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OsideGirl -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 10:59:32 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You are expecting the dom and the "vanilla" gal to be the same person, correct?


Correct



Okay. So... she does NOT get to see you and decide if you pass HER screening, but YOU get to screen her?

And you are not seeing the intrinsic problem?


Please try harder. I just spoke to this same question by another Dom. Yes, of course my looks matter in a vanilla relationship. Strictly, Dom and Slave, no. Have you seen what most of these Slaves look like?


1) You don't get to determine what is important to someone else. Especially what's important to a Dominant to whom you wish to be submissive.

2) There's a difference between confidence and arrogance.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 11:01:26 AM)

Modest, aren't you?

And once again I am going to tell you that the slave doesn't get to make those kinds of decisions. The kind of woman who wants a slave, a devoted servant, is not going to be choosing for beauty, she is choosing for dedication, loyalty, honor, obedience, all manner of things, but not the things you appear to be offering.

That is why you are not successful.

Indeed I am only a dominant woman who has owned a slave and several submissives.




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 11:07:41 AM)

Last reply about this nonsense. Sex is fun. Mistress and Slave play is fun. If it wasn't, I wouldn't do it. I have needs. You have needs. If we can't compromise, we can't be. Mistress or Slave. Take care. And if my blue-eyed brunette is reading this, enslave me. I'll make you smile, laugh and cum like only I can. To Descrite, thanks for being a wise gentleman who understood me and my intentions.




LadyPact -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 11:09:16 AM)

Hey, OP, here's a thought.

Rather than sit here and argue with folks who have a different opinion than you, since you have decided that you are soooooo right about how this stuff works, I've got an idea. Give it that week you mentioned for your flounce that became an anti-flounce, (nice follow through on your word there) and see if it works the way you say or the way other people have said. In fact, don't split at all. Start keeping a record of just how long it takes from your original post until the day that you get your fantasy fulfilled. Since you believe you are near legendary in the internet dating world, you can let us know how long that takes.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 11:11:40 AM)

Excellent suggestion, LP!!

And rapeymask? Descrite is not only a dominant, he's a dominant that's made some of the douchiest posts here I have EVER seen. Something to keep in mind, when you think about how much you relate to him. Not saying he's the bad seed, but a person that knows what a femdom wants? Maybe not.




BlackSockSlave -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 11:22:36 AM)

I don't know his post history; I only read his 1 reply to me, and it was great. None of you are her, anyways, so stop wasting your time on me.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 11:24:47 AM)

Oh honey. There is no way any of us would be her, even if we fit your description perfectly. I will be sharing this entertainment at the next foot party, though.




Rainwalker -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 11:44:27 AM)

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I don't know his post history; I only read his 1 reply to me, and it was great.


I too am new to this site, read Descrite post and found him sensitive to your position but I think one has to read between the lines to see how very supportive the others comments were in offering objective criticism and advice.




OsideGirl -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 11:58:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Rainwalker

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I don't know his post history; I only read his 1 reply to me, and it was great.


I too am new to this site, read Descrite post and found him sensitive to your position but I think one has to read between the lines to see how very supportive the others comments were in offering objective criticism and advice.


I've said this before: when you want to find a partner online, you're selling yourself. In the transaction of a sale, the opinion of the seller carries no weight what so ever. It doesn't matter if you think the "product" is the bestest, most sparkliest, fantastic thing in the universe. What matters is what the buyer thinks.

If the OP was selling laundry detergent it would look like this:

OP: You want this because it's in a pretty package.
Buyers: No, we want something that gets our clothes clean.
OP: No, you want something in a pretty package.
Buyers: No, we've already said that we want something that gets our clothes clean
OP: No, no, you want something in a pretty package.
Buyer: Never mind. We'll buy something else.

Having a male Dominant back up his opinion is irrelevant. The OPs target market is women. Women have said what they want. He's determined that all of the women are wrong and they should want what he says they should want.







GreedyTop -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 12:14:11 PM)

~FR~

if this keeps going, I think we'll have a runner-up for tap tap tap...




OsideGirl -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 12:16:11 PM)

Tap, Tap, Tap was hysterically funny.

Can you picture how the OP would have gone over at Sportman's Lodge when it was in full swing?




GreedyTop -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 12:19:10 PM)

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

no kidding!! I could just see everyone looking at him like slug slime.... Wait, Carina fits his phyiscal TYPE, doesn't she?


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!




VideoAdminGamma -> RE: What's an acceptable introduction? (10/4/2012 12:33:40 PM)

Fast Reply

This topic/post has run it's course. Thanks to all that stayed within section guidelines and that offered constructive criticism .

Thanks for being a part of CollarMe,
Gamma




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