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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:24:13 AM   
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THERE's a shocker....

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:25:53 AM   
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Actually Jhon, we are not imposing, or even hopeful of imposing. This forum has a long history of not accepting high protocol from rank armatures, um excuse me, rank newbies.


Now you attempt the vpice of reason...what a fuckin failure you are. It least have the courage of your conviction girl.

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:26:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JhonP

What you have encountered is consistent with their way is the only way.

I've been on this site a few weeks and during that time have read many previous posts and a few of the current postings without thoughts other then their demonstraiting collective insecurity and attempting to impose its short falls.

Dismiss what is said or use of it what you will but remember with 30 years of experience you are for the most part speaking with rank armatures.
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Toots, what you will find here is that he thinks his way is the only way, he's the one who's under the mistaken impression that he can tell us how to address him. Last time I checked BDSM titles aren't anything like academic titles that become part of your name and you can insist that you're addressed as Doctor.

As for amateurs (I assume you mean that, or are you thinking lustfully of bathroom tabs?), that would be somebody who's engaging without payment, now if you are looking for professionals, maybe you should consider MaxFisch.

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:26:59 AM   
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I think he would fair quite well in P & R.
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: JhonP

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Him being a leatherman with his 30 years of experience has no bearing to somebody like me, who has not one bit of interest in leather- aside from some of my clothes being made from it. I have respect for it, but he has no rank over me in that regard.


I anticipated nothing less than a barrage of blundering attempts to justify what you are hopeful of imposing.

How very predictable and easily manipulated.


Jhon, please speak English. MissA is trying to convince Roy that he cannot mosey here, state he has thirty years of experience, and impose his own protocol on our system.

They're not blundering attempts. No blunders at all. I'll grant you that, until Roy figures it out, they will have to be merely attempts, though.

Predictable? Yep, anyone who comes here without proper etiquette is told of it.

Easily manipulated? Who, and by what? You're not making sense.



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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:27:00 AM   
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My way is just that, MY way. I couldn't give a fuck if it works for anyone else or not. All I claimed was that claiming some form of authority doesn't mean shit to me, the last person to intimidate me was my father and he died over thirty years ago. I am opinionated, I have no qualms about speaking what I think and if that is an issue that's your problem not mine.
The gentle and un-fucking-assuming Cryptic.

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:27:31 AM   
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I'm not trying to tell you are wrong just trying to get to the an understanding as why things are so mixed up. I have for 25 yrs been secure in my dominance only trying to get a better understanding of this sites rules.

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:28:32 AM   
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FR:
No one knows if the OP is in the Leather lifestyle or not. We don't have a clue as to whether he is a leatherman. LadyPact was asking if that was the reason for his self-imposed title of Master. His supposed 30 years of BDSM experience also seem to be in question since no one knows him and can vouch for that, anyone can be anything on the internet, and he also seems to be making newbie mistakes. IMO, his need to posture also speaks volumes against his having much experience at all, it feels like insecurity- why would you be insecure in something if you've been doing it for so long?

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:30:04 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JhonP

quote:

Actually Jhon, we are not imposing, or even hopeful of imposing. This forum has a long history of not accepting high protocol from rank armatures, um excuse me, rank newbies.


Now you attempt the vpice of reason...what a fuckin failure you are. It least have the courage of your conviction girl.


Really?

How rude.

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:30:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JhonP




Now you attempt the vpice of reason...what a fuckin failure you are. It least have the courage of your conviction girl.



Get this straight Jhonboy, that I am a fucking failure in your eyes is something I am *proud* of.

My work here is done <takes an oh so humble bow.>




He has to call me "girl" to prove his point. My old debate team teacher would be rolling in her grave.

And, why do I get the feeling Jhonboy thinks switches "don't exist?"


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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:35:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

FR:
No one knows if the OP is in the Leather lifestyle or not. We don't have a clue as to whether he is a leatherman. LadyPact was asking if that was the reason for his self-imposed title of Master. His supposed 30 years of BDSM experience also seem to be in question since no one knows him and can vouch for that, anyone can be anything on the internet, and he also seems to be making newbie mistakes. IMO, his need to posture also speaks volumes against his having much experience at all, it feels like insecurity- why would you be insecure in something if you've been doing it for so long?



This.

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:35:12 AM   
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I'm not trying to tell you are wrong just trying to get to the an understanding as why things are so mixed up. I have for 25 yrs been secure in my dominance only trying to get a better understanding of this sites rules.


I thought it was 30?

