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Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/2/2012 11:52:05 PM   
yugla


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Joined: 1/14/2005
Status: offline 		After a decade just wondering if the forums/ chat rooms are more akin to use to meet others who may share similar interests? My ex and I met a few subs here but only because of her. Just wondering if CM is a couples only web based social networking.



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RE: Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/2/2012 11:55:34 PM   
DeviantlyD


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Status: offline 		Since this is the "Introduce yourself" forum, I'll dispense with the formalities first and say welcome to the forums!

To answer your question, no, collarme/collarchat is not a couples only web based social networking site. There are couples on this site, but there are singles and poly families too. Enjoy! :)

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RE: Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/2/2012 11:59:17 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Waving hi from one of those poly families.

I'm not quite sure that I understand your post, OP. If the gal in your life is using the site successfully to meet women for the two of you, I'm not sure I understand the issue.


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RE: Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/3/2012 1:56:36 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If the gal in your life is using the site successfully to meet women for the two of you, I'm not sure I understand the issue.



LadyP, the issue is that she's an ex.

OP, the ironic part here is that there are numerous posts from couples complaining how hard it is for them to find compatible female subs. Evidently your ex did a super job. If you use a tenth the effort she did in finding a woman, you should be fine.

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RE: Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/3/2012 11:19:18 PM   
Shininglight23


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Status: offline 		OP,

Welcome!

I hope you find what you're looking for... I wish you luck and patience.

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RE: Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/5/2012 9:23:26 PM   
yugla


Posts: 67
Joined: 1/14/2005
Status: offline 		I was saying that after 10 years - I had joined back in 2001 or 2 after a divorce - I recall that CM was more of a couples sight then and not really a place for single men.
I alone never met any one on here but my ex GF, we met a few guys / subs for a drink or a drink with a couple.

Some one once had said use the chat rooms / forums to get to know people so I was not sure if perhaps that is more akin for single men looking to meet others in the lifestyle.
A recent visit to a chat room to read the banter, kind of shied me away as I was asked to leave because my name is capital Y ugla and not y ugla... But it also may have been a chat room for only female Dommes.


PS Dark Steven and Lady Pact - No we never met any females on CM. (Although she was bi). I don't mean one night stand hookups or 'play'; Meet for a drink and see if we click. That is correct we are not together any more.


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RE: Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/6/2012 4:10:36 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Hey there Old Timer, put down the walking sticks and take a seat.

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RE: Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/9/2012 4:49:52 PM   
yugla


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Status: offline 		Yeah you're right. This life style and web based social networking platforms do not mix well. If when I was 32 I was just on the edge of old fuck, being 44 is . . .





When a woman considers a man is charmless it is a sad thing.. When women consider me harmless it is an even sadder thought.

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RE: Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/9/2012 4:53:43 PM   
LanceHughes


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ORIGINAL: yugla
Yeah you're right. This life style and web based social networking platforms do not mix well. If when I was 32 I was just on the edge of old fuck, being 44 is . . .

Lance, at 62, is "still a'ticking" and uses this site to find single, gay males.  YMWV = Your Mileage Will Vary. LOL!

ETA: You'll get out of this site exactly what you put into it. 

< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 9/9/2012 4:56:25 PM >

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RE: Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/9/2012 6:49:03 PM   
searching4mysir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: yugla

Yeah you're right. This life style and web based social networking platforms do not mix well. If when I was 32 I was just on the edge of old fuck, being 44 is . . .





When a woman considers a man is charmless it is a sad thing.. When women consider me harmless it is an even sadder thought.




Well. considering at 43 I met my 52-yr old Master last year on this site, I'd say your perspective may be a bit skewed.

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RE: Old Timer in CT w/? - 9/9/2012 6:58:55 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		Hmm, being 56 hasn't slowed me down any. Good luck OP

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