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MistressDarkArt -> February Roll Call (2/2/2013 6:29:48 PM)

Greetings all!

Somehow I managed to miss the roll call in January with all the stuff going on. The news here is that I cried my eyes out last month over having to retire the 22-year old Tercel I've had since it was brand new. California has very strict emissions standards. Though the car passed with more-than-flying colors, an EGR sensor failure kept the check engine light. As a beach car, the Terc was rusted out and held together with tub calk so it wasn't worth the repair.

Granted, "it's just a car" but it reliably and economically shuttled me around a couple hundred thousand miles. It kept me safe and mobile in a nasty rock slide on a winding country road in a huge storm. Scary as f*ck, but my little trooper made it home though the muffler was torn off and the undercarriage and driver-side door so crumpled I had to get out on the other side. Cabin Boy hammered everything out, replaced the muffler, and it ran without incident for another three years before being forced into retirement.

The good news is that Ca. has a buy-back program. I got $1000 for recycling it. I found a blue Yaris 5-speed way up in N. California. S and I did a road trip to get it, spending the night in the Bay Area visiting my darling niece and great-nephew at the house I grew up in. Now I'm over the grief of losing the Terc, it's kind of nice to have a 5-year old car where EVERYTHING works!! 43 mpg driving 80 the whole way is nice too, and it's not even a hybrid!

Huck (aka FlyingKahuna on the other side) spent a few days here for his semi-annual visit. We had a great time eating way too much, bike riding, and sitting through movie marathons. Btw, we give "Zero Dark Thirty" an enthusiastic two thumbs up, "Loopers" a 'not-even-free-at-the-library'.

Allie from our boards will be in Ca. visiting her man soon. We're firming up plans to meet for lunch and I'm going to see if I can get her interested in trying a contra dance. I'm really looking forward to meeting her. She seems like such a sweet, spirited person!

So how's it going, everybody? An early happy...ahem...VD wish to y'all!




MaamJay -> RE: February Roll Call (2/3/2013 1:01:07 AM)

Greetings and please don't pass out with shock! After a long absence ... PhD's are all consuming ... I am back! Not sure how often I will get to check in as I start a new job in a new town tomorrow, but hope not to be a total stranger. It was a huge relief to hand the thing in in December, don't have to worry about it till the examiners get back to Me and that won't be for a little while. It all came out well so I am hopeful.

However, the job, much needed for finances, means our travelling days are over for now. We will still be living in the 5th wheeler for the foreseeable future though the ultimate aim will be to buy a house in this location. First we will have to pay back some of the very sick credit card incurred trying to cross the country to get to this job. After a few years of relatively hassle-free travel, everything went wrong on this trip. I won't go into all the details, suffice to say it has included a blown tyre, broken gas lines to the fridge when all plumbers were on holidays, the Chev developing a smoking at idle habit and sundry frustrating electrical faults that nearly stranded Us roadside in the remote Nullarbor, and three lots of welding of the hitch's pinbox to the chassis which finally succumbed to Australia's rough, flood-ravaged roads. It has taken Us 5 weeks (instead of 2!), and over $1200 in repairs (over and above $2000 fuel etc etc), not to mention a LOT of angst about whether We would get here in time. We were within a day's drive to Our destination last Sunday when We encountered the ferocious storms and floods. It took a week for the waters to subside enough for the roads to re-open. During the trip, 2 friends and My brother in England dropped dead unexpectedly, so it has been an emotional toll too. I wish I felt more rested to start this job but gotta roll with the punches!

Master and I are still very happy together, and I am in total awe of His ability to get the car going under any circumstances! The only repair He couldn't do was the welding, He has coped with everything else that has been thrown at Him, plus all the driving and the hard yakka of setting up and packing down. I might be the academic brain and $-earner, but without His smarts We'd never have got here. He's looking forward to a nice rest being in one spot and just being house husband while I work. We still want a sub, and there is a lad to meet nearby with whom I have been corresponding, but there's no urgency, I need to settle in first. But hopefully the future will hold some better luck on all fronts!

