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CuddleBug86 -> sketchy? (11/25/2012 1:12:11 PM)
My Dom put 2 rules in place for me if I wanted a sub/slave... 1) He and husband would have their eyes eyes on sub/slave. They would have his phone number and address. And 2) There will be no "alone time" in the beginning. Either Dom or husband will be present. I know full well that these rules were put in place for my protection. My question for you (especially subs/slaves) is... does these rules sound sketchy???

theSwan -> RE: sketchy? (11/25/2012 3:27:49 PM)
Sketchy for you? Sketchy for the submissive that would be being watched? I would say no in both cases (a bit more taxing for the submissive) but more than that, I'm curious as to how you believe they may be sketchy.

BambiBoi -> RE: sketchy? (11/25/2012 4:06:35 PM)
My read on you, Cuddles, is that you're dominant side is green. As a new dominant, there are new challenges to overcome that as an experienced submissive you might not be familiar with. Further, the "two" rules given to you really boil down to one rule: Your husband and dominant want to monitor your growth as a dominant yourself. Obviously we know very few facts about you and yours, but the general notion of "my sub wants to learn a new thing, I should be there to help teach her" sounds quite legitimate.

thishereboi -> RE: sketchy? (11/25/2012 4:10:31 PM)
quote: does these rules sound sketchy??? No, but your request for tribute made me wonder.

theRose4U -> RE: sketchy? (11/25/2012 8:37:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CuddleBug86 My Dom put 2 rules in place for me if I wanted a sub/slave... 1) He and husband would have their eyes eyes on sub/slave. They would have his phone number and address. And 2) There will be no "alone time" in the beginning. Either Dom or husband will be present. I know full well that these rules were put in place for my protection. My question for you (especially subs/slaves) is... does these rules sound sketchy??? "Have his name/address with one of them present in the beginning"...for what? Sounds more like prostitution where the muscle stands at the door. Ditto on the tribute & expert at shopping looking for sub to do ROUTINE house tasks. So yes on second thought this whole thing sounds sketchy

SeekingTrinity -> RE: sketchy? (11/25/2012 10:11:06 PM)
Tribute, shopping, and one or another man right there in the room "observing" has "run far and fast in the opposite direction" written all over it. Just sayin'

noellesdestiny -> RE: sketchy? (11/26/2012 3:03:20 PM)
Only you can decide.

Quik2Kink -> RE: sketchy? (11/29/2012 9:30:07 AM)
Do your Doms rules sound sketchy? Not at all. Definitely sounds like for your safety and monitoring your personal growth. Do you sound a little sketchy? Yeah. No mention of wanting anything, but a houseboy/shopping slave and tribute screeches trouble. No mention of a real relationship is always concerning to me. Of course, some subs are looking for just that. So I can't judge.

saundrakitty -> RE: sketchy? (12/1/2012 10:22:33 AM)
It seems that they Both want to be you're there to mentor and keep you safe, but at the same time before you jump into getting a sub/slave you need to really think about it first and figure out what you really want and where you want it to go. Remember you need to be able to mentally be able to take over for another person the same way you're Dom looks after you both physically and emotionally. But discovering and exploring you're Dominate side should add to you're personal growth. And you have not put into you're OP how you feel. If it stays at that level then any sub is going to be uncomfortable or will run as far and fast from you.

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