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dea2542 -> frustrated (8/31/2012 3:54:46 AM)

help!!! what am i doing wrong?? is it suppose to be this difficult??




DarkSteven -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 3:58:12 AM)

1. What are you trying to do?
2. Why is your profile hidden?




GotSteel -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 5:45:45 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: dea2542
help!!! what am i doing wrong?? is it suppose to be this difficult??


First of all welcome to the forums.

It's not terribly unusual for new posters to give us too little information when asking a question, you're following that trend *shrug*

What is it that you're trying to do and finding difficult? Without knowing that it'll be hard for us to give useful responses.




UllrsIshtar -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 6:45:02 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: dea2542

help!!! what am i doing wrong?? is it suppose to be this difficult??


You mean finding a BDSM partner, and having a BDSM relationship?

Euhm, maybe because finding a partner and having a relationship is hard... and BDSM doesn't magically fix all of life's issues and doesn't suddenly make hard things easy.





LadyPact -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 6:49:37 AM)

This shit is hard? I must be on the wrong thread.




pyschosubmission -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 6:57:39 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

This shit is hard? I must be on the wrong thread.



Or the wrong diet...




OsideGirl -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 7:26:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

This shit is hard? I must be on the wrong thread.



Or the wrong diet...


Cheeky......


To the OP: If winning were easy, losers would do it.

Finding someone in general is hard, whether it's vanilla or something else.




LadyPact -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 7:36:44 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

This shit is hard? I must be on the wrong thread.



Or the wrong diet...

Probably not the right thing to say to Me considering what happens when one is attempting to quit smoking.




SlipSlidingAway -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 7:42:19 AM)

More info please?

In general, most stuff worth having is difficult to attain or acquire.  It takes time, effort, commitment and resources.   I have no idea if you are doing anything wrong.

However, most likely yes, it is supposed to be this difficult.  It's how you come to the point where you appreciate whatever it is you have when you finally  get there.

Best of everything,
SSA~




pyschosubmission -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 7:43:37 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Probably not the right thing to say to Me considering what happens when one is attempting to quit smoking.



I live on the edge (from the safety of the internet)

You too? It sucks don't it?
I failed after a week lol




TNDommeK -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 11:07:13 AM)

It was pretty funny though. But kudos to you LP for trying to quit. You can do it, just takes mind control, and I know you got that. Good luck!!




LadyHibiscus -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 11:10:20 AM)

Yes. It is absolutely this hard, always.

Hope this helps.




littlewonder -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 2:10:44 PM)

If you suck at "vanilla" relationships, you will suck at bdsm relationships. It's not any different whatsoever.




chemeli -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 2:33:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Yes. It is absolutely this hard, always.

Hope this helps.



I laughed out loud at this.

Edited to say to the OP : if it's too easy, it's not always worth it. If it's too hard, either you're on the wrong track or you're having a challenge and changing attitude towards it (it's a challenge, so it's exciting) may help with things.

Exception made to eating ice cream. That's always easy and worth it.




littleone35 -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 3:14:12 PM)

Would love to help. I need to know what you are refering to.

Matt's littleone




WestBaySlave -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 4:41:03 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: dea2542

help!!! what am i doing wrong?? is it suppose to be this difficult??



I know! I just took up the bassoon last week and it's not at all like playing the horn. Embouchure is totally different, never mind fingering which is, like, crazy. It's really starting fresh on this thing, and I sound like a dying elephant.

Dea2542, you are not alone in this.




pyschosubmission -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 8:37:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: WestBaySlave

I know! I just took up the bassoon last week and it's not at all like playing the horn.


I like you [:D]




ARIES83 -> RE: frustrated (8/31/2012 9:29:30 PM)

I actually wrote a big helpful reply to your
last post that got pulled...

For those that didn't see it, it was something
like: "why is it so hard to find someone"
from memory...

You are seriously not giving enough
information... I'm not going to run down
all the things I said before...

Just elaborate what your talking about if
you expect help/advice.

-ARIES




JanahX -> RE: frustrated (9/1/2012 3:34:38 AM)

Dont know - dont care -




Buzzzz -> RE: frustrated (9/1/2012 4:47:04 AM)

quote:

quote:

ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

This shit is hard? I must be on the wrong thread.



Or the wrong diet...


Cheeky......


To the OP: If winning were easy, losers would do it.

Finding someone in general is hard, whether it's vanilla or something else.


< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 8/31/2012 7:28:06 AM >

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(in reply to pyschosubmission)

So true




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