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RE: Belonging - 6/21/2006 7:00:07 AM   
Wildfleurs


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ORIGINAL: littleone35

I got another queston  for sub/slaves.  I know you belong to your Master/dom/ms/ daddy.  What  i would like to know is do you feel like they belong to you also?

Matt's littleone


No.

C~


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RE: Belonging - 6/21/2006 7:09:49 AM   
Polite


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Status: offline 		Dear littleone

A slave wants the security of being able to rely on a master or mistress, but does not think in terms of owning anything.  A slave strives to prove himself every hour of every day so his master or mistress will value him and not want to dismiss him.

Polite

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RE: Belonging - 6/21/2006 7:56:15 AM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		I do not assign posession....  Thorns owns me, not the other way around.

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RE: Belonging - 6/21/2006 9:26:34 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Hmm interesting response but kinda what i though they would be.  I should not say Masters belongs to me i belong to him ,but i beleive he belongs with me. 

Matt's littleone

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RE: Belonging - 6/22/2006 3:00:26 AM   
ray64


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Status: offline 		i belong to My Mistress, THough by that very statement She is "My" Mistress so, in a way She does belong to me but its a different sort, i obey and serve Her.   my heart belongs to Her and i know that i am completely safe with Her and i learn and grow with Her even to the point of getting rid of some "bad habbits" of mine. 
  Wouldn't have it any other way if i could.  

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RE: Belonging - 6/22/2006 3:36:31 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Thanks for bringing this question up.  It's one that I've struggled with and thought a lot about.  I was very interested to see the answers.

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RE: Belonging - 6/22/2006 4:15:42 AM   
kisshou


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Status: offline 		we belong together. 

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RE: Belonging - 6/22/2006 4:40:23 AM   
Merritt27


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quote:


He has given me His heart. i am owned by Him, i am His completely, and in the sense that He has given me His loyalty, love, and a part of His soul, yes. He is also mine.


i could not have said it better.......

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RE: Belonging - 6/22/2006 10:40:33 AM   
impishlilhellcat


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Status: offline 		I reallu like what Celeste said, I belong to him and we belong together nuff said. 

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RE: Belonging - 6/22/2006 10:53:26 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		While I understand those that like to say "I'm a slave, I have no belongings.", but the fact of the matter is that the dynamic of the relationship does not exist only in one direction. It's symbiotic, one does not exist without the other. In that context I will say that Master does belong to me.

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RE: Belonging - 6/28/2006 3:36:35 PM   
lanwolf


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Status: offline 		i belong to the One i am with, They do not belong to me but W/we are a part of E/eachother compleating the relationship.

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RE: Belonging - 6/28/2006 4:08:02 PM   
ropesubby39


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Status: offline 		I belong to Him, its a one-way thing.

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RE: Belonging - 6/28/2006 4:15:32 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I would think that if I walked into the "Right Domme's" house (and that is as likely as me winning the lottery) and 'You Belong to Me', by Patti Page was playing.....along with some other "right" (albiet unlikely) ambience.........

In that instance, I could tumble.

Ronne  

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RE: Belonging - 6/28/2006 4:21:40 PM   
onyurknees


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs

quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I got another queston  for sub/slaves.  I know you belong to your Master/dom/ms/ daddy.  What  i would like to know is do you feel like they belong to you also?

Matt's littleone


you asked for a sub/slaves' perspective and the responses have been interesting. From My perspective, in case the opposite angle is of interest, My sub/slaves do belong to Me but as I have taken on the reponsibility for their safety and some of their happiness, I feel that responsibility means a certain part of Me also belongs to them. they can call on that part when they need as a part of O/our belonging together... they have that 'right' to expect that of Me.
Lynn

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RE: Belonging - 6/28/2006 4:27:24 PM   
onyurknees


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I got another queston  for sub/slaves.  I know you belong to your Master/dom/ms/ daddy.  What  i would like to know is do you feel like they belong to you also?

Matt's littleone



Ooops... I'm new to these forums and just realized this was under the "ask a submissive" category in which case it was probably not right (protocol-wise) for Me to jump in with My opinion.
I'll try to be more careful and read all the fine print in the future... but it's a very interesting thread to follow... couldn't help but get hooked in.
Lynn

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RE: Belonging - 6/28/2006 4:37:04 PM   
txpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I got another queston  for sub/slaves.  I know you belong to your Master/dom/ms/ daddy.  What  i would like to know is do you feel like they belong to you also?

Matt's littleone


i am Master's whenever, wherever, however He wants me to do whatever He wants of me.
Master has rules for my behavior whether or not He is around or whether He has chosen to see me or not.
i am a possession, i am property.
i have no claim to Master and simply await His pleasure and hope that i can be of service again.
i am priveleged that Master requires that i contact Him at certain times and even more priveleged that Master chooses to respond at times.
i obey, i wait on, i dote on, i service and i own nothing ... not even my body.

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RE: Belonging - 6/29/2006 7:04:05 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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quote:

ORIGINAL: onyurknees

Ooops... I'm new to these forums and just realized this was under the "ask a submissive" category in which case it was probably not right (protocol-wise) for Me to jump in with My opinion.
I'll try to be more careful and read all the fine print in the future... but it's a very interesting thread to follow... couldn't help but get hooked in.
Lynn


No need to worry, there's no protocol against anyone posting in any of the categories. To be honest we all jump around. Feel free to post anywhere.

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RE: Belonging - 6/30/2006 10:03:20 AM   
gentlethistle


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Status: offline 		To be honest, I have trouble with the whole idea of 'being owned' that seems to be completely axiomatic to most of the respondents' sense of submissive identity.  And, no, I don't really feel any proper sense of 'belonging' either.  I certainly don't think of him belonging to me.  If he belongs to anyone then it's probably his daughter...since she's the only woman I can imagine him ever being submissive to.

Laura

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RE: Belonging - 7/4/2006 3:00:26 AM   
Mavis


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Status: offline 		i like to think of a Master as having been "assigned" overwatch, much like a guardian angel. 

We do say "my angel",  "my parent",  "my teacher",  and that doesn't ascribe ownership, exactly. 

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