I hope everyone here is well, I will check back to this thread and see how everyone I know is going. I have missed you all!
Maam Jay aka violet[A]




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: February Roll Call (2/3/2013 11:20:33 AM)

Hi All.

I've finally bit the bullet and made a health-care decision I've been debating about for a long time, like for at least a year. I now have my referral from my primary ARNP and I'm going for an informational visit to a medical office to find out more about gastric-bypass surgery. My insurance covers it, so that won't be a problem. I've been on so freaking many diet/exercise programs and I'm still not getting any smaller. I know the surgery has risks, I've already researched all that, but so does the amount of excess weight I'm holding onto. I'm really excited about this, so I hope it all works out. The people I know who've went to the place I'm going said they had their surgery within six months or so of their first visit so I'm hoping it will be done by summer. [:)]

NBMG




TNDommeK -> RE: February Roll Call (2/3/2013 7:01:53 PM)

February, hmmm. well, we are still alive. lol
We are going to WWE this month (seeing the Rock,mmmm).
The girls are wonderful, we are great.




ShaharThorne -> RE: February Roll Call (2/7/2013 7:29:56 AM)

I am doing fine, even through I am being exposed to various viruses. The NP at MHMR has me on temazepam for sleeping now since my body got used to Ambien. I have to have sleep because of the fibromyalgia. Mom has been feeling puny but she recovered last week and took of this morning to visit her brother in Arkansas. She did not take baby M with her because she was sick the other day.

I got my daughter Lizard into college. She admit that Japanese is too hard so she dropped that class and is devoting more time to theater, english comp and math. She has dyscalculia, which is a math learning disorder. It runs in the family so she sees a tutor before class to make sure she can understand what she needs to do. Oh, did I mention that today is her 18th birthday? I got her a Thor hammer keychain as a present since she is crazy for the Avengers.

I have been getting some books learning about the War of the Roses, the Tudor era and the start of the Stuarts. Lizard and I got into an argument about Richard III and she had to concede that I was right. She was saying that he was a crusader and I told her that Richard the Lionhearted was the crusader...that would be my next area of studying...the Crusades, including the Children's Crusade.




Ambyant -> RE: February Roll Call (2/7/2013 11:42:07 AM)

This whole New Year stuff has Me running at full charge - a Very tumultuous beginning to 'the rest of My life'!
Big news is that I've begun filming for a cable access show on My art; if all goes well, you'll be able to peek over My shoulder as I find the concept, do the sketches while a model holds still for us all on camera - all the way to finished painting! My Indigogo campaign just went up to fund My Studio!




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: February Roll Call (2/10/2013 1:06:41 PM)

I just spent a laid-back, relaxed weekend with my Kitty. He left a couple of hours ago and I already miss him.

In other news, 'm getting organized and prepping to plant a "grocery store" garden this spring. Last summer, I promised the kids we'd have a garden this year. The goal is to grow the fruits/veggies we buy most often at the store. This will both save money and be an on-going science project for the kids. I'm also getting an aquarium. Once upon a time, a bazillion years ago when I was a freshman in college, I had a 5-gallon tank with a betta fish and a plecostomous. Sadly, it didn't survive the nomadic lifestyle of my early 20s. Now that I'm older than dirt, own a house, and no longer moving every 6-12 months, I miss my fishies. So, I'm getting another aquarium, this time with a betta and neon tetras. I might get another pleco, but since the tank is only 10-gallons and bristlenose plecos grow up to 6 inches long, I might not have room.

Not much going on at the Unseelie Court this month.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: February Roll Call (2/10/2013 9:15:36 PM)

Well, tonight, about an hour ago, I let my sub go. But it was for the best. It's sad but, at the same time, a relief.

NBMG




EsotericLady -> RE: February Roll Call (2/10/2013 9:21:25 PM)

I'm very sorry, NBMG. Situations like that can indeed be bittersweet!

