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RE: Money mistress asks a question to subs... - 1/12/2013 10:25:57 PM

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Thanks for the advice. I did a hypnosis session with him has I am a qualified therapist and found out some horrible things in his past, we are working through it- but I don't think he is ready for the BDSM world yet. I have asked him to work threw his own issues first. I don't think BDSM Should be used as an escape from a bad reality.

But let's put this in perspective, how would you feel if someone you put in a position of trust rejected you because you had too big a butt, too small a boobs, too whatever a ____ years ago!!
In my mind this isn't a fin domme scenario at all!! Its a kinky therapy client with the opportunity to blur the professional line with his hypnotist. I'd be really angry if information obtained that way was used for intentional humiliation. The scenario as I'm reading it played out is kinky boy let you hypnotise him, you found out rape occurred & told him to work on his issues instead of the kinky sex he had built up in his head...which he called humiliation, because it is in the worst way

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RE: Money mistress asks a question to subs... - 1/13/2013 5:13:33 AM

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NB... I did a hypnotherapy session after we ended our relationship. I suggested it to him as I found many of his requests quite disturbing. Please do not reply to this post if you wish to be mean or degrade me. At Allison... I do not appreciate the fact that you are sending me negative posts and messages, Please concern yourself with your OWN life, NOT MINE. I do apologize to those in this forum who have misinterpreted my forums, I am from South Africa and there is a strong language barrier. I also find it disrespectful to humiliate me Allison for A spelling error.

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RE: Money mistress asks a question to subs... - 1/13/2013 8:38:11 AM

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I like it ! BUT theres some things you may say or do that I dont like. Humiliation can be done differet ways. Maybe your sub is just into giving you there money and thats what they like about it.

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RE: Money mistress asks a question to subs... - 1/13/2013 9:46:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistressJinxBBW
Thanks for the advice. I did a hypnosis session with him has I am a qualified therapist and found out some horrible things in his past, we are working through it- but I don't think he is ready for the BDSM world yet. I have asked him to work threw his own issues first. I don't think BDSM Should be used as an escape from a bad reality.

One word of caution: not everything discovered in a hypnosis therapy session is, in fact, true. The most obvious/controversial examples are past life regression and repressed memories of alien abduction. If it's something he consciously remembers, and just wasn't comfortable telling you outside of hypno, then you're probably dealing with reality. But if he reported, say, childhood sexual abuse, and he has no recollection of it outside of hypno sessions with you, he should probably get a second opinion from a therapist with whom he has no other type of relationship.

Regarding "humiliation": I find it to be an almost useless word. Does it mean "dressing like a woman," or "being forced to do something I don't like doing," or verbal abuse in public? Or something else? So if you asked a more pointed question, "do you like it when your dom humiliates you by doing ______" you might get more helpful answers.

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RE: Money mistress asks a question to subs... - 1/13/2013 10:03:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistressJinxBBW

NB... I did a hypnotherapy session after we ended our relationship. I suggested it to him as I found many of his requests quite disturbing. Please do not reply to this post if you wish to be mean or degrade me. At Allison... I do not appreciate the fact that you are sending me negative posts and messages, Please concern yourself with your OWN life, NOT MINE. I do apologize to those in this forum who have misinterpreted my forums, I am from South Africa and there is a strong language barrier. I also find it disrespectful to humiliate me Allison for A spelling error.

IF and I do mean if, you are actually a licensed therapist, then you should realize the conflict between having a client for your findomme "business" and also as a patient. It is wrong on so many levels. It does not matter if you are from South Africa (where the current primary language is English by the way) or Thailand. Ethics are ethics. You seem to be lacking them.

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RE: Money mistress asks a question to subs... - 1/14/2013 4:29:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistressJinxBBW

NB... I did a hypnotherapy session after we ended our relationship. I suggested it to him as I found many of his requests quite disturbing. Please do not reply to this post if you wish to be mean or degrade me. At Allison... I do not appreciate the fact that you are sending me negative posts and messages, Please concern yourself with your OWN life, NOT MINE. I do apologize to those in this forum who have misinterpreted my forums, I am from South Africa and there is a strong language barrier. I also find it disrespectful to humiliate me Allison for A spelling error.

I'm not degrading you, nor am I being mean, nor am I sending you messages, I am openly stating an opinion on a discussion board for all to see.

24 years old is very young to be a hypnotherapist. That's a fact.

What you did was incredibly unethical. That's also a fact.

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RE: Money mistress asks a question to subs... - 2/21/2013 9:17:07 PM

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