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anal training - 6/10/2006 3:31:15 PM

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MY ex Mistress wanted meke me deeper analy. IS it possible or healthy? maby dangerous. I have some objections. Do u have any experiences or informations?

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RE: anal training - 6/10/2006 7:40:13 PM

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MY ex Mistress wanted meke me deeper analy. IS it possible or healthy? maby dangerous. I have some objections. Do u have any experiences or informations?

Several good books:
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women (works for men too)
Trust: The Handballing Book
Anal Pleasure and Health

I don't know how much "deeper" you mean, but I've seen men in each other's asses to the point their elbow was touching the other guy's anus. It is tricky and takes practice. For one thing, the intestines twist and turn, starting with a sharp 90 degree turn only a few inches in from the secondary sphincter.

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RE: anal training - 6/10/2006 8:33:35 PM

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OUCHIE!.... thanks Mr Warren... make me want to close up an never be entered again...LOL.

Yes.. I too have seen this possible. Patients... and lots of more. Relaxation...and lots more.... and please... take Mr Warrens advice.. read.... learn...and do it again..

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RE: anal training - 6/10/2006 8:38:11 PM

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If she's your ex mistress, then what she wanted in hindsight, is neither here nor there is it.

So be a man, and own your question. You would like a mistress to go deep into your arse, is this safe? how can this be done with skill? And the answer is in the books John mentions im sure.
Then once youve gotten the answer, you'll have to find a politically correct way of requesting this be considered by the next future mistress. Then you have to be trained to go to your special place. OR, you could start on yourself now. But im not sure what Dom/mes think, but if i were a top, id want the pleasure of the progression of training to be shared with me, not alone before meeting me. Greedy i guess?
So, perhaps, if you can resist sticking things up your arse for a while, and i know that can be a difficult time lol. Be strong lol
Good luck in your search
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RE: anal training - 6/10/2006 8:45:45 PM

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OUCHIE!.... thanks Mr Warren... make me want to close up an never be entered again...LOL.

Yes.. I too have seen this possible. Patients... and lots of more. Relaxation...and lots more.... and please... take Mr Warrens advice.. read.... learn...and do it again..

Oh, yes... almost forgot. The gloves are available from veterinarian supply houses

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RE: anal training - 6/10/2006 10:32:30 PM

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There are also disadvantages that you should make sure you look into, owning a slave with an ass like a clowns pocket might be fun for certain types of anal play though for some people it can result in them loosing control over how their bowels move. A good tip for someone who has been opened up too far is that they should insert a mini butt plug and concentrate their minds on slowly clenching and releasing on it, that should help to tighten them up a bit.

I see you are bi also, you should keep in mind that if you go on to serve a master after you have received heavy anal training they might not appreciate you having saggy anal lips because they prefer their “Mr Happy” to be able to “touch the door frame” when he “enters a building”.

You could also try looking on google for the term “prolapsed rectum” though if you are of a delicate constitution and there are any pictures on the sites you find you might want someone standing by with a large brandy and some smelling salts.

I don’t want to put you off being anally trained, personally I like fisting a well trained boi occasionally though I usually find websites that have lots of information on anal training tend not to have too much information on the disadvantages of doing it. I think the only time where anal training might be considered somewhat dangerous is when the person doing it to the slave does not know what they are doing. I think if you allow yourself to be trained you should make sure the person who is doing it to you has either practical experience of doing it or has read as much information as they can find on the subject.

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RE: anal training - 6/10/2006 10:53:44 PM

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I see you are bi also, you should keep in mind that if you go on to serve a master after you have received heavy anal training they might not appreciate you having saggy anal lips because they prefer their “Mr Happy” to be able to “touch the door frame” when he “enters a building”.

You could also try looking on google for the term “prolapsed rectum” though if you are of a delicate constitution and there are any pictures on the sites you find you might want someone standing by with a large brandy and some smelling salts.

Maybe it's because it is near 2:00 am and I should be in bed sleeping for a very busy day tomorrow...but.....

I read this and couldn't stop laughing till the tears were streaming down my face.

