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If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore?

I am a woman: I ENJOY giving blowjobs

62% (124)

I am a woman: I TOLERATE giving blowjobs

11% (23)

I am a woman: I DISLIKE giving blowjobs

6% (13)

I am a man: I ENJOY giving blowjobs

7% (15)

I am a man: I TOLERATE giving blowjobs

1% (3)

I am a man: I DISLIKE giving blowjobs

11% (22)

Total Votes : 200

(last vote on : 6/27/2013 5:27:22 PM)
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subinsilicon -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/19/2013 10:54:03 AM)
Was there ever a man who didn't crave a bj from his Domina - but never received it?

Etruscano -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/19/2013 12:02:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subinsilicon Was there ever a man who didn't crave a bj from his Domina - but never received it? That's the thing. I crave being submissive - yet I want a blow job. It doesn't seem to be in the cards though. Not for the Dominant Women I've met anyway.

Level -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/19/2013 1:11:45 PM)
Maybe start looking at switches?

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/19/2013 1:19:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Etruscano quote: ORIGINAL: subinsilicon Was there ever a man who didn't crave a bj from his Domina - but never received it? That's the thing. I crave being submissive - yet I want a blow job. It doesn't seem to be in the cards though. Not for the Dominant Women I've met anyway. Why would you expect a Dominant to do such a submissive service act??? What you seek can be had from Her other male subs. Simple. This is one reason some Dommes like to keep multiple subs.

Kana -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/19/2013 1:21:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS quote: ORIGINAL: Etruscano quote: ORIGINAL: subinsilicon Was there ever a man who didn't crave a bj from his Domina - but never received it? That's the thing. I crave being submissive - yet I want a blow job. It doesn't seem to be in the cards though. Not for the Dominant Women I've met anyway. Why would you expect a Dominant to do such a submissive service act??? So do you think male doms should go down on female subs/slaves? I gotta ask.

Level -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/19/2013 1:36:44 PM)
One person making another feel pleasure isnt necessarily submissive, especially if they're in a caring relationship.

kiwisub12 -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/19/2013 2:01:39 PM)
Disagree that a blowjob is a submissive act. Its just an act - no more and no less than any other. How you approach it determines the dominance or submission of the givee and the getter. and i don't like giving blow jobs. My jaws ache, my neck aches, it isn't very interesting for me and takes time away from my girlie bits. BUT if my sweetie wants a blowjob, he gets a blow job. And one of the most exciting blow jobs i ever gave him was when i was crouched by the bed with my arms caught on the bed, so i couldn't move. It was very sexy - because he was controlling everything - and i get off on that. And the position was such that my neck wasn't torqued at an odd angle. so maybe i do like giving blow jobs, in an odd way. Ah, who cares - i give blow jobs because i want him to be happy.

kallisto -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/19/2013 5:42:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level One person making another feel pleasure isnt necessarily submissive, especially if they're in a caring relationship. I'm certainly not qualified to give out points or gold stars, but you get bunches of kudos from me on this. [:)]

Level -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/19/2013 6:13:27 PM)
Those kudos are worth more than a gold star, my friend.

LadyPact -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/19/2013 9:43:51 PM)
Level, I gotta hand it to you. You are on top of this stuff tonight. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ OK, for those of you who think that a blow job is a submissive act, let Me whisper in your ear for a minute. How much more of a position of power could I be in than having your cock in My mouth, controlling every bit of sensation that I decide that you receive? You're not a damn bit in control. Every movement that I make, how fast or slow I do it, fuck, if I decide to let you even get close to an orgasm......... That's entirely up to Me. There's not one lick (pun intended) of you being "in charge". I'll do what I want, for as long as I want, and the conclusion will be My decision. For fun, I might even make you beg to have that orgasm, and if I'm doing it right, that's exactly what you'll do. Now, tell Me again about how that's a submissive act.

chatterbox24 -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/20/2013 11:09:19 AM)
Not the first time I have heard that! What is up with that. And that's where people get the impression dom/dommes are uncaring, non pleasing people. People new to the scene, and think that is just the way it is. But isn't that the truth? Not that statement is true, but some dominants do not perform acts to simply please another, and do consider below the belt oral pleasure non dominant. TO the poll. I can enjoy it but its rare. Depends on the person entirely.

