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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/10/2013 5:30:54 AM   
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I really did NOT want to post in this thread, but all of you women made me do it Curse your entire gender!!!!


Is that how it is? In that case, c'mere little boy...I'll make you do some other things. You'll like it, and then curse me again

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/10/2013 2:31:06 PM   
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I told you DS, we are the devil. Buwahahaha!

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/10/2013 4:48:27 PM   
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TNDK, The devil does wear prada. Lol

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/10/2013 5:55:49 PM   
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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/13/2013 6:27:25 PM   
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This here is tricky. I know many financial dommes who are only comfortable accepting gift cards from financial subs. Exactly what did you two agree upon when you began your relationship?
I mean, if you trust her, give her the number. Then again this all depends on whether or not you believe she'll max it out and if you can pay the bill.
I'd say tell her no. If she gets mad, then that's her.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/13/2013 9:57:15 PM   
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I like the pre-paid card idea. If I were you, I'd load up a pre-paid card -- the maximum is usually around $750 -- and give her that as a test to see if she can be trusted. Giving someone a credit card number can potentially have very negative impacts on your life. Suppose you have a huge credit limit and she maxes it out and then disappears... now suppose you can't afford the bill. You may have to file for Chapter 7 or 13 bankruptcy and suffer its possible consequences. Also, don't forget to think about the well-being of your family!

If you do give a credit card number, it's better you do it personally. Let her write it down in front of you. That way, there is no proof of verbal communication that you gave her your number. If she does max it out and vanish, you can call your bank for FRAUD. And NEVER add a domme as an "autorized user" on your account because then you CANNOT claim that it was a fraud.

Safer way: stick with the pre-paid idea. Or just don't do it.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/13/2013 10:51:47 PM   
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That was funny sman..I know Dommes that have been the ONLY ones that have taken care of a sub when they couldnt take care of themselves, made sure they had a home to come to when they got out of the hospital BECAUSE the sub authorized them to do so with their money...the bottom line is..if YOU dont think its a good idea dont do it..you dont need us to tell you that.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/14/2013 1:53:26 AM   
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If you do give a credit card number, it's better you do it personally. Let her write it down in front of you. That way, there is no proof of verbal communication that you gave her your number. If she does max it out and vanish, you can call your bank for FRAUD.


Uhm... No, cos then you're committing fraud by lying to the bank about giving out your credit card digits. If the bank catches you at it for whatever reason, you're the one who'll be held accountable, not her.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/14/2013 11:35:59 PM   
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Just know that she will spend on it, because as a fin domme myself, I know I would certainly spend on it as well. So if you have a high limit that you are afraid of her running up, then get the pre paid visa card and load it up with a limit amount that you are comfortable losing and give her that instead.

By the way, she may not necessary run your card to the limit but she certainly will spend on it at will.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/15/2013 6:09:20 PM   
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2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?

Sorry i forgot to mention something. I buy her clothes from the topshop website. For that i needed her home address and she gave it. We also communicate on whatsapp. Just thought i should tell you this.


First off ... have you ever MET this Mistress in real life ????

Second ... close the credit card ... you knucklehead!

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 2/13/2013 9:14:35 AM   
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My advice would be no unless you are willing to accept the consequences.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 2/15/2013 8:14:36 PM   
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The prepaid card thing is a really great idea. I will be implementing it in the future.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 2/17/2013 9:24:47 PM   
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NO NO and No what if she goes away just say that if we meet in open and then in a relationship then you can give besides she just want money from you, do not in love with you. If you have to spend money than a pro Dom can do better than her and you also get new taste every time.

Thanks

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