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DarkSteven -> RE: Health question (12/27/2012 4:21:01 PM)

A rule of thumb I've heard is to let the clamps on for fifteen minutes or less.



JeffBC -> RE: Health question (12/27/2012 8:15:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
A rule of thumb I've heard is to let the clamps on for fifteen minutes or less.

I'd heard that also DS. So my eyebrows kind of went up at the OP's story. But given I'm not a sadist I have no real knowledge about this and could only really speculate on the basis of "unknown invisible damage, let it heal".



poise -> RE: Health question (12/27/2012 9:03:56 PM)

My nipples are so sensitive, I may need some lansinoh just from reading this thread.
Bless you all with the brave nipples!



knownlimits -> RE: Health question (12/28/2012 5:36:06 AM)

greetings,

hope your Dom and you learned from this ..uhm..experience and will pay better attention next time:)

bepanthen/panthenol lotion works wonders.

best,
k.




MyHazelLabyrinth -> RE: Health question (12/28/2012 6:41:37 AM)

You'd be surprised of how common a situation this actually is, in reference to the OP. Well it's all too common in the scene over here, that many don't know how long they can leave clamps on even hearing some to "threaten" their sub to wearing them for hours.
I don't know them intimately, but i would say that would be quite bad for the poor nipples.

Remember nipples are precious! And once you fuck them up, that's it.



tazzygirl -> RE: Health question (12/28/2012 7:25:52 AM)


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ORIGINAL: hiswishes

How do you keep your nipples from scabbing over, & keep them soft after a lot of use?


Lansinoh - breast feeding nipple cream...

http://www.motherhood.com/maternity/skin-care-nursing.asp

10 bucks... well worth the money



theRose4U -> RE: Health question (12/28/2012 8:49:26 AM)


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ORIGINAL: hiswishes

Didn't mean to, it was just over a long time, didn't notice how long it was till after he did it. Then he did it again the next day, & wants to do so again soon.

Then he's not taking care of his toys!!! If you break something some care is needed to make sure overall health doesn't become an issue. What I am reading is he caused injury by not knowing his tools & paying attention which caused injury, he then did the same thing again not noticing or caring he'd done harm & now that harm is known he wants to cause same harm that is obvious again....doesn't read to me like someone worth playing with anymore.



lizi -> RE: Health question (12/28/2012 9:30:34 AM)


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ORIGINAL: hiswishes

He does, but we had not seen each other for a very long time. We both forgot to notice the time.


I'd strongly suggest that overall you do some reading and searching on safe play so you can have a base of knowledge to draw from. It's your body. Dominants are not magical all-knowing overseers of all things that pertain to BDSM. Plus, as you stated above, they forget.

You are responsible for yourself in the end, to let yourself take on damage beyond a certain limit because you were passive and blind is hogwash. It's much more useful to him to be an active helper and assistant. It's great that you came here to ask your question, I hope you continue onto finding out more about safe play limits [:)]



MarineKitten -> RE: Health question (12/28/2012 9:35:01 AM)

I'm also jumping on the time limit bandwagon. Fifteen minutes or less sounds about right from what I remember hearing. As for the aftercare, to keep nipples from cracking or pealing there are a few products that are made for breastfeeding mothers. One product I know of by name is udder creme. Yes that is the name of it, and it works very well. *speaking from personal experience*



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