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xLaChienne -> RE: How far would you be willing to go... (11/7/2012 6:40:07 PM)
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ORIGINAL: gungadin09
For dominants, have you ever required your sub to change their body image?
I have a very specific body type that I'm attracted to. In that, I don't engage with those that are outside of the parameters of My ideal for a relationship. I'm very upfront about it and am often criticized for it, usually by those who fall outside of My ideal parameters. For play, for friendship, for the hell of it, then it doesn't matter. For one who is Mine I wouldn't need to change their basic body type because it would already apply. What he wears, when he wears it, body hair, manscaping, etc. is in My realm.
The closest I have come is with men who were fairly average in build and simply by joining Me in My diet and fitness routine were then able to achieve the look I enjoy fairly quickly. I didn't consider it a requirement as much as an inevitability. Enjoying the difference in the physical response from Me has often been enough impetus to maintain and actively engage in any change I suggest.
The only requirement that I have is that he be constantly open to new experiences, expanding and broadening his intellect, and providing charming company.
If one were to tell Me that I had to accept him as is then I would pass. I perceive as is to be limiting and it would indicate to me an inability to grow, trust, and evolve into the type of relationship I enjoy in addition to some self esteem and insecurity issues that I refuse to deal with.
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