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kiwisub12 -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 2:00:31 PM)

oh oh - your journey of trying to create a genuine female experience sounds a lot like subs who think the kneeling makes them submissive. Its not what your body does that makes you submissive, but whats in your mind...... thinking this may be the same for TGs.

The only TG i have known well was pretransition and looked as masculine as my sweetie. It blew my mind when he told me what he was embarking on.... but when he said he felt he was in the wrong body, i felt very sympathetic. It must be hell to not look on the outside the way you feel on the inside.



Jenniferloves -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 3:11:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Some do call their ass their vagina and wish to experience what a vagina experiences. It is the closest thing to a vagina they are going to have unless they have surgery. It is easy to understand wanting to feel or experience everything a woman feels and experiences. So I can understand how you might look at a butt plug as a tampon as it might be the safest thing to use that will stay put. As to the rest of it, I can't say, but I can understand the feeling or the need. What we women have suffered through, you cannot know and what we wouldn't welcome, you might because you have never felt it and wish to know what it is like.

That has to be pretty frustrating, so do what works for you and I hope you find some things that aren't frustrating and are fulfilling.


Thank you Lockit, I guess the first sentence explains most of the stories I hear from Trans-People and the idea of the OP was not lead the conversation any way. It was designed to have it as broad as possible so many could contribute their thoughts. Yours, I have to say was along the right path, Top marks [:)] and that is for just having an open mind!




Jenniferloves -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 3:20:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ARIES83

I've noticed that there is a common occurrence
of the more regular posters (mainly female subs)
posting in threads where the OP is asking Male
experience specific questions.

The OP asked for the opinion of Trans people.
Not only was the question not directed at you,
and your opinion wasn't asked for, short of
asking any Trans friends of yours you have no
way of answering the question.
So whether you all understand or not is
irrelevant.

Unless you are Trans or planning on asking
someone who is Trans, nobody cares if you
understand or not.

-Aries

Hi Aries, thanks for the response. Yes you are right, the question was directed for Trans-Orientated People. Although not exclusively so either, maybe some male subs might want to contribute.

All are welcome to contribute their thoughts genetic or trans girls and of course the boys.[;)]

However, as we T-girls like to step into feminine shoes, I'd ask all that contribute to walk in those shoes from perhaps put forward ideas from the "Tran" perspective.




Jenniferloves -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 5:42:34 PM)

I was unable to re-edit, so correction to my last sentence in last post is in Bold

However, as we T-girls like to step into feminine shoes, I'd ask all that contribute to walk in those shoes and perhaps put forward ideas from the "Tran" perspective.
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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 6:10:17 PM)

There are not that many transfolk on the boards, Jenniferloves.



hausboy -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 8:27:55 PM)

OP
There are a few different ways to look at this.
example: there are some bio-males who eroticize cross-dressing as women without the desire to be a woman. It doesn't matter if they don't really look feminine or womanly--the experience for them can sometimes be just the humiliation of cross dressing. So in that same vein, I have heard similar comments from bio-males who weren't interested in the actual experience of menstruation, but had erotic association with the humiliation of a simulated "period."

Most of the transwomen I know have said they would actually give ANYTHING to experience a real period....and although it certainly boggles MY mind why, it isn't really different from trans-guys (pre-hormones) who long to shave when a lot of guys absolutely hate the pain-in-the-ass hassle of daily shaving.

If it floats your boat to pop in a butt plug and fantasize it's a tampon---go for it.

If you're more interested in experiencing a period.... I suggest the following.
1. Buy a pair of pants that are three sizes too small and squeeze into them
2. Drink about eight or nine McDonalds milkshakes followed by an ExLax and hold 'em in--that should give you the bloating, gas and cramps...not to mention the inevitable aftermath.
3. Don't sleep for about 5 days-- you know you're about right when the Folgers commercials make you cry.... and the beer commercials piss you off. And you hate everyone. Everyone. And you'll have no idea why but you know you're right.
4. Eat a pint of chocolate haagen daas.....chase it with a bag of chips....follow by a medium-rare steak.
5. If the buttplug doesn't work for you and you want the pad experience....just go straight to the sandpaper on your genitals to get the full effect of chaffing.
6. Repeat Steps 1 through 5 for a good 7 days straight.

And if you want an extra bonus....have someone hit your nuts with a sledgehammer, then go to a GYN who will tell you that the pain is perfectly normal because he believes endometriosis is over diagnosed.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 8:30:38 PM)

And there you have it! Thanks, Haus![:D]



Duskypearls -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 8:44:33 PM)

Oh Haus, that's some imagination you've got, and that pretty much covers it. One of the best things about menopause, is not menstruating anymore.



kitkat105 -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 8:51:54 PM)

Oh boy.. that made me do sad lulz, because that's pretty much what it's like. Granted, since getting a Mirena it's a bit better but it's a different pain now.



LadyPact -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:01:00 PM)

Thank you, hausboy!!!!



DarkSteven -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:08:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I think, realistically, any transgendered female has to come to the acceptance that, even if they get the surgery, they are never going to have a menstrual cycle. Most cis gender females (I hope I got that term right) would be glad not having it and all that comes with it.

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Slight hijack, LadyPact, but transwomen DO have periods. They don't bleed, of course, but those that have taken female hormones get to experience cramps, bloating, etc.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:18:18 PM)

What cramps, Steven? Intestines?



OttersSwim -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:26:02 PM)

Ah yea, my thoughts as well LadyH.

There simply is not the same plumbing there, not the same things happening in terms of biology...ever...to create such symptoms as a female cycle creates.



SthrnCom4t -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:34:14 PM)

I can understand wanting boobs and cleavage, after all the poster claiming, "Tits are coupons for free stuff" can be accurate. However, there is just nothing remotely exciting, fun, sexy or comfortable about having a period.



Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:34:57 PM)

My periods were very easy and pleasant, almost even. So thankfully absolutely nothing like haus described.



DarkSteven -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 9:44:03 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

What cramps, Steven? Intestines?


Beats hell out of me. She complains of bloating and cramps. I'm just the man.



BitaTruble -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/12/2012 11:21:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven


Beats hell out of me. She complains of bloating and cramps. I'm just the man.

I think someone is pulling your leg. [;)] Cramps are caused by strong contractions in the uterus which cut off the blood supply of neighboring blood vessels resulting in a temporary lack of oxygen. The lack of oxygen manifests as pain. No uterus means there are no uterine contractions to press against the blood vessels, cut off the oxygen supply and cause the pain.

I'm taking it you never went to lamaze class? ::chuckles::



graceadieu -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/13/2012 12:38:26 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: itsapixie

Or you could go super hardcore and suffer through wearing maxi pads for almost a week.


That's what I was thinking, actually. A butt plug doesn't feel anything like a tampon, but a pad would still feel like a pad. The OP could even put some liquid on it on it to simulate more the feeling of it actually, uh, being used.

None of the transwomen I've know have mentioned wanting to experience a period, but that's kind of an intimate topic so who knows. I can definitely see how a transwoman might want to have as much of the biological female experience as possible, even the unpleasant stuff.



ResidentSadist -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/13/2012 3:14:36 AM)

I thought pads and a belt was the typical ritual for that time of the month with sissy/trans/etc? Never heard of using pseudo tampons. Was there a reason you didn't go with the belt and pads?



LaTigresse -> RE: Butt Plugs as Tampons (9/13/2012 7:41:03 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Duskypearls

Oh Haus, that's some imagination you've got, and that pretty much covers it. One of the best things about menopause, is not menstruating anymore.


THIS!!!!!!!!!!



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