RumpusParable
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie Lemme help you with this. There is actually no valid reason for a findomme. I'm really surprised that there's so much "my fetish is okay, but yours isn't" going on within a site that's open to and tolerant of anything. Why do you get to try to invalidate something just because you don't like it? I think it's a knee jerk reaction to the number of 20 year olds that come into the forums because they've realized that the number imbalance means that some men are so desperate that they'll buy things and give money to anyone. These women think that being dominant equals being a twat to everyone and come into the forums by posting "all of you worms/pigs" etc. We see a rash of them at the beginning of the month....when their rent is due. The majority of "FinDommes" aren't Dommes at all......and they've given the few that actually are, a very bad reputation. I'm not buying that. You don't see an overwhelming and pervasive sentiment expressed here of "There is actually no valid reason for a male sub." due to the -at least in my experience and the impression I've gotten from others - majority of male "subs/slaves" that aren't and are just guys looking for a some woman to sexually service them for free. No, then it's "look at this wanker saying/pretending he's a submissive". If the reason you expressed above was actually the case, people wouldn't make statements All.The.Time. and for the majority of comments on findoms... they'd instead say things similar to what they do sub males: "so many findoms aren't really doms", not "There is actually no valid reason for a findomme.". Instead, they'd again do the same as they do with male subs. There would be a very large majority stating that findom is fine and that you just need to weed through to find a real and really good one for you if that's your kink.
< Message edited by RumpusParable -- 12/20/2012 9:09:41 PM >
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Relationships come and go, but plastination is forever. I generally use fast-reply. If directing my post at someone specific I will indicate so. Minimal summary: Artist, Disabled Veteran, Vegan, Pornographer, and Agender dominant female.
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