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CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Here's a thought... (2/1/2013 1:14:54 PM)
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ORIGINAL: jlf1961
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ORIGINAL: ServosCor
jlf...........Is it really possible to be "too honest"? Having been in a LTR that lacked honesty, to me if someone is less than honest there would be no consideraton given as a potential partner. Just curious.
Well as soon as I say I am on meds for PTSD and bipolar disorder, the exchange of messages seems to stop and I find myself blocked.
I've got PTSD too. Many survivors do. (LOL, I suddenly remembered an intern who told me "You're not old enough to have been in the Vietnam War". Duh, if even a new doctor can screw that up, imagine how confused/misinformed the average joe can be about PTSD.)
I have always been brutally honest here at CM. Even years ago when I was having my third and fourth chemos back to back for lymphoma and they weren't working. When I was on the "wait and see" list, I was honest about that and yes, it was shooting myself in the foot. :) It rarely stopped people wanting casual play partners...and some people were interested enough to have a relationship with me.
When I read the OP's profile, other than the crazy stats and looking for list, I read that this person is here to bait people and is harsh about common human frailties. (I saw too much ranting and ugliness.) Here's a thought...maybe the submissive women are not attracted to this and are wanting more stability and kindness, someone they feel they can trust.
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is it possible to become such a good writer (liar) that reality does not show through in this web based social networking medium
As lies tend to obscure reality...and being a good writer does not equate being a good liar...all of us here have to sift through the shiite/lies to discover for ourselves who is real and who is just here to bait and stir up shiite. Same goes for meetups, we have to wait and see if someone has chosen to misrepresent themselves.
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is it actually possible for (now over 40) a single male to meet for more than a coffee and let me begin by saying good bye from a first contact on CM?
Yes. Most of the men I met up with from CM over the years were over 40. I topped many, if I liked them. My slave was 56, when I met up with him for the first time, and I ended up collaring him. I don't understand that last part of your sentence.
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How do you negate all the negative that females experience with these on line dating sights?
How?
Where?
In what part of the world?
Would any of that make a difference to use CM as a bona fide dating site, let alone one in the life stlye?
You cannot negate all the negatives that females experience when they come to these online dating sites. The men will simply not cooperate, too many are making profiles just to f*ck with them (name calling, baiting), or are lying about being divorced, not having a significant other, etc. Others come here with anger issues, and they use the females here to vent all of their rage. Others have entitlement issues, assuming that all women here are free whores...and throwing tantrums when one of them says NO.
New women are often easy marks for wankers. My cousin's son used to go to a BDSM dating site and was thrilled over how easy it was to have some submissive (and in sub frenzy for the first time) woman get on web cam and do anything he asked. He wanked off so much that his penis became badly inflamed and he had to go to the doctor to get, what he later referred to, his "jack off" cream. I'll bet there were many new women who thought they were entering into a relationship, when in reality they were only being used by someone who was little more than a kid.
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