You saying that we all must call you Master unless you say otherwise shows the very opposite of you being secure.

In a way, you just did the what some guys do in jail- bend somebody over to establish dominance.

Here is what to understand: we are all equals here. You are Master to the person(s) who serve under you.

Pretty easy. There is no mix up.

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:36:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

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ORIGINAL: JhonP




Now you attempt the vpice of reason...what a fuckin failure you are. It least have the courage of your conviction girl.



Get this straight Jhonboy, that I am a fucking failure in your eyes is something I am *proud* of.

My work here is done <takes an oh so humble bow.>




He has to call me "girl" to prove his point. My old debate team teacher would be rolling in her grave.

And, why do I get the feeling Jhonboy thinks switches "don't exist?"



*shudders*

flashbacks to ex...

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:37:43 AM   
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Good day to all. Please return to the welcome party and leave other comments for another area, other than Introductions.

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:38:38 AM   
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I have 30 yrs experience that anyone here may draw upon. I'm known. Simply as Master Roy not Roy that is very disrespectful unless I give you the permission to do so. I'm here looking for a true slave for a ltr of love and respect. Believe that is the most important in even the most basic relationship.


quote:

Ok I can see that in some ways this clan is lax.
When it comes to proper respect it is lax but in other places it is formal. I'm confused many are called by their given name which is lax and a little informal ( if you can not call a Master as proper respect would indicate then I will allow you to address me as either REJ or Gene ).

I can not understand why text talk is frowned which is informal as not using proper formal address is not followed but text talk is not allowed because any posting must use formal writing, very strange rules since in being formal you use whatever the persons proper address when writing to them and formal writing. Yet when I use a persons first name I write as though they are a friend using shorthand when possible.



quote:

I'm not trying to tell you are wrong just trying to get to the an understanding as why things are so mixed up. I have for 25 yrs been secure in my dominance only trying to get a better understanding of this sites rules.


Can you spell backspin, babies ??


Note that Roy addressed one of the male dominants in the forum !!

Um ah, I posted before you came in Theta.

Yeah, welcome Roy, hope you like our lil neck of the woods, we are all so friendly and tolerant of bull crappy.

Oh hell, I *tried.*


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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:39:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Master56RoyJ

I'm not trying to tell you are wrong just trying to get to the an understanding as why things are so mixed up. I have for 25 yrs been secure in my dominance only trying to get a better understanding of this sites rules.


this isn't so much about rules as etiquette.

Round here the etiquette is fairly simple. Unless you're in the gorean forum where titles seem to be de riguer, everywhere else we're all equals unless we're in a dynamic.

I have friends on here who are dominant males and females, and I address them by their chosen name, but without a title (except for LadyP who has greatly earned my respect in many ways). They do the same to me.

I'm Master's slave, and no-one has the right to call me 'slave', 'girl' or any name of that ilk except for him. Similarly, I don't call anyone else Master because they aren't my Master. They're just people who have claimed a rank for themselves.

Just relax, kick back and see how the place works. For the most place it's quite good fun and very educational. There are the occasional trolls who come in just to cause drama and feed their need for attention, but mostly it's a good place.

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:39:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum


quote:

ORIGINAL: Master56RoyJ

I'm not trying to tell you are wrong just trying to get to the an understanding as why things are so mixed up. I have for 25 yrs been secure in my dominance only trying to get a better understanding of this sites rules.


I thought it was 30?

You saying that we all must call you Master unless you say otherwise shows the very opposite of you being secure.

In a way, you just did the what some guys do in jail- bend somebody over to establish dominance.

Here is what to understand: we are all equals here. You are Master to the person(s) who serve under you.

Pretty easy. There is no mix up.



once again, I adore you :)

(I'm still giggling over the "son" and reference to me as a "he" in another couple of posts)

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:41:01 AM   
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SOrry, Theta. I AM trying to be good! (notice I didn't go into serious slam mode!! LOL)

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:42:13 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JhonP

quote:

Actually Jhon, we are not imposing, or even hopeful of imposing. This forum has a long history of not accepting high protocol from rank armatures, um excuse me, rank newbies.


Now you attempt the vpice of reason...what a fuckin failure you are. It least have the courage of your conviction girl.


Wouldn't it be time that you attempt some English lessons?

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:42:13 AM   
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I understand the last four posts were being typed as I posted. So from here and on, Welcome or move on.

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RE: New Master in the house - 7/29/2012 7:43:13 AM   
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Welcome, Ray.

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