Thanks for the interesting (and informative) post!

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RE: anal training - 6/11/2006 2:27:56 PM

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ok....

this thread has put the "big scare" in me

walks.......no........

runs away screaming

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RE: anal training - 6/11/2006 7:45:49 PM

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ok....

this thread has put the "big scare" in me

walks.......no........

runs away screaming

Pffff why are you scared? Anuses are not scary, its not like they have teeth or anything.

Did you go looking for a picture of a prolapsed rectum? If so I recommend trying to visualise it as being a basket of raw liver rather than part of someone’s body that might help you to cope with the image better.

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RE: anal training - 6/11/2006 7:55:52 PM

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ok....

this thread has put the "big scare" in me

walks.......no........

runs away screaming

Pffff why are you scared? Anuses are not scary, its not like they have teeth or anything.

Did you go looking for a picture of a prolapsed rectum? If so I recommend trying to visualise it as being a basket of raw liver rather than part of someone’s body that might help you to cope with the image better.

Whats scary is all this talk of lose anus and stuff. Can regular anal sex (with cock, not forearms) cause a case of lose ass or prolapsed anus?

<hell, I dont care, I'll be the one to ask>

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RE: anal training - 6/11/2006 8:41:48 PM

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ok....

this thread has put the "big scare" in me

walks.......no........

runs away screaming

Pffff why are you scared? Anuses are not scary, its not like they have teeth or anything.

Did you go looking for a picture of a prolapsed rectum? If so I recommend trying to visualise it as being a basket of raw liver rather than part of someone’s body that might help you to cope with the image better.

Whats scary is all this talk of lose anus and stuff. Can regular anal sex (with cock, not forearms) cause a case of lose ass or prolapsed anus?

<hell, I dont care, I'll be the one to ask>

No, the anus would become less tight if it was subjected to lots of fucking though I would not describe it as being loose. For most people it would take a lot of seriously heavy anal play before they were able to prolapse their rectum or for it to prolapse accidentally, some people like to prolapse it because they think it looks pretty.

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RE: anal training - 6/11/2006 8:46:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: mtumwawaBwana

ok....

this thread has put the "big scare" in me

walks.......no........

runs away screaming

Pffff why are you scared? Anuses are not scary, its not like they have teeth or anything.

Did you go looking for a picture of a prolapsed rectum? If so I recommend trying to visualise it as being a basket of raw liver rather than part of someone’s body that might help you to cope with the image better.

Whats scary is all this talk of lose anus and stuff. Can regular anal sex (with cock, not forearms) cause a case of lose ass or prolapsed anus?

<hell, I dont care, I'll be the one to ask>

No, the anus would become less tight if it was subjected to lots of fucking though I would not describe it as being loose. For most people it would take a lot of seriously heavy anal play before they were able to prolapse their rectum or for it to prolapse accidentally, some people like to prolapse it because they think it looks pretty.

ah...well...Thats a relief. Thanks for the info.

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RE: anal training - 6/12/2006 3:03:31 AM

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Thanks for the info too. Im on that path, think i might just back up a little, or not, as the case might be.
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RE: anal training - 6/12/2006 6:34:44 AM

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Thanks for the info too. Im on that path, think i might just back up a little, or not, as the case might be.
little1

For me, the best thing is to go to some published books and get information rather than relying completely on what's talked about on a message board.

Two excellent books are Anal Pleasure and Health and Trust: The Handballing Book.

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RE: anal training - 6/12/2006 6:45:16 AM

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ok....

this thread has put the "big scare" in me

walks.......no........

runs away screaming

Pffff why are you scared? Anuses are not scary, its not like they have teeth or anything.

Did you go looking for a picture of a prolapsed rectum? If so I recommend trying to visualise it as being a basket of raw liver rather than part of someone’s body that might help you to cope with the image better.

i've seen a prolapsed rectum first hand (no not mine lol) not a pretty picture 9tho i admit the circumstances really sucked )and honestly not anything i would recommend googling if you are into anal play. i suppose unless you WANT to be scared off of it.

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