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GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 2:50:26 AM

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Hi A/all,

Can i know Y/your views about Gynarchy? And how can w/We achieve it? or at least take our part in achieving it?

From our personal lives to general environment??

Thanks

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 6:44:04 AM

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For those who may not be familiar with the term "Gynarchy"...

Gynarchy is a common male driven role reversal fantasy where women take over the world and subjugate males. Stories written around this concept often contain themes of forced feminization, small penis humiliation, women physically growing larger than men, men physically shrinking smaller than women, and males very often being generally given the role of "feminized bimbo" in society.

To the OP: As a fantasy goes, it's great if you enjoy it. But real women do not think like the women portrayed in the Gynarchy-based fictional universes. Dominant women in our world are most often looking for a partner to stand by their side, not a worm that they can grind into the ground for better footing. The vast majority have no interest in feminizing men.

Your best bet is to enjoy your fantasies, but work to actually -see- the world you live in, and the Dominant women that are in the world - and meet them on their terms rather than trying to get them to meet you on yours.

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 9:47:27 AM

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I don't want to live in a society where one group of people was given some kind of ultimate authority for no other reason than an accident of birth. That's the exact opposite of a strong and productive society in my mind. I believe that a world where all human beings have inherent value and the opportunities to develop their potential and explore their strengths is a world worth working for. I want people to rise to the top because they work hard or have exceptional knowledge or ability in a specific field, not because their private parts are the right shape. That's as absurd as denying women the vote, white supremacy, criminalizing homosexuality and any other arbitrary distinction used to justify mistreating groups of people.

I imagine that once this social revolution took place and after the hard-on had subsided, you'd quickly realise how unpleasant life would be if your rights were taken away and you were discriminated against constantly. I think this is the type of fantasy that only someone who has never experienced that kind of social disadvantage could have. Or rather, the fantasy in itself is harmless enough, but taking it to the point that you actually try to hold discussions about bringing it about is ridiculous.

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 10:25:48 AM

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I honestly find the whole idea of gynarchy rather silly, especially when you consider some of the common themes associated with this fictional fantasy world. So I personally have no desire to contribute to achieving something that I have no interest in in the first place. Id much rather have a partner and fellow collaborator when it comes to my submissive male counterpart

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 11:35:34 AM

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Every time I hear about female supremacy or the gynarchy, I remember this drawing I saw where all the women were tall blonde amazons, who looked pretty much identical and were all dressed in leather dresses with thigh high leather boots and carrying bull whips. The men were all naked and were being forced to build something. I have no clue how anyone could think that situation would be a good idea in reality. @OP, why don't you go talk to some lovely Soith African folks who remember what it was like during apartheid? Ask them how *awesome* it was to be subjugated, forced to work back breaking labour and treated worse than the animals. Athenna is quite correct, only someone who has never experienced discrimination or subjugation could ever fantasize about this being "hot". Slavery, real slavery, was overthrown and outlawed because there is no group/ethnicity/sex in the world that would be blissfully happy and content being treated like shit, used and disposed of.

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 11:44:05 AM

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Every time I hear about female supremacy or the gynarchy, I remember this drawing I saw where all the women were tall blonde amazons, who looked pretty much identical and were all dressed in leather dresses with thigh high leather boots and carrying bull whips. The men were all naked and were being forced to build something. I have no clue how anyone could think that situation would be a good idea in reality. @OP, why don't you go talk to some lovely Soith African folks who remember what it was like during apartheid? Ask them how *awesome* it was to be subjugated, forced to work back breaking labour and treated worse than the animals. Athenna is quite correct, only someone who has never experienced discrimination or subjugation could ever fantasize about this being "hot". Slavery, real slavery, was overthrown and outlawed because there is no group/ethnicity/sex in the world that would be blissfully happy and content being treated like shit, used and disposed of.

