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Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 8:38:49 AM   
CharmingKitty


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Status: offline 		Hello everyone. I am not new to the site but I don't think I've said hi here before.
I am a young kitty with masochistic tendencies who has yet to be seriously collared. With a potential Daddy on the horizon how ever will a little kitten navigate this sometimes tumultuous land of bdsm?
As such I hope for more experienced hands to help guide me through my kinky journey. Or at the very least some like minded people to keep me feeling "normal" haha.

So, anyone who can offer advice to a new sub or who enjoys hearing kinky stories drop me a line!
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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 8:57:07 AM   
BurntKitty


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From: Here To Eternity.
Status: offline 		Welcome to CM, from one Kitty to another.



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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 9:14:06 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Hi there. Welcome to the forums.

Just a note - you say in your journal that you're looking for a Dom to hep you lose weight. You look perfect to me right now. Have you considered what will happen should your prospective Dom direct your energies elsewhere?

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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 9:41:27 AM   
CharmingKitty


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Thank you for the welcome kitty ^o^

@DarkSteven
Thank you for your welcome and compliment, but I am confused, direct my energies elsewhere? Hehe do you mean if I am made to gain weight?
If this is what you mean then, I hadn't thought of it.
That journal was written while independent from a possible owner, based on my own "bimbo ideals".
Actually it's exciting to think of being forced to gain weight especially since it's a bit of a phobia of mine. Forced body modification.

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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 10:55:45 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Nope.

If I were your Dom, I would be focusing you away from your body. Perhaps push you in college, possibly in a part time job. The point I'm trying to make is that your Dom may have his own goals for you, and it might be hard for you to bend to his will.

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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 11:50:36 AM   
CharmingKitty


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Status: offline 		Oh, well that Dom would experience a lot of fighting! Hehe, I am not a bender, unless it's at the hip.
This site is quite restrictive in the labels it gives you to define yourself. While I am saying "sub" it's just for the sake of simplicity, I probably shouldn't say something like that since I've never really "submitted" to anything.
I'd classify myself as a sadomasochist if I had the choice. I picked switch on my profile haha. I like to be "dominant" in almost every aspect of my life and relationships except that I need to be caused pain/humiliation to be aroused.
I am also struggling with my love/hate of being told what to do (as in I would loved to be forced to lose/gain weight but we won't be having any fun if you want me to open a book).
Essentially, I know nothing. haha
Which is why I am looking for more experience people, some mature people to help me find where I fit into all of this.

I like to be a tree, restricted more than pushed. My branches go where they like, he snips the ones that need pruning.
I have a lot of "potential" so it's more exciting to me to waste it.

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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 12:19:31 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		. . . classify myself as a sadomasochist
. . . like to be a tree, restricted more than pushed. My branches go where they like, he snips the ones that need pruning.

Seems you are saying you are bedroom only S&M with Zen like perspectives and mindset.

Welcome aboard, hope you have fun.


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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 12:47:52 PM   
CharmingKitty


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Status: offline 		Hm, it's hard to say. I haven't actually wrote it out before, perhaps it'll help clear myself up. this actually took a while...

Pain is mostly a bedroom thing since it gets me right in the mood, but I like kind of a constant humiliation? What I mean:
My Master is quite a bit older than me and I'm the minority in his country. I like to be made up in such a way that I am a constant spectacle.
I like the idea of walking down the street and having criticizing eyes on me. Being seen as the dumb imported trophy wife.
I like to hear people say bad words about me when they don't think I can understand what they are saying.
I like to be belittled for not knowing the language or culture. Degraded in front of staff in stores or having my face slapped for putting the wrong items in the shopping cart.

I don't like the idea of an owner who always wants me to "submit" in the way that I am supposed to do what I am told or follow orders all the time. I tried that for a brief time.
This is because I really am a perfectionist, and completed what I was asked exactly how it should be done. Any pain I would receive would be a reward.
Which is great, I get lots of rewards still, but it pretty much equals vanilla play to me. Unless I am feeling actually emotionally distressed I can't feel the same level of excitement.
That's probably why I need to have the public aspect, since I know Daddy loves me and would never really want me to feel humiliated or sad.
So I use the people on the street to be the real cruelty I need.

Essentially I like to feel like I've done poorly at something or am not meeting expectations. Submission as done by the ditsy bimbo.

< Message edited by CharmingKitty -- 11/17/2012 12:50:06 PM >

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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 2:59:57 PM   
TheLilSquaw


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From: Middle River, MD
Status: offline 		Welcome to the forums.

I hope you find what you are looking for.

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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 3:16:12 PM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		Welcome, good luck

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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 3:48:15 PM   
Nelee


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Joined: 11/15/2012
Status: offline 		I rarely see people with a bimbo-fication fetish. That's kind of awesome to find one (awesome in the "whoa, that's not too common!" way). Welcome, and I hope you enjoy your stay! <3 I see the allure in bimbo-fication as well, but my self esteem is too wrecked to involve myself in it. If I got the wrong type of attention in the wrong area, I just get terribly depressed (weight, breast size, hip size, height, etc). But kudos for you, and good luck finding your one! <3

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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/17/2012 6:32:31 PM   
CharmingKitty


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Status: offline 		Thanks all :)

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RE: Traveling Kitty Cat - 11/18/2012 6:04:07 AM   
Toysinbabeland


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From: the other end of Cx's leash
Status: offline 		Welcome from one bimbo barbie to another

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