None can really 'demand' anything. But thats already been covered.
My concern is why anyone would think about all these things, and consider a relationship.
People can ask what they want and tell what they want. And you can give and ask in the same respect.
If you were meeting in a club and arranged another date, how much would you want to know about the person?
If you are not in any rush - why not just allow the relationship to evolve organically?
Pre-set lists and expectations only lead to eventual let down IMO.
If you cannot share about employment, one should be asking themselves why one can't share such information - not why should you be able to.(I am not sure if I am making much sense there). It all depends what you are comfortable with, and if you cannot enter a relationship and share certain aspects of your life, then you should, IMO - be settled and comfortable within your own life first. It will bring incredible difficulties if you are not. It only sets seeds of distrust - even if you do not mean to.
I too am concerned about the suggestion and discussions of relocating at such an early stage. But if job relocation is an issue for you, I would really just suggest you do not indulge or even consider outside your current locality. That way, the job issue just will not even enter into the equasion in that way.
Peace and Rapture