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Asfixation -> RE: My Dilemma (8/31/2012 6:12:22 AM)
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So many of you are in, or have had fulfilling BDSM relationships. When my youngest leaves, I would still arguably be young enough at 57 to leave my wife and look for submissive bliss in a new relationship. But I would be leaving everything I have here: 30 years of history, the laughs, the love, the family
I do indeed have a fulfilling bdsm relationship but ONLY because it has so many more elements to it than kink. We love, we laugh, we co-create. I struck gold. But it has come a a huge personal cost, of three past marriages, experimental sexuality on both sides of the whip.
So many male subs look for discrete moments of submission with pro Dommes and I would suggest this: at least it would be a way of exploring and getting your submissive urges satisfied withut throwing 30 years of life away.
You may have to make hard choices....but my motto now is that 'lifealways turns out to be right'.
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