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Can I really call myself a switch? - 1/29/2013 6:32:47 PM   
Switcheroo1983


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I almost always prefer to sub. I found that out when my ex-wife was pregnant and we didn't have much of any other choice lol. But, if my partner wants it, I will Dom. I can enjoy being a Dom, but mostly I just Dom to make my partner happy. Thoughts?

Dave
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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 1/29/2013 6:36:14 PM   
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If you only switch to please others or because they ask you to but it's not your choice.
I personally don't consider you a switch but a service top.
Especially if you only are dominant during play or sex.

However, don't get stuck on labels.
Focus on what you enjoy.
What you need.
And finding someone who fits those things.

Labels can be helpful but I think they can also be confining and confusing at times.

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 1/29/2013 6:38:00 PM   
Lynnxz


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You can call yourself batman if it makes you tingly in the pants.

You rather sound like a sub who will will top when their partner wants to play around.


Don't get too hung up on labels, just do what makes you happy

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 1/29/2013 6:44:18 PM   
Switcheroo1983


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Thank you both kindly for the insightful replies!

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 1/30/2013 7:17:24 AM   
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Can I just point out that I DO call myself Batman and it DOES make me tingly in my pants.
Got to go,that little cumslut slave,Robin has been beentied up with Batrope,in the Batcave nigh all day.

KidCongo(aka Batman)
Gotham City

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 2/4/2013 2:58:05 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KidCongo

Can I just point out that I DO call myself Batman and it DOES make me tingly in my pants.
Got to go,that little cumslut slave,Robin has been beentied up with Batrope,in the Batcave nigh all day.

KidCongo(aka Batman)
Gotham City


DISCLAIMER!!!

I call myself Robin, but I have absolutely NOT formed any kind of Dynamic Duo with TPAM.

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 2/7/2013 3:07:44 PM   
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I call anyone who will happily play either side a switch

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 2/7/2013 3:31:36 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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I call a person who plays with me whatever she wants me to call her.

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 3/6/2013 9:33:59 AM   
WithBellsOn


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I generally prefer to sub, and I'm definitely more of a service top than a dominant or a sadist, and I still call myself a switch. *shrug* I don't know, I may switch labels again at some point -- no pun intended. ;P

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 3/7/2013 5:59:43 AM   
DV1970


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

If you only switch to please others or because they ask you to but it's not your choice.
I personally don't consider you a switch but a service top.
Especially if you only are dominant during play or sex.

However, don't get stuck on labels.
Focus on what you enjoy.
What you need.
And finding someone who fits those things.

Labels can be helpful but I think they can also be confining and confusing at times.


Exactly what she said! +1
Do what you like and what feels right and don't get stuck on titles or labels. Just be yourself and find someone that matches well with you.

DV

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 3/7/2013 4:01:54 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Switcheroo1983

I almost always prefer to sub. I found that out when my ex-wife was pregnant and we didn't have much of any other choice lol. But, if my partner wants it, I will Dom. I can enjoy being a Dom, but mostly I just Dom to make my partner happy. Thoughts?

Dave


So, what you're saying is, you prefer to be sub unless you're being Dom.

(Izzat about right?)

< Message edited by LookieNoNookie -- 3/7/2013 4:45:41 PM >

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 3/8/2013 11:55:31 AM   
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I have to agree that you are primary a sub and will become a service top , and that's OK. And yes that is a switch. Me I AM defiantly a Switch as I love being and Doing both (evil grin ) = Master knows me fully very well although I never attempt to top Him ( He's a Sadist), I leave that for my own slave ( and yes I am also a Sadist). I am not a service submissve, and yes i know they do exist and that's great to. Just Be you're self and take you're time and find out who you are on the inside and do what is right for you. You will find the balance you need that way, and will be much happier. I did and I am very happy with who I am.

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 4/16/2013 7:16:54 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Switcheroo1983

I almost always prefer to sub. I found that out when my ex-wife was pregnant and we didn't have much of any other choice lol. But, if my partner wants it, I will Dom. I can enjoy being a Dom, but mostly I just Dom to make my partner happy. Thoughts?

Dave


You may call yourself a switch.

Permission granted.

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 5/3/2013 6:06:01 PM   
wannapleez


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
You can call yourself batman if it makes you tingly in the pants.


LOL !

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
Don't get too hung up on labels, just do what makes you happy


Preach it!

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 5/8/2013 9:29:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KidCongo

Can I just point out that I DO call myself Batman and it DOES make me tingly in my pants.
Got to go,that little cumslut slave,Robin has been beentied up with Batrope,in the Batcave nigh all day.

KidCongo(aka Batman)
Gotham City

Oh paleeeze!! I can shave my bush into a bat, but it doesn't make me the fuckin bat signal!! A switch generally does have 2 or more sides to their personality. I'm Domme day to day, the rare exception has been trustworthy alpha males that literally tripped my switch.
Others I've seen here do read like bottoms. If there isn't a power dynamic, but someone pounding your ass for your kicks...it aint kink

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 5/16/2013 10:50:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: theRose4U


Oh paleeeze!! I can shave my bush into a bat,

For the last time.....PICTURES

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 6/11/2013 11:24:55 AM   
dolorsub


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Yes, you are a switch.

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 6/15/2013 2:18:38 PM   
quietnoise3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
I call a person who plays with me whatever she wants me to call her.


LOL this really did make me burst out laughing!

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 6/17/2013 2:35:36 AM   
robertodom1


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Well, you are a switch... I am a Master and I don't think I would ever try to become a sub... so, if you can do it, you're a switch :)

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RE: Can I really call myself a switch? - 7/17/2013 3:35:59 PM   
splatterpunk


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Switcheroo1983

I almost always prefer to sub. I found that out when my ex-wife was pregnant and we didn't have much of any other choice lol. But, if my partner wants it, I will Dom. I can enjoy being a Dom, but mostly I just Dom to make my partner happy. Thoughts?

Dave


sure why not it's easy

"i'm a switch"

good job!


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