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Ninebelowzero -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/1/2012 8:22:10 AM)
True TJ44 these older mums are a fact of life these days. Ijust feel sorry for the poor blighters if they are breast fed.[:D]

bighappygoth39 -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/1/2012 8:50:39 AM)
At least the older mums won't have to lift the babies quite as high as the younger mums would... [;)] Gravity is a fact of life for us ladies, sadly. [:(]

tj444 -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/1/2012 9:15:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero True TJ44 these older mums are a fact of life these days. Ijust feel sorry for the poor blighters if they are breast fed.[:D] Nine.. YOU are obviously a boob man.. [:D]

Ninebelowzero -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/1/2012 9:16:58 AM)
boobs, bums, legs I just like the whole package[:D]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/1/2012 9:22:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero boobs, bums, legs I just like the whole package[:D] I have the whole package!! Dead convenient! [;)]

Ninebelowzero -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/1/2012 9:31:44 AM)
I'm game [:D]

tetonguide -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/1/2012 3:31:07 PM)
I am 56. she is 28. We all want what we want...AND to be in love too!!!....fat chance for 99% of us. The idea that are lives are not full enough unless we get to be part of Oprah's book club too is ruinous for millions. If you have someone in the lifestyle you live that loves you and you love them back don't be so GREEDY and go asking to be wealthy or to start a family or travel the world TOO!!!....gosh....greed is the WORST thing humans do. Take less, live more.

ThundersCry -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/2/2012 11:23:10 AM)
Your always thinking Whip, a good thing... You may be in great shape etc, however that does not mean you may live to be 100! Can you leave your younger wife financially in a way she will never have to worry about sending your child or children to college,etc? Love trumps all howeverrrrrrr...thats something you and her are going to have to reach an agreement on. In my late 30`s, I had been divorced many yrs, had custody of 5 children and met a lady I soooo wanted to have a child with...I know, like I didn`t have enough lol...looking back I am GLAD that did not happen as I can`t imagine having a 20 year old,the relationship did not turn out and I would have gotten custody at some point cuz thats how I roll and I shiver at the thought of raising another alone! Don`t take me wrong...the biggest blessings in my life were my children. Good luck which ever way you go, alot of good suggestions have been thrown around, in the end its your decsion. I say go for it. Peace...

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/13/2012 8:11:13 PM)
Hey you can like/be attracted to whatever you like; problems occur when the women you desire have no interest in you. As long as you don't complain that the 20&30 yr olds overlook you because they only want the hot, hard-bodied 20-30 yr olds--more power to you. I get sick of hearing men complain that they must lie about their age because they don 't get a fair shot at who interests THEM, that they fall for women who are immature or fickle but they are chasing women who have not yet gotten to make the same mistakes that THEY (the man) has & learned from. Pursue who you are interested in. Follow your heart but understand that she has rights & desires also. If she doesn't care then great, but don't pressure or get angry with her for NOT giving you a chance because that is what you WANT. Also, remember...(& I say this as someone who had no interest in younger men but was pursued & caught by a man 7 yrs younger ) one day he/she will be the "young looking 48 yr old with an active career & social life & you will be a senior citizen. Know whoever you become involved with is not looking for the thrill of a sexy older experienced man when she is 30 & who will still be chasing them when you are no longer exciting . Also remember, one day looking young for your age may be that you are 75 and everyone thinks you are not a day over 60!

LillyBoPeep -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/13/2012 8:20:33 PM)
You've made some great points, ThundersCry. I"m 28 years old, and I like older men. Upwards of 40 is a-okay with me. For whatever reason, I've just always felt most comfortable with older men. For practical reasons, though, I put a limit on myself. I want to start a family and not have to worry that my partner is going to die in a few years, you know? =p I get messages from men in their 60s who say "well, people say I look 40, and people in my family live well into their 90s." Um... okay... When you're 90 and near death, I'll be 60 and left alone. Granted, people are always going to die - my former died at the age of 31 in a drowning accident. So there's no guarantee that a younger partner is going to live longer. But I'm capping things at late-30s, maybe up to 40, just because that seems like the most responsible decision to me. And as far as looking young goes... it has its drawbacks. I wonder at times if that's part of my difficulty with meeting people. I was helping with a friend's kid's birthday once, and some of the other kids who were invited thought I was only a little older than they were. Personally, I don't see it, but a lot of people assume I'm a kid when they meet me, and there's nothing lamer than being the only girl in a group of girls who gets carded at a club. Ai yaa... Plus, I think sometimes the sorts of men I'm attracted to figure that I'm WAY too young, when I'm really not. It's hard to explain, and I wonder if it makes people uncomfortable. Ugh...

littlewonder -> RE: The Age difference factor (10/13/2012 10:43:12 PM)
I know exactly what you mean. I've had men tell me I look anywhere between 18 and 23. I'm 40 and I am always the one who gets carded. And yeah, like you said, it can be more of a hindrance. So sometimes looking young isn't always that great.

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