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singlefedora -> Scening Switch Partners (7/27/2012 7:21:40 PM)
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So this will be my first post, but after last weekend, I think I'll try to record what I saw. I went to a play part at a local club in southern California. It wasn't packed but the people were nice and there were plenty of shows going on. I saw everything from humiliation to electrical play and off course some masterful flogging demonstrations. But what really captured my attention and stayed with me, was a couple playing in the corner.
This would be just an older average couple you would pass on the street, white, fit, tall but otherwise once of a thousand other couples I'd pass by everyday. Except that the woman was slow stripping the clothes off her man. Shirt, pants, underwear. She teased his cock until it got erect, hit it to make it bounce, put clothespins on it. She strapped him to a St. Andrews cross and started working him. Some light swats on his butt until she pulled out a flogger and start putting some power into it. Occasionally she would continue to make his cock bounce while giving him a respite. It went on quite a while and when it was over, he got dressed and they retreated deeper into teh club.
This hadn't captured my attention, sure I watched and they were a beautiful older couple but so what? There were tons of beautiful people scening right? Well I find myself back in the same room a little while later hearing the impact of a flogger and the moan of a woman. And Lo and behold, that same couple is back playing again. Only that very switch nature which I have come to embrace has played out before me. The man is in black leathers, teh woman wearing nothing at all but the redness on her ass. Such a seamless transition, no reservation on either of them as they played, no ackwardness as they switched roles. No resentment. Just a new persona they had each adopted. When the scene ended they disappeared again and I left without ever talking to them.
I may be romantizing what I saw, but this is what I am looking for. A true partner that can become my other half in my kink scenes. I have often seen confusion or just ignorance from longtime players in the lifestyle when the topic of my switchyness is brought up. It can become frustrating, trying to explain it to acquaintances hoping they become a play partner. Hoping they like you enough after talking for a while. Praying you don't get this dreaded phrase, "It's too bad you aren't a Dom (sub)."
What I saw that night at DragonsGate gives me hope. Switches are rare, switches that are interested in me will be rarer still. But I don't want to have to find a dom and sub to be happy. I want a switch, my switch. And now I've seen that it is possible to have just that.
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