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Titaniya -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/7/2012 11:47:50 AM)
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ORIGINAL: sassy252
Since being in the lifestyle 5 years now. It has always just been me the sub. I've never played with a women and theres never been another sub in the pic .Then i met my now Dom ( 8 ) months ago and his sub and yes i join there family and she became my sister sub. He released her months ago and since then its just been him and i till last week we did play with a sub but that is not leading any where. I have never looked for a female sub are a women to be honest so all of this is very new to me. I am trying to please my Sir and do what he has asked of me. I'm not hear to be called names are to be put down but for help plain and simple and as subs we are all sister and i am one sister to another asking for help.
I think part of your problem IS that you're the one looking for him.
When I read the above, it doesn't strike me as a couple looking to add a partner. It strikes me as a dominant who wants something he's too lazy to look for himself and is therefore delegating to someone enamored by him who may not want the same thing.
If you want a third party involved for your own reasons (reasons that are not "my dominant wants one and I want him to be happy," but more along the lines of "it'd get me off to see him with someone else" or "I want to play with a girl myself"), I highly suggest you change the phrasing into something that signifies that better. Say "we're" looking, not "I'm looking for him."
Otherwise, as DarkSteven said, your profile has you searching for dominant men. That's an entirely different demographic. You might want to consider changing your "Actively Seeking" field and profile text, if not opening up a new joint account entirely for both of you to look.
Another qualm I have with what I see of your efforts is that it's very general and kink/sex based, both in text and photos. You're looking for a submissive girl to be your sister and his sub... but what does that look like to you guys? When you're not in the bedroom, what kinds of things do you enjoy together? Do you do vanilla activities and build a constant relationship triangle, or are you looking for kink only? And aside from the relationship stuff entirely - who are you guys? What do you have to offer a potential submissive as partners? What do you believe in, aspire to, spend your free time doing? (Also, why aren't there any pictures of him up somewhere?)
Lastly... bisexual female submissives are highly sought, and female/male couples looking from them are aplenty. The demographic you're looking for is a small one, and you're going to have to put your absolute best foot forward (and a reasonable amount of time) to attract one, let alone find one that will get along with both you and your dominant well enough to maintain a triangle relationship over any amount of time. They're referred to as "unicorns" because they're so rare.
It's unlikely that it's your body type that's stopping you from finding what you seek. Try not to be too self-conscious about it.
I'd like to add to the dislike of the idea of universal sisterhood. I don't feel any particular connection to you, and I certainly don't feel like your sister.
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