How disappointed they would be, if I were in charge of all the men I'd spend a lot of time wearing my pajamas reading books and drinking iced coffee. The men around me would be clothed at my insistence (I mean seriously, they would include my dad, my elderly neighbours, and other people whose penises I do NOT want to see). The tasks they would be assigned would include working for a living, keeping house, paying bills, being a decent parent where applicable.... so pretty much like normal life. Except, I guess if I were in charge, I'd put a ban on fart jokes, cars with oversized exhausts and other such manly pursuits.

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 11:57:08 AM

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You can't keep a good fart joke down Miss Athena...

Edit: Changed "Lady" to "Miss"...dunno why, seemed more appropriate.

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 12:06:19 PM

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I prefer to live in the real world and as such, I avoid "subs" whose ideas of submission are heavily fantasy based.

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 12:23:54 PM

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I totally combined Athena's and Rose's posts in my head and visualized a lazy cow, hanging out in her pyjamas, chewing her cud and squirting milk at anyone who makes a fart joke......I don't think I got enough sleep last night lol.

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 12:38:36 PM

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VV I think you just described OPs version of any woman not wanting to take the burdon of a global empire off the OP's shoulder!! Apparently a weel twue domme will let him stay at home chained in a cage while she takes his job.

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I totally combined Athena's and Rose's posts in my head and visualized a lazy cow, hanging out in her pyjamas, chewing her cud and squirting milk at anyone who makes a fart joke......I don't think I got enough sleep last night lol.

And umm no you probably didn't get enough sleep

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 7:07:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: GivingAwaytoHER

Hi A/all,

Can i know Y/your views about Gynarchy? And how can w/We achieve it? or at least take our part in achieving it?

From our personal lives to general environment??

Thanks

Gynarchy....is that a safe deposit box thing?

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 7:18:06 PM

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I can't improve upon what's already been said here, so I leave you all with this.

Viva La Vagina!

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 8:02:30 PM

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LMAO just soaked my blackberry!!!

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 8:50:56 PM

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Awww, I went to go look for the follow-up replies to the "make my dom do all my work" thread as I'd commented in it and it seems to be gone!

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 9:11:11 PM

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I've said it before and I'll say it again.

Center-Left politics, with an emphasis on high (UK style) family subsidies (welfare for single mothers) and widened access to low cost, but good quality healthcare, will do more to help our beloved sisters, than showering them with worthless sex slaves ever would.

OP, if you really want to know about "Gynarchy", start with "It Takes a Village to Raise a Child" by Hillary Clinton.

Also, the People's Mojahedin Organization of Iran is a semi-legal entity now. Maybe you should pop over to Iraq and have a chat with them.

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 9:27:38 PM

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I thank Y/you all for comments.

Kindly also guide me about FLR (Female Led Relations).

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 9:37:06 PM

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You know, it's not all that hard. Simply be interesting, be courteous, be sane, be intelligent, be nearby (local to her physical location), be relevant, be interested in Her as a person not as a fetish delivery system, read the whole profile, have something more to offer than your kinks, don't send form letters, get out into your local community and interact with real people (Fetlife.com for events in your area).

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 9:51:32 PM

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Thanks for your reply but i did'nt ask you for tips.

i asked about FLR.

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 9:53:59 PM

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Female Led Relationship - A relationship in which the woman always holds the TV remote control and the man sits the fuck down and shuts the fuck up about it.

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RE: GYNARCHY - 12/20/2012 10:04:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

You know, it's not all that hard. Simply be interesting, be courteous, be sane, be intelligent, be nearby (local to her physical location), be relevant, be interested in Her as a person not as a fetish delivery system, read the whole profile, have something more to offer than your kinks, don't send form letters, get out into your local community and interact with real people (Fetlife.com for events in your area).

Otter the basic problem with this advice is its logical, intelligent & based in reality...he wants none of that!!! Weel twue dommes (like in porn) will let him tell them what to do, be rude, disrespectful & fuckin nuts!!

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