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

Well, tonight, about an hour ago, I let my sub go. But it was for the best. It's sad but, at the same time, a relief.

NBMG





NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: February Roll Call (2/10/2013 9:27:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

I'm very sorry, NBMG. Situations like that can indeed be bittersweet!

quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

Well, tonight, about an hour ago, I let my sub go. But it was for the best. It's sad but, at the same time, a relief.

NBMG



Thank you so much.

NBMG




MistressDarkArt -> RE: February Roll Call (2/11/2013 11:09:41 AM)


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ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

I'm very sorry, NBMG. Situations like that can indeed be bittersweet!

quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

Well, tonight, about an hour ago, I let my sub go. But it was for the best. It's sad but, at the same time, a relief.

NBMG




Me too, NBMG. Bask in the relief part. Spring is on the way... wishing you someone wonderful for the longer days ahead.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: February Roll Call (2/11/2013 2:42:29 PM)

Thanks. [:)]




LadyPact -> RE: February Roll Call (2/11/2013 3:29:15 PM)

I'm a bit lax in posting to this thread. I have been so wrapped up in putting together My dungeon that I've been on a mission. With that in mind, here we go.

The dungeon is absolutely beautiful. I now have more square footage of play space than some public dungeons in cities across the country. The official date of the first play party is now set for March 2 and I couldn't be happier.

I'm also in the midst of more orders for candles. The leather pride candles are a huge hit and I take more requests for those above anything else. More complicated to make than others, of course, but people love them. That makes the extra effort worth it.

Our family. I'm happy to report that we are over that 'getting used to living together' phase. The bumps in the road have smoothed over and we have been ridiculously content. The tension is gone. I can't put My finger on what happened to make it so, but here it is. I'm a big enough person to admit that, maybe, just maybe, I needed to relax and just let things be. In doing so, something wonderful happened. If I could bottle this mixture, I'd be rich.

I hope that everyone finds the happiness that I am experiencing.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: February Roll Call (2/11/2013 3:43:30 PM)

LadyP, it sounds like your dungeon and your family are doing just famously and I'm so happy for you!!![:D]

NBMG




MrsBurns -> RE: February Roll Call (2/11/2013 5:52:58 PM)

NBMG, have you heard of the site and forum, ObesityHelp.com? It is loaded with information about the various forms of weight loss procedures. You should check it out before you make your decision. I'm a 3 year post-op veteran and I couldn't be happier. 135 pounds gone forever and a new lease on life! :) I'd be happy to anwer any questions your may have.


quote:

ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

Hi All.

I've finally bit the bullet and made a health-care decision I've been debating about for a long time, like for at least a year. I now have my referral from my primary ARNP and I'm going for an informational visit to a medical office to find out more about gastric-bypass surgery. My insurance covers it, so that won't be a problem. I've been on so freaking many diet/exercise programs and I'm still not getting any smaller. I know the surgery has risks, I've already researched all that, but so does the amount of excess weight I'm holding onto. I'm really excited about this, so I hope it all works out. The people I know who've went to the place I'm going said they had their surgery within six months or so of their first visit so I'm hoping it will be done by summer. [:)]

NBMG





NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: February Roll Call (2/11/2013 6:09:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MrsBurns

NBMG, have you heard of the site and forum, ObesityHelp.com? It is loaded with information about the various forms of weight loss procedures. You should check it out before you make your decision. I'm a 3 year post-op veteran and I couldn't be happier. 135 pounds gone forever and a new lease on life! :) I'd be happy to anwer any questions your may have.

Thank you. I will keep that in mind.

NBMG




alphaminuz -> RE: February Roll Call (2/22/2013 3:25:04 PM)

Hello

Well this month has been busy since returning to land and sadly a lot more issues showed up when I really didn't need it. I sadly decided that the relationship I was in was not going to be beneficial for both parties and now having to regroup and move forward. Now it is time to leave home for a bit due to work (at least be in the USA).

