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MstrPBK -> RE: Cop Arrested For Planning to Cook and Eat Women (10/27/2012 12:17:01 PM)

Longpigging has been around for centuries. Depending on my mood I have various opinions about it; most not supportive of it.

MstrPBK
St. Paul, MN USA




Moonhead -> RE: Cop Arrested For Planning to Cook and Eat Women (10/27/2012 12:19:37 PM)

Dear Christ: what the hell sort of mood do you have to be in to be supportive of that one?




Aswad -> RE: Cop Arrested For Planning to Cook and Eat Women (10/27/2012 4:43:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: littleone14

I don't know. I find it troubling.


Statistically speaking (and the Statistics and Census Bureau of Norway does some seriously nice work in population level statistics), women worry three times as much as they should about violence, sexual assault and the like, while men worry about as much as they should. Consider that there is a fairly high chance that you're finding this a lot more troubling than it merits, which is detrimental to your health and overall enjoyment of life.

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I know the odds of running across someone this crazy are slim to none, but they are still out there.


Still, there is no point in worrying. The universe may spontaneously end at light speed, and you won't even know it's coming, or feel it happening, but you're hopefully not going to sit around worrying about it. From memory, "the strength to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."

Incidentally, unless there's been more news, I don't think it's been established that the guy was crazy, just odd.

Note that in The Netherlands, cann/vore fetishes are part of the curriculum for sexologists.

Very few with that fetish go on to do anything, although the sort of reaction he's getting now may prime a person in that direction. Since a substantial fraction of the world now knows his face and will think "there's that cannibal cop" if they see him, whatever the outcome of the trial, with his wife no doubt leaving him, with hardening experiences in jail, he will likely have nothing to lose by taking things further, and they'll do a lot to push him over that line- usually very difficult to cross- between fantasizing about something and actually doing murder.

I wouldn't be surprised if the guy kills himself.

The cann/vore fetish usually occurs in people with normal social function, normal morals, normal inhibitions and even normal or above normal empathy, and without the cooccurence of any form of sadism. That's part of why a lot of people with that fetish engage in roleplay online, or view their version of porn (generally drawn; only a few actual cases have photographic accounts one can find online, and most will find those disgusting and disturbing). Most that like the act itself would have serious problems with things that are necessarily a part of actually committing it, as well. For instance, pain, death, etc., are just as difficult to deal with for someone that has this fetish as for other people.

A very high estimate would be one actual case every two years in the USA.

Compare this to seventy thousand recorded traffic deaths for the same interval.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




littleone14 -> RE: Cop Arrested For Planning to Cook and Eat Women (10/27/2012 4:50:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: littleone14

I don't know. I find it troubling.


Consider that there is a fairly high chance that you're finding this a lot more troubling than it merits



Point taken...... =)




Aswad -> RE: Cop Arrested For Planning to Cook and Eat Women (10/27/2012 5:32:01 PM)

~fr~

The complaint/warrant, which I just read, makes a more convincing case than the news (obviously), though since they're only showing some few exerpts from what they were chatting about, it is anyone's guess whether it was RP or conspiracy. At the moment, it looks like they have little to go on as regards him (he can credibly claim it was RP, as far as I can tell), so maybe they're just trying to squeeze him to get at the alleged co-conspirators. One of those seemed more plausible, by far, given the whole bit about haggling over the price, twice. (And, in all fairness, the price was way high, well past what would get a desperate volunteer from a poor country, though probably realistic for getting a cop to risk his neck.)

Not impressed with the lack of professionalism, though.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




theRose4U -> RE: Cop Arrested For Planning to Cook and Eat Women (10/27/2012 7:40:19 PM)


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ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake

Alternative lifestyles in the news.

I didn't realize this was an alternative.

Alternative to suicide...possibly
Alternative to reality...definately




DominantThe1st -> RE: Cop Arrested For Planning to Cook and Eat Women (11/25/2012 11:57:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: vincentML

NYC cop wannabe cannibal cruised fetish chat rooms. Be careful out there, ladies.

Be careful, indeed!

The truth is, people who look for someone to victimize and abuse frequent forums everywhere on the net, not only BDSM fora or even Dating sites. I've heard about at least two occasions where someone ended up in a bad way (though they didn't get murdered) via a friendship developed in a multiplayer video game, which turned into what the woman thought to be a genuine romance. Another example of an area of online communities that is known to be much sought out as a "hunting ground" by abusive types, is Self Help and Psychological Advice & Support forums. In short - dangerous people and abusers are everywhere.

I think where they're most likely to be encountered is not so much a question about whether or not a certain community seems to reflect something that sounds like what abusive, dangerous people are looking for (BDSM, Satanism, regular Classifieds, i.e.), it's more about where these people think they can find women (or young boys) who are vulnerable in a particular way that makes them susceptible to become obtainable prey.

So, again: Be careful, indeed!

But: Be careful everywhere - not just on a BDSM forum!




Kana -> RE: Cop Arrested For Planning to Cook and Eat Women (11/26/2012 5:19:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DominantThe1st

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ORIGINAL: vincentML

NYC cop wannabe cannibal cruised fetish chat rooms. Be careful out there, ladies.

Be careful, indeed!

The truth is, people who look for someone to victimize and abuse frequent forums everywhere on the net, not only BDSM fora or even Dating sites. I've heard about at least two occasions where someone ended up in a bad way (though they didn't get murdered) via a friendship developed in a multiplayer video game, which turned into what the woman thought to be a genuine romance. Another example of an area of online communities that is known to be much sought out as a "hunting ground" by abusive types, is Self Help and Psychological Advice & Support forums. In short - dangerous people and abusers are everywhere.

I think where they're most likely to be encountered is not so much a question about whether or not a certain community seems to reflect something that sounds like what abusive, dangerous people are looking for (BDSM, Satanism, regular Classifieds, i.e.), it's more about where these people think they can find women (or young boys) who are vulnerable in a particular way that makes them susceptible to become obtainable prey.

So, again: Be careful, indeed!

But: Be careful everywhere - not just on a BDSM forum!

Hell, in my neck of the woods, they end up dead trying to buy a lawnmower offa Craigslist!




kalikshama -> RE: Cop Arrested For Planning to Cook and Eat Women (11/26/2012 5:25:57 PM)

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The complaint/warrant, which I just read, makes a more convincing case than the news (obviously)


Here it is, in case anyone else was wondering: http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2012/10/25/nyregion/Valle-Gilberto-Criminal-Complaint.html




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