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Are the following "problems" with health/safety? - 9/15/2012 10:12:40 AM

sunshiney1

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Hi,

I have a strange situation but, maybe someone who has real experience could guide me here.

If someone has not had missionary position type of sex in over 7 years and has never had anal fisting, anal sex, anal penetration (in general) or anything physical sexually related, is there going to be "problems" once it ever might happen?

What about tears?
Blood, excess fluids?

If the person has a very flabby, flat, globbular shaped butt, would anything anal be a problem for their partner?
Should this person just go out & get this before the years pass worse?

What should be the clear, real steps for guidance to not have the woman who hasn't had any of this be comfortable & not be problematic for her partner?

Men, would you even be "attracted" to a woman like this? She's very heavy, hasn't had any form of any type of sex in over 7 years and her butt is very flabby, flat, globbular & very tight?

Put aside the embarrassment, humiliation, shame & psychological factors too, I'm just simply asking about the health & safety physical factors & steps to get her help.

Thank you.

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RE: Are the following "problems" with health/... - 9/15/2012 11:30:32 AM

LadyHibiscus

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Was sex a problem before? If not, then it shouldn't be a problem now.

There's a bunch of threads on anal sex here with plenty of information, so I won't repeat it again here.

I have many friends who are LARGE women. They get as much sex as they can handle, believe me. Big gals have a serious fanbase. I have what's been called a ghetto booty, and there is admiration... I have male admirers who are SAD when I lose weight.

As to the blood issue... women come in all sizes. Not everyone can handle a much above average guy without LOTS of lube. An average guy, no problem. Anally, if you are concerned, use lots of lube. Anal tissue is very delicate, and small tears are possible.

If a person has issues with their body, that's a problem best NOT addressed in bed IMO.

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