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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/25/2013 5:59:13 PM   
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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/25/2013 6:00:34 PM   
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I think more marriages would last with seperate housing.


Yes yes yes yes yes.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/25/2013 6:22:12 PM   
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A recent thread on whether CMNF parties were staged drew suspicion partly because the females in the audience acted the way men 'wish' they'd act, not how they actually act in real life (kink or otherwise).

I, in turn, have wished women would act the way "I'd" want them to act - yet - they (decidedly) do not.

Case in point, a few years ago I brought a group of fellas to the Power Exchange over on Otis Street, where I warned them to be on the lookout for any woman who seemed to do exactly what you'd 'want' them to do. These 'women', invariably Asian, were dressed sexily with short skirts and nice boobs, and, best of all, they acted "too good to be true".

That is, they walked up to us, to talk to us; they sat next to us closely and provocatively; they allowed us to touch them without flinching, anywhere we liked; and, best of all, they knew the center focus of a man's manhood, and they deftly touched it (we were clothed) and talked about "it" just as we men absolutely would want real women to do.

Problem was: If it was too good to be true (I warned my naive compatriots), it 'was' too good to be true.
(They were men in the guise of women).

Clearly you could not easily tell (at least not the Asians, whose ankles, adam's apples, legs, and face bore no resemblance to the rigors of masculinity), as even their high pitched ngung ngang voices failed to betray what they truly were.

No. Indeed. What revealed their true nature was nothing more than the fact that they acted exactly like (we) men wanted them to. Therefore, they were not women.

In parting, I ask the gallery ... What traits or demeanors do we men & women WISH our prospective partners would do, that just isn't in their nature to do.


Bud....you need some freak insurance.

I suspect if I signed up....I could collect.

(By Tuesday).

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/25/2013 8:09:56 PM   
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I think more marriages would last with seperate housing.


Yes yes yes yes yes.

Maybe all they need is separate bathrooms. That would do it for me.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/25/2013 10:04:21 PM   
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i'm just going to do what Lookie tells the cats to tell me to do.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/26/2013 3:19:10 AM   
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I think more marriages would last with seperate housing.


Yes yes yes yes yes.

Maybe all they need is separate bathrooms. That would do it for me.


Hmm. Separate bedrooms?

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/26/2013 4:18:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not seperate bedrooms - DUPLEXs! Talk about a perfect solution. If my sweetie didn't want to clean the toilet for 5 years - meh, thats his call, because mine would be clean. If i wanted a pink bedroom, well, he wouldn't have to sleep in it. and so on and so forth.............................

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/26/2013 4:43:06 AM   
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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/26/2013 9:43:09 AM   
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I think more marriages would last with seperate housing.


Yes yes yes yes yes.

Maybe all they need is separate bathrooms. That would do it for me.


Hmm. Separate bedrooms?

There is a fascinating article in the New York Times that lends insight as to why separate bedrooms, bathrooms, or even separate residences would help us overcome that ennui. Here's the link:
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/12/02/opinion/sunday/new-love-a-short-shelf-life.html?pagewanted=all&_r=2&

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/26/2013 3:42:24 PM   
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i'm confused.

i'm just going to do what Lookie tells the cats to tell me to do.


Beatrice the 17th would love that.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/26/2013 3:44:22 PM   
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Not seperate bedrooms - DUPLEXs! Talk about a perfect solution. If my sweetie didn't want to clean the toilet for 5 years - meh, thats his call, because mine would be clean. If i wanted a pink bedroom, well, he wouldn't have to sleep in it. and so on and so forth.............................


Based on my last several relationships....I'm thinking multiple separating GPS coordinates would be a better definer.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/27/2013 6:46:08 AM   
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I'm just gonna post this since no one else seems to have the balls to be honest here..

Level 1 women are expected to act as my personal fuckmeat, a cockdock, as someone else put it, a cumsocket.

We'll discuss level 2 women if I ever find one who can get over themselves enough to get past level 1 and realize they are here to serve me..

Cheers.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/27/2013 7:22:54 AM   
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I think more marriages would last with seperate housing.


Yes yes yes yes yes.

Maybe all they need is separate bathrooms. That would do it for me.

Oh definitely.

In some sense, it's just a human thing, i.e., the philosophy of human relations of a good friend of mine states that "everybody needs their own box", i.e., we all need some little bit of space to call our own, a place to keep our personal shit, that's just ours.

Having been in the military of course, I have a great deal of experience living in close proximity to other people for extended periods, based on sheer happenstance rather than any mutual desire, so I'm fairly experienced at negotiating personal space issues, I assume coming from a large family also results in the development of similar skills, the lack thereof which often contributes to tension in tight quarters.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/27/2013 10:59:24 AM   
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I like my men to be polite respectful yet controlling and dominant.
Sexually I am very submissive so I like guys who are forceful, rough and who take me when they want and maybe share me with their friends. My looks have faded but I have nympho tendencies and like rough sex.
Needless to say its difficult for me to find a guy who fulfils the criteria.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/27/2013 11:24:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		If your looks have faded you must have been something. My problem would probably be finding friends I'm willing to share you with, I don't know if I want to follow any of those bastards in.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/27/2013 11:46:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I also work in the sex industry so the sex is not a problem. Being shared out is not obligatory, just something a previous master did. I rather enjoyed the anticipation of not knowing who or how many. My problem is finding a guy who fulfils my criteria....or comes close. Plenty promise, few deliver.


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If your looks have faded you must have been something. My problem would probably be finding friends I'm willing to share you with, I don't know if I want to follow any of those bastards in.



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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/27/2013 12:11:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds like bragging maybe, I'm not superman, I just think anything worth doing is worth doing exhaustively, so my appetites have generally proven too monstrous for most women, I always end up having to pull my punches, metaphorically speaking.

I'm sure there are women out there that could get me to cry uncle first, I just haven't met them yet.

I'm sure you've heard that before, but you rattled first, lol.

I guess some things will just have to remain a mystery.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/27/2013 12:35:25 PM   
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Alrighty then.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/27/2013 1:17:56 PM   
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Maybe all they need is separate bathrooms. That would do it for me.


I think many countries handle this better in that men are expected to treat the wife as the primary woman, but nobody begrudges them a few secondary flings a week on the harem (which doesn't count against him).

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 2/27/2013 2:52:52 PM   
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