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My first time - 9/16/2012 8:21:14 PM   
WillowMidnight


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Status: offline 		Well I had my first experience of BDSM play the other night, with some wonderful people I am growing to trust and respect very quickly!

I do not think I could have possibly have had a better first time. It was a wonderful experience! The entire time, I felt so safe and cared for.
I can now say I definately love flogging, pony play, violet wands, bondage and gags
I also enjoyed knife play, but more the state of mind that comes with it!

So happy right now!
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RE: My first time - 9/16/2012 8:23:31 PM   
RemoteUser


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Status: offline 		Congratulations. Glad to hear you had a good time.

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RE: My first time - 9/16/2012 8:37:17 PM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		Good to hear.
Did you meet them on here?

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RE: My first time - 9/16/2012 8:45:46 PM   
WillowMidnight


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Status: offline 		Met them on fetlife :)
I had been chatting with them, and had met for coffee, because they knew I was worried about going to my first munch without knowing anyone. Then went to the munch, and mingled a little bit, secure in the knowledge that they were looking out for me, and would warn me off anyone "predatory" that could be dangerous for me

They have been very caring, wonderful people and I am very fortunate to have had such a positive introduction to the community and lifestyle

We used the traffic lights safe word system which worked really well for my first time. Called orange a few times when I
was unsure, and these were respected. Very happy

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RE: My first time - 9/16/2012 8:49:37 PM   
marcellarae


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ORIGINAL: WillowMidnight

Well I had my first experience of BDSM play the other night, with some wonderful people I am growing to trust and respect very quickly!

I do not think I could have possibly have had a better first time. It was a wonderful experience! The entire time, I felt so safe and cared for.
I can now say I definately love flogging, pony play, violet wands, bondage and gags
I also enjoyed knife play, but more the state of mind that comes with it!

So happy right now!




Congratulations! The first time is always very special. Glad you enjoyed it! :).


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RE: My first time - 9/16/2012 11:18:48 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		Yay congratulations! Sounds like you chose some good people for that first experience.

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RE: My first time - 9/17/2012 6:29:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Glad things went so well! And... damn. You are getting into BDSM FAST!

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RE: My first time - 9/17/2012 9:56:25 AM   
TNDommeK


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RE: My first time - 9/17/2012 10:02:57 AM   
CHF73


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Status: offline 		Congratulations for both the first play session and for finding out such good people to look after you :)

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RE: My first time - 9/17/2012 10:07:14 AM   
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RE: My first time - 9/17/2012 7:19:26 PM   
WillowMidnight


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Status: offline 		Yes getting into BDSM fast! But being very careful at the same time
It is more than I could have hoped for

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RE: My first time - 9/17/2012 7:31:16 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Congratulations! You set a fine example for how to do it enjoyably AND safely! Much happiness in your journey :-)

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RE: My first time - 9/20/2012 1:13:17 PM   
TiedUpReady


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Status: offline 		So pleased you had a good first experience! The trick is now to keep grounded and keep your head screwed on :)

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RE: My first time - 9/20/2012 3:36:59 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		That's great to hear. Keep on having fun!

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RE: My first time - 9/22/2012 5:52:05 AM   
everhope


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Status: offline 		your post brought back such fond memories of my first physical experience in bdsm.
still to this day, i feel blessed to have had such a deeply spiritual introduction.

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RE: My first time - 9/26/2012 8:44:40 AM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		That's great ! My first time was so great too, and I found out I love the Riding Crop on the Butt, and being Wrapped in Plastic Wrap.

Sadly, MADAM and I had to part for she had no more time, but I still have many Fond memories (and Pictures) to remind me of our Sessions. She and her husband were such GREAT PEOPLE, I could trust them with anything.

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RE: My first time - 10/1/2012 9:55:00 AM   
SexyLou


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Status: offline 		Congratulations - I only hope i have the same luck with my first expiernce.

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