Humbly

alpha-




CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: February Roll Call (2/22/2013 8:40:09 PM)

We're doing good. Not perfect, but good. My vehicle had all kinds of electrical problems, fuses kept shorting out and I've been too paranoid to drive at night for fear of being pulled over by a cop AGAIN, lol. My tail lights and license plate light was out, but I was okay to drive in the daytime...too bad I'm a night owl who wakes up at 2 p.m. and it gets dark about 5 p.m. I couldn't drive on days with bad weather, so for this past month I was only able to take the car out three times.

After consulting with my ex-husband, the auto mechanic, bo found out that the problem was a grounded wire...to an electrical plug outlet thingy attached to my unused trailer hitch. Now even my dash board lights work again, yay! Before, if I turned on my headlights and windshield wipers, and had to use the turn signal, the fuse blew for the turn signal. It will be such a relief driving to stores at night again, as per my usual. bo probably saved me thousands of dollars (Toyota would have checked everything but the real problem). MDA, I am green with jealousy over your 43 mpg! Mine on a good day gets 20 mpg, so it's a good thing I'm a "Sunday driver".

I've been doing some new exercize this past month that's been helping my right knee a lot, as well as building up atrophed muscles in places I didn't know I had muscles...but...I had to stop this past week because my right heel got a deep fissure. After filing it down a lot and soaking it, it's starting to heal. For Valentine's Day, bo knew I wanted an exercize tape I could do from a chair and looked on Amazon and Ebay until he found the Richard Simmons' tape, Reach For Fitness. He also bought me Richard Simmons' Sit Tight, another exercize tape for work outs from a chair. I also had a lovely card, a stuffed animal and a modest box of chocolates. (Brief pause here, enjoying a mild buzz cuz I just discovered a new use for his beard comb. It's excellent for CBT.)

His mom isn't doing well and we are working on that. My favorite cousin who is more like a little sister is becoming a grandma soon. At first the doctors said it would be a girl, now I hear it's going to be a boy. I already bought some Carter's baby clothes and plan to buy more next month before I start doing some sewing. I lost the pattern for hand mits so that babies don't scratch their faces up in the first month or two. I hope it's healthy.

Spring cleaning began early this year and I'm still working on it. I have a LOT of stuff (sewing, books, DVDs) in tubs and in crates and am gradually building more book cases to handle it so I can have easier access. When I moved here over ten years ago, moving things down four flights of stairs yet again destroyed a dozen of my book cases. They either fell apart or people on the street outside stole them along with my son's dresser, etc. It's been a long time replacing some things because I always needed something more...a lawn mower or weed whacer, an appliance, some repair work. So far, I've replaced six and have plans for one more in March, and then another in April. After that I will get two more for my bedroom, floor to ceiling, so I can get rid of three short shelves I have in there already that are not doing the job. Along with these, we put insulation behind them and as a consequence, this year I am saving money on my heating bill, yay!

This month I am giving about twenty something of my Barbie dolls away, along with a full grocery store bag of pretty scraps of material so that the neighbor kid can sew her own Barbie clothes after I copy some patterns. I also bought her a little sewing kit with about a dozen and a half different colors of threads. A friend of mine is getting some of the Barbies, as she plans on taking classes so that she can become a foster parent and then adopt. I'm going through my son's old I Can Read books and other fun books to donate some to her. She has two rooms ready but these kids are going to need some "stuff".

I'm about ready to start sewing some long skirts for a friend who lost everything in a house fire. Already got her a lot of other stuff, including luggage and scores of yarn balls (I forgot to give her knitting needles, as she usually crochets, aargh). I already have the fabric in tubs at home, and if I'm lucky, I will sew enough for the both of us (I want a skirt or two too) that I will be able to empty one. When I get back home, I hope I remember to prune my roses and some of the trees before the sap rises and buds break open. bo's urologist appointment went okay and he is going to be scheduled for surgery in March or April. Don't worry, it's not cancer or anything like that; I'm just seeing to it that my man gets some of his lost "manhood" back. At least his too low testosterone levels have been fixed, no thanks to his family doctor. Yay for specialists!




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