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RE: I help some help with Domming a CD - 11/26/2012 5:05:35 AM

jamielee1963

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Sitting down an talking is always good.

Treating them like a female sub is good too.

However, like any 'relationship' - it is all about what you are comfortable with. And that goes both ways.

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RE: I help some help with Domming a CD - 12/1/2012 3:00:49 PM

BottomsUp4Fun

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Have her arrive in male dress, have her strip and do a reverse strip tease, getting all femmed up in front of you. You should be able to tell which buttons to push pretty readily... Like does she blush at being told how cute and sexy and enticing she would be to a real man? Does she respond to humiliation (less than a real man), will she relish going over your knee, panty around her ankles for a spanking? Do you suspect her of getting into your lingerie drawer with out your permission, and deserve punishment.

Or.. once she's stripped for you, take her into the bathroom for a nice, long bubble bath and shaving session. No, you don't shave her, she does it, with lots of encouragement and tips from you. Once dressed have her strut around in her heels, again, you can critique her sexy gait and give her pointers.

Make it fun, and read your sub!

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RE: I help some help with Domming a CD - 12/1/2012 3:26:22 PM

vield

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I'm not a woman, but will address this anyway.

My experiences with crossdressing and transgendered submissives has taught me that as long as I show acceptance and interest towards the person's kinks, desires, limits and fantasies, we can all have a lovely time.

It is possible that lovely time may lead to a relationship if everyone is open to that, but it is also possible I can help the person connect with someone who is seeking a person like the crossdresser.

There is a major difference between people who crossdress for the excitement of being different and the people who crossdress because they feel they really were born in the wrong body.

This is true of male to female crossdressers and female to male crossdressers, and the person's self identification is important to know and to respect.

I'd suggest an honest in depth discussion of all things kinky so you both know what is sought and what would be bad for the person.

Without this you may choose the wrong path and "break your toy".

No matter what the person's birth gender or current identification is, it will be important to understand if they crave or seek play with women or play with men,, or both. A dominant woman may end up having a scene with a MTF TG or CD who seeks to be her Lesbian slave or lover, or who seeks to be dominated by being feminized with or without humiliation.

After you discuss both of your thoughts at some length, you may find that your friend is NOT right for you, or that they fulfill a sweet fantasy you have.

Best of luck!

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As always, your mileage may vary!

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