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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

i'll refrain from posting my real opinion on this thread.

it's great that you have high self-esteem. good luck on whatever you're looking for.

I won't refrain. I think this thread is full of hypocritical assholes who are self loathing, no matter what their size. They inexplicably cannot stand when another woman shows confidence. Many of the women here are fat and yet they put down the larger women who do have confidence and other women who are allowed to call themselves BBWs.

And the thin women cry foul at anyone putting them down, but they too, talk about anyone who dares to feel good about themselves. Some of the women in this thread actually are schizophrenic; one day, last week one of them went on and on about how body shaming was SO awful and now in this thread, boom, BBW's are disgusting.

I think the lack of support from the haters is just sickening.

You know, the women appear to be the ones with the issues. I have never in my life made a comment on another woman's size.

I will say it again, YOU CAN CALL YOURSELF A BBW IF YOU WANT TO AND IT DOES NOT MATTER ONE BIT IF ANYONE ELSE LIKES IT BUT YOU.

Because, and I know this is SO fucking hard to believe, but many of us larger ladies are gorgeous; like the OP and we have always known it. I support ANY women who believes in her self.

I think it is ludicrous that the OP even came here to ask that question. Just look in the mirror hon, your size is not the issue, your beauty is.

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janahx called me obese and that isnt a compliment and im fine with her opinion

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

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janahx called me obese and that isnt a compliment and im fine with her opinion

I said you look obese - and by your height and weight you are in fact not.

Look - I didnt set these numbers - Im not sure who did and Im WAYYYY too lazy to research it any further, but I figure if someone has a problem with it - they can do the research themselves and contact the proper party.