Kana -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/20/2013 1:40:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact OK, for those of you who think that a blow job is a submissive act, let Me whisper in your ear for a minute. How much more of a position of power could I be in than having your cock in My mouth, controlling every bit of sensation that I decide that you receive? You're not a damn bit in control. Every movement that I make, how fast or slow I do it, fuck, if I decide to let you even get close to an orgasm......... That's entirely up to Me. There's not one lick (pun intended) of you being "in charge". I'll do what I want, for as long as I want, and the conclusion will be My decision. For fun, I might even make you beg to have that orgasm, and if I'm doing it right, that's exactly what you'll do. Now, tell Me again about how that's a submissive act. I have a friend, a biker broad who's a swinger, who once told me pretty much exactly that, word for word. Blew my mind. I'd never seen things from that side of the kneel.

lovethyself -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/20/2013 3:55:13 PM)
There are positions that are easier on your neck. It takes a bit of experimenting to find the right one for both of you, but when you do....... mmmmm....... you can go for waayyyy longer. We found our position that works, and it's just perfect for me, as I get to concentrate only on His pleasure, and not get distracted by discomfort, or have to stop before I injure myself. He seems to be happy with it too, as I no longer have to stop when the pain is too much. quote: ORIGINAL: kiwisub12 and i don't like giving blow jobs. My jaws ache, my neck aches, it isn't very interesting for me and takes time away from my girlie bits. BUT if my sweetie wants a blowjob, he gets a blow job. And one of the most exciting blow jobs i ever gave him was when i was crouched by the bed with my arms caught on the bed, so i couldn't move. It was very sexy - because he was controlling everything - and i get off on that. And the position was such that my neck wasn't torqued at an odd angle. so maybe i do like giving blow jobs, in an odd way. Ah, who cares - i give blow jobs because i want him to be happy.

pompeii -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/21/2013 12:08:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana So do you think male doms should go down on female subs/slaves? I gotta ask. I'd say that's 90% of the fun!

absolutchocolat -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/22/2013 1:55:07 AM)
You can always lie on your back and get your face fucked. If you're upside-down with your head hanging slightly off the bed, a penis can slide more easily down your throat, or...so I've heard. [;)]

BelleBound -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/23/2013 10:07:16 AM)
I like giving them, my problem is I injured my jaw several years ago. whenever I give a blow job after a couple of minutes my jaw hurts so bad I want to cry. It kinda ruins the mood, so blow jobs are unfortunately a once a month occurence.

Hillwilliam -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/23/2013 10:10:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat You can always lie on your back and get your face fucked. If you're upside-down with your head hanging slightly off the bed, a penis can slide more easily down your throat, or...so I've heard. [;)] I've heard that if the lady's legs are hooked into a spreader bar, it's a lot of fun to use a flogger on her pussy during this activity.

Duskypearls -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/23/2013 4:40:37 PM)
I have not already any of the posts before me, which is strange, for I adore, and am thrilled by, the idea/act of giving a blowjob. The process of discovery is so much fun to me...learning all the different ways and time frames within which a cock will respond. What fun to make it a mission to become cock-fluent. Does a particular one like it to be wetter, warmer, softer, rougher, drier, lighter, heavier, with or without warm breath or the resonance of a deep, low, throaty grrrrrrrr? Hot or cold liquids in the mouth? Does one respond more or less when different parts of my body are exposed, or become a playful tool to assist? By Gawd, there are as many different responses as there are cocks, which amazes me. Learning to give one the ride of its life is a distinct pleasure for me, and I take pride in my success in this endeavor.

Duskypearls -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/23/2013 4:50:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kaliko So what are we talking about, ladies? A blowjob? Or cock worship? A blowjob thread I can pass by. But noticing some posts about cock worship...well...I just can't turn away. Here's something I wrote awhile back in response to a thread on Fet about "cock worship." I've kept in on my page there because I just don't think I have it in me to write it all out again. :) What you've described is a blowjob in my world. A good one, but a blowjob, just the same. Cock worship is, for me, the care and attention not only inclusive of but also outside of sexual activity; the reverence for a male based on his being male and the attention and respect given to the most male physical part of him; an expression of an allegiance to him manifested with my mouth, lips, tongue, hands, face, and breasts. Raw, sexual hunger is not always a part of it, though it certainly could be. Rather, it's more of a genuflection or a respectful sideways step to allow for his comfort and care provided by his woman, with sexual release not being the ultimate goal for either. It's above sex and it's above orgasm. It's as common and expected among the two as daily conversation. It's practiced regularly through touch - providing warmth, comfort, stimulation, release, and rest. It's her keeping herself level or lower, and not forgetting even in the most mundane of daily moments that this part of him demands her attention. Cock worship is strictly defined to the man, not the cock. It's a cultivated veneration. It is a woman, with all her femininity, mistakes, openness, and shame, giving over to the man that is allowing her to revel wantonly in adulation. He watches her kneel, move, and serve and she does so regardless of arousal. It's not a blowjob. It's cock worship. She is not a "cock slut." She's his woman. ETA - correction. Oh, Kaliko, you have so beautifully expressed, in great detail and reverence, exactly what cock worship means to me. I cannot thank you enough for writing this gift of a post.

Duskypearls -> RE: If you're a woman, do you ENJOY giving a blowjob? Or is it merely a chore? (3/23/2013 4:51:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LilMissInocent If I do not WANT to do it, I will NOT do it. When I WANT to do it, I worship it and put my all into it. Include his cock, legs, ass, chest, eyes, his mind... I use my hands, lips, tongue, teeth, eyes, breath, everything... It is pure worship, his pleasure is the ONLY thing that matters... Exactly my sentiments!! Brava!

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