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Can a Master please explain how you feel about seeing a... - 9/9/2012 7:05:52 PM   
ScarlettSummer


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Status: offline 		I just want to know, when your sub is standing fully nude in front of you, what are you looking at?
The nude body form?
The imperfections?
What is it about a completely nude sub that you like. Or maybe you don't like your sub fully nude? Why?
Do scars and imperfections bother you or are you beyond that?
Thank you in advance for your answers.
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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:16:15 PM   
ScarlettSummer


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Status: offline 		Is this a bad question to ask?

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:17:57 PM   
Baroana


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Status: offline 		This is your first post, so I didn't want to be unwelcoming..... I was gonna let other people answer you (I'm not a male dom anyway).

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:20:40 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		I might be self conscious under ordinary circumstances but when he orders me to get naked I start to slip into sub space and get over it.

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:23:08 PM   
Baroana


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The thing to always keep in mind about dominants, subs, switches, male, female whatever, is that they all are just regular people. Any one of them that tries to convince you otherwise is a delusional turd.

So, your question boils down to asking how a man views a naked woman. Are all men the same? I doubt that. Your question seems to imply that you have insecurities about yourself, and you hope that a relationship with a dominant will somehow make it easier for you to deal with that. If I'm way off the mark, feel free to correct me.

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:26:11 PM   
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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:31:51 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Men like naked women. In front of them. Where they can touch them and stuffs.

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:33:38 PM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		Every man could have a different answer
to this stuff...

Why do you ask?
Are you asking, if a Dom/Master was to
stand you naked infront of him, what is
his reason for doing it and what is he
looking for?

Because he wants to.
Is my answer until I get a less open
question.


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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:39:03 PM   
smartsub10


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Men like naked women. In front of them. Where they can touch them and stuffs.


I couldn't put it more eloquently.

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:40:31 PM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		The only thing better than a naked woman standing in front of me is a naked woman handing me a beer.

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:41:12 PM   
CRYPTICLXVI


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ORIGINAL: ScarlettSummer

I just want to know, when your sub is standing fully nude in front of you, what are you looking at?
The nude body form?
The imperfections?
What is it about a completely nude sub that you like. Or maybe you don't like your sub fully nude? Why?
Do scars and imperfections bother you or are you beyond that?
Thank you in advance for your answers.


Oh fucking Christ... here goes, just for you LadyHib.

In a relationship, any relationship, D/s or otherwise, the person you are with are more than their form. The more you feel for them, the less the physical means... I have known women I thought were physically beautiful until I got to know them and eventually they became nauseating to look at. Just as anyone I have been with becomes more beautiful the more that I feel for them... It is relative. By the end of a relationship, they are all unappealing.

Nobody is perfect, period. Everyone has flaws, real or perceived, most people have issues about how they look, I don't give a damn how attractive they might be, she'll tell you how her nose is too big, her lips are a bit off, her eyes are too far apart, blemishes, faults, differences, etc. Granted there are some people that I personally just do not find attractive, just as some people look at me and wince. Still, overall, most people just look like people...

As for scars, imperfections, etc... that has more to do with how you see yourself. I was with someone for a short period of time in my twenties who had a scar that ran from just under her collarbone down her abdomen and ended right above her pubes, it was huge, red, obvious... and didn't mean a good goddamn to me then. Still appreciated her naked. There were other issues and it didn't last long but her scar was not one of them.


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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 7:55:06 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		See, Hilly and Cryptic agree with me. Just make sure you know what kind of beer he likes.



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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 8:11:46 PM   
BouncyBoo


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Status: offline 		I'm not your target audience here but... seriously? I know what guys I've been with are thinking when they see me naked, and it is (a) BOOBIES and/or (b) Hmm... what to do what to do... (The male mind isn't that complex here. )

So even if I'm not comfortable with my own body, it's more amusing to think about what they are thinking about.

Because seriously, those are probably it.

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 8:15:04 PM   
Kaliko


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ScarlettSummer

I just want to know, when your sub is standing fully nude in front of you, what are you looking at?
The nude body form?
The imperfections?
What is it about a completely nude sub that you like. Or maybe you don't like your sub fully nude? Why?
Do scars and imperfections bother you or are you beyond that?
Thank you in advance for your answers.



