemptuous of efforts to exploit our eccentric sexuality for profit. I see people who do this as revolting scum.

Sorry to upset your sensibilities.

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:32:02 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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We're sort of like the heterosexual equivalent of being gay.

WTF????

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:32:29 PM   
PrincessJessieJ


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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir


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ORIGINAL: dink22


quote:

ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

Why should financial domination be stamped out? Because it isn't your kink?

Since when did you become the final arbiter on morality?


There are lots of "kinks," but financial domination is not one of them. It's phony. It's sick. It's total bullshit, and the people who do it are phony and fucked up. Not real dommes, not real submissives.



Says you, but you see, when you can't even control your own money, then you truly have given up ALL your power. And not all financial domination is "buy me amazon gift cards, you worm".


Truth. It can also involve 'send me greendot refill cards, piggy!'

J/K.

It depends on the woman, but there's also taking their bills, figuring out how much they spend per month total and giving them an allowance to live on- deciding what YOU think they do and don't need, etcetera, etcetera, and so on.

In todays word, you need money to get just about everything-- keep a roof over your head, food on your plate, clothes on your back, etc.
Power is money. Money is power. The more money, the more power. When someone has taken your money from you, they've taken your power, your autonomy. They've taken the one thing, the one key to getting everything you need to survive in today's world on your own.
For a submissive man into findomme, it's a complete surrender to his Dom/me, allowing them to take over his (Or her, i've not forgotten about the ladies) completely in such a way that it can be damn near inescapable. Everything you have, you have because your master/mistress has allowed, from your internet connection to the shoes on your feet.
It's also responsibility for the dom/me. You still have to be sure your sub has everything they need, of course, once you've gotten to that point. Mind you, I'm not touching on the topic of financial ruination here- thats a whole nother bag of jumpin' beans entirely.

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:36:03 PM   
dink22


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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


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We're sort of like the heterosexual equivalent of being gay.

WTF????


Really? That's beyond you? Okay. You're obviously not among the people I was trying to reach. Please, don't try to understand. It will only distress you.

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:36:04 PM   
PrincessJessieJ


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ORIGINAL: dink22

I'm right. Most of you know I'm right. I'm looking out for, and being a sort of activist for, het female dominants/submissive males. We are probably the coolest people in American society, but our sexuality is less understood than the gay community. We're sort of like the heterosexual equivalent of being gay.

I am contemptuous of efforts to exploit our eccentric sexuality for profit. I see people who do this as revolting scum.

Sorry to upset your sensibilities.



Uhm, excuse you?

Coming from a lesbian--
Fuck you.
I'm out of patience.

So from what you've said here and before, you seem to think het femmedommes are the only valid femmedommes.
I'm thinking this has something to do with your particular fantasies. Because I'm willing to bet there are heterosexual femdommes out there who have female subs/slaves, to, just like there are possibly heterosexual dom men who have male subs/slaves.
not everything boils down to sex or sexual attraction.

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RE: Fin dommes - 7/14/2012 10:37:26 PM   
dink22


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ORIGINAL: PrincessJessieJ


quote:

ORIGINAL: dink22

I'm right. Most of you know I'm right. I'm looking out for, and being a sort of activist for, het female dominants/submissive males. We are probably the coolest people in American society, but our sexuality is less understood than the gay community. We're sort of like the heterosexual equivalent of being gay.

I am contemptuous of efforts to exploit our eccentric sexuality for profit. I see people who do this as revolting scum.

Sorry to upset your sensibilities.



Uhm, excuse you?

Coming from a lesbian--
Fuck you.
I'm out of patience.

So from what you've said here and before, you seem to think het femmedommes are the only valid femmedommes.
I'm thinking this has something to do with your particular fantasies. Because I'm willing to bet there are heterosexual femdommes out there who have female subs/slaves, to, just like there are possibly heterosexual dom men who have male subs/slaves.
not everything boils down to sex or sexual attraction.


But you're a lesbian. Sorry, you're in a different universe. But I wish you well.

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