touchdeep
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Two hot pieces of D/s for me are (speaking from the D side for the moment) Things You Do TO Them and Things you MAKE Them Do (the latter makes my submissive side tingle, just writing it). Make her do things to you that you like having done. A back massage, foot rub, hair stroking, toe nail polishing (using her mouth to hold the applicator, of course), and other personal service things. Make her dress, from the skin out, exactly like you want her. TELL her that you control her in every way (even if you feel like you don't!) Make her tell you in detail, exactly what she needs or wants. These things don't have to be sexual, per se. She wants, I presume, to submit to your will. Let her! The hot sex (just the way YOU want it, of course!) will follow! Things to do to her (presuming you KNOW what she likes and does not like): Pull her hair (close to the roots, while standing behind her) and tilt her head back. Give her little I-control-you swats on the butt. If you're in the car, tighten her seat belt after she puts it on. make her get out and open your door, or any door, for that matter. Make her walk in front of you so you can admire her walk--and discomfort. If you're the same size, make her wear a pair of your favorite panties, clean or dirty (okay, I'm a panty-loving guy. Woman may find this less interesting). This is fun (and hot!), and I could sit her and do it for quite a while! I'll bet you can, too, if you start writing your ideas down (Tip: Make cheat notes for yourself. I do.) Hope this helps! touchdeep
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