I don't think it's a bad question to ask, and I think answers could very well be different for a D/s relationship compared to a relationship of any type. Of course, someone we care about is more attractive to us, and someone we don't like is less so. But specifically D/s related...sure, I think there could be reasons.

Though I'm not a dominant myself, I know from talking with some that a submissive in the nude is that submissive being exposed - and not just physically. I do think that the dominant mind - specifically that of someone who has a relationship with the submissive - is, indeed, looking for flaws and imperfections, because those are now his imperfections as well. That doesn't mean he's casting a critical eye. Just an inquisitive one - to be knowledgeable about the body that is given to him. Perhaps someone can correct me if I'm way off base. (And, of course, it doesn't apply to everyone, blah blah blah insert disclaimer here.)


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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 8:16:00 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		And guys, I hope y'all know I'm not running you down. If I have a naked man that I'm partial to in my..um...grasp? There is not a lot of critical thinking going on.

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 8:18:58 PM   
DOM68005


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Status: offline 		Her nudity is her indication of her submission. I am enjoying her submission awaiting instructions or actions on my part. Being human, I am somewhat unpredictable as to what I will do next. I don't always start at the breasts, ass or another body area.

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 8:30:53 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		What a strange question.

I am sure people who have seen me naked have thought all sorts of things.

I doubt anyone could give you a standard reply.

If I see someone naked, my reaction depends on whether I am with them, into them, or if I see a random naked person.

It varies. That is your answer.

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 8:36:28 PM   
vield


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Status: offline 		If I am a dominant male with a naked female exposed in front of me, I will admire the view if she is not MY sub or slave, and nod my thanks to her master or mistress if she has one and they are present. I will also appreciatively look over her body for evidence of any marks her dominant likes to mark her with.

If it is MY property exposing herself to me and feeling vulnerable, I may reach out and caress any of her "bits" that I feel like enjoying.

In this case I will know whether she is a shy person for whom this exposure is difficult and if so I will appreciate her efforts and blushes.

I will also know if she is an exhibitionist who gets off exposing herself.

I will probably know if she is a bratty sub seeking a spanking (this will VERY rarely work), or if she is a wonderfully horny slut who hopes her exposure will get her fucked quicker.

In most cases I will be looking at her pussy and inner thighs to see if she is dripping yet. She will know I LIKE that.

Different submissives have different rules in their lives. Some are allowed to have intercourse with other people, either because I order it, or because they are married to someone else but slave to me. In these cases I will probably probe her with my fingers to see whether or not she is full of cream.

The fact that I may be dom and she may be sub does not imply that there is any relationship between us. Or that there is not one.

In any case, I find female bodies of all sizes, shapes, legal ages, power preferences, original genders and differences of races and diversities of preference to be interesting and attractive. I very much enjoy seeing them. If they belong to me I enjoy all else that we consent to do together.





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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 8:43:25 PM   
Endivius


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Status: offline 		How do I feel? Hm...probably aroused, or at least attentive.

What am I thinking about? All blood has gone south, probably on auto pilot..

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RE: Can a Master please explain how you feel about seei... - 9/9/2012 9:40:10 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I can't speak for him but being this is something I was insecure with before my liposuction, I would try to wear at least a robe to hide myself because I hated my shape. But he does like me nude and when I start being insecure again, he says something along the lines that he likes my body and being his slave, I have no right to be insecure about his property. He feels I am abusing his property when I do that. I'm still struggling with that to a point but it's getting easier.

Since my surgery though I've become more secure with myself except on days when I feel swollen but he knows I have days of swelling and it's not a big deal. He likes my flaws, dimples, birth marks, because it's what makes me who I am.

Oh, and he likes the scars, marks and bruises on my body that are done by him. He's pretty proud of those marks, kinda like marking territory. He's not that thrilled with my bruises and cuts though when I'm being a klutz though lol. He will usually just snicker and tease about not destroying his property.

ETA: I was just thinking how I've become more secure with my body lately and it seems to rub off on him lately and he seems to notice my security now and this makes him happier with me. When I was insecure it was more of a problem for him to do things with me because I was not happy and those emotions tend to rub off on your partner I think.


< Message edited by littlewonder -- 9/9/2012 9:48:22 PM >

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