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RE: subs vs slaves - 12/21/2012 10:04:49 AM

DarkSteven

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Jay, I did you a disservice by answering your question literally. The correct answer should have been that if your relationship works for you and your Domme, labels don't matter.

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RE: subs vs slaves - 12/21/2012 10:34:45 AM

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Simple answer is you were trolling the wrong ankle!! You probably should start out as a sub to someone that actually LIKES men!! A lowly worm you are not!

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Everyone agrees that a slave is more submissive than a sub. Everyone disagrees where the demarcation line occurs.

Glad to help.

I never expected to get such a negative response from not wanting to be someones slave, which is why I had to ask. I thought that maybe I was wrong somehow

Would it be considered trolling the wrong anckle if I was the one approached? I thought a simple and poliet no thank you would be fine then it turned into her telling me that I don't truely want this lifestyle O.o ...very confusing

Immediate thought is you were actually talking to a dude!! You will hear is say things like "weel twue (doms, subs) always do ___" its a joke...about people like this!! Some believe if you aren't stupid, gullible, able to be bullied or pushed around by any random stranger then you can't possibly be submissive. The answer to "if you don't do what I say you must not want this" is "I'm sorry you're correct, I don't want what you are offering. Have a nice day" (its fuck you bitch that sounds nice)

Osade would be a good example of a sub with backbone.

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RE: subs vs slaves - 12/21/2012 10:42:49 AM

jay1371

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So in short... (just to make sure I understand this story correctly)...

Someone wanted you to be their slave.
You declined.
They threw a hissy fit.

Do I have that about right? Because if so I think the better question for you would've been "What's the difference between a Domme and an Idiotress?"

Other people have already answered the sub/slave thing but I'll go ahead and give you a warning. Pretty much none of the words used in discussing BDSM are well defined and that is on purpose.

Yup that about covers it. Thank you for the breakdown, I appreciate it. I'd feel bad if it was my assumption that caused her to be pissed off and would have worded it different. Now that I know I was spot on I don't have to worry about it lol.

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RE: subs vs slaves - 12/21/2012 10:59:07 AM

jay1371

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Immediate thought is you were actually talking to a dude!! You will hear is say things like "weel twue (doms, subs) always do ___" its a joke...about people like this!! Some believe if you aren't stupid, gullible, able to be bullied or pushed around by any random stranger then you can't possibly be submissive. The answer to "if you don't do what I say you must not want this" is "I'm sorry you're correct, I don't want what you are offering. Have a nice day" (its fuck you bitch that sounds nice)
Osade would be a good example of a sub with backbone.

You know...it seemed a lot more confusing in my head lol. But then again I guess that's one of the reasons for this forum lol. Thank you very much

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