GoddessDustyGold
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Joined: 4/11/2004 From: Arizona Status: offline
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Let's just say that even though I do not agree with his particular philosphies regarding the races, he is being honest and this is his thing. I can disagree with him without feeling that he is insane. I disagree with many people about many things in many areas, but that doesn't mean they are insane. I have been approached by more than one (read many, many) boys of certain ethnic backgrounds and they want the old plantation boy scenario. I am not interested, and will look at a boy (or girl) based on their submission, not the color of their skin. Doesn't mean it is not out there. And I have been asked for such. I have also been told that I should be submissive, and I just haven't found the right man. I laugh and ignore it. This Dominant's wording is rather formal, and it does look like it is information that he has culled from one or more sources. But if it represent how he feels about his lifestyle, then okay for him that he found someone else who could put it into the words he needed. I did look at your profile. The wording in it might invite this sort of possibility. You say as a "woman" rather than as a "back woman" or whatever, but you do make this quite clear regarding your idea of submission and the lack of rights. As such, it is easy for a prospective Dominant to take this to the next level and include other areas and reasons why he (or she) might think this could be a good fit for you. Therefore, you may well get this sort of offer. I am sure it would be rare, however, they are out there. It is up to you if you want to ignore it and block (My recommendation) or explore it. There are people who would like his attitude. And I am not going to say they are insane, either. Other than his assumption (generalization), an honest assessment in his opinion, that blacks have a tendency to be self-destructive in certain ways, I really don't see much that is not a detailed picture of what he is trying to build in M/s relationships. Whatever floats his boat. If it doesn't float yours, so be it. There ya go! I am so not PC! *Smile* **Edited to add: So I guess My main question back to the OP would be...if he was not using the words "negroid" and "nubian", would this letter bother you? If so, then you need to be clearer regarding your own take on submission. Your pic is lovely, by the way.
< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 6/16/2006 1:15:27 PM >
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Dusty They that give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety B Franklin Don't blame Me ~ I didn't vote for either of them The Hidden Kingdom
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