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Right Next Door - 1/2/2013 10:19:36 AM

absolutchocolat

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I met another switch from CollarMe and we played a few times at the end of November. It was incredible. He's a fun guy. Turns out, we live within blocks of each other!

We chatted for about a month before meeting. He's relatively new to kink and BDSM, so I had been giving him tips and advice on toys, play partners, and other stuff. We met in person and just clicked. He's awesome.

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RE: Right Next Door - 1/2/2013 11:03:43 AM

DarkSteven

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Yay for the two of you!

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RE: Right Next Door - 1/2/2013 6:44:57 PM

absolutchocolat

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thanks :)

ETA: was gonna put his name in the post, but I'll leave it out to protect the satisfied.

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RE: Right Next Door - 1/3/2013 3:35:02 PM

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fun! fun!

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RE: Right Next Door - 1/3/2013 10:12:43 PM

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Congrats, chocolat.

Had to give him tips, ie he was the one in D mode. (my question mark isn`t working right now; extended ascii; arghh). Okay, I don`t actually need the details. Just curious.

Whichever, it`s good to mentor someone less experienced.

Beyond that, though... And I`m just trying to better understand how things work for switches...

In general, when you pair up...are you each, sometimes, on a different side of the kneel (qm) Or is it a `with her, I`m Dom` and with others it depends on chemistry (qm).

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Hope it continues in whatever way works for both of you.

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RE: Right Next Door - 1/11/2013 2:18:03 AM

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Thanks sugar :)

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RE: Right Next Door - 1/17/2013 2:04:26 PM

absolutchocolat

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We're both switches and he wanted to try his hand at being topped by me. He's also topped me, and we had fun doing both. Mostly, we have a lot of rough, kinky sex and there are lots of orgasms had by all.

Honestly, being a switch just makes everything a bit more open. I actually lean dominant (even though I hate saying that, since people like to put switches in the D or s column. Grr!), but sometimes, I want to be bent over and spanked. Hair pulled. Forced on my knees and made to suck cock until my face and throat aches. So yeah, I think switches get the best of both worlds. I'd totally recommend switching at least once (or simply being topped) to experience the other side of the kneel. I think I'm a pretty good domme because I loved being a submissive and getting trained. And vice-versa.

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