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mrdeepstroker510 -> are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 8:16:52 PM)

Please.. tell me if this is real , i am a young black male and I enjoy this site but still woundering if some of the people ive been chating with is even real ... Please comment ..




OsideGirl -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 8:18:29 PM)

Nope. Everyone is fake.




TheLilSquaw -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 8:19:41 PM)

There is a HUGE BDSM community in Oakland.
An amazing community IMO.

Meeting people in person is a great way to tell if someone is what they claim.

As to are people on here real?
Depends on how you define real.
I think there are many on here who are real but my definition may vary from yours.

Btw... welcome to the forums.




mrdeepstroker510 -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 8:21:47 PM)

Thank you @ TheLilSquaw.... , , good insight




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 8:59:50 PM)

Why are you wondering?




littlewonder -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 9:03:00 PM)

We're all just a dream in somebody's head.




MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 9:10:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

We're all just a dream in somebody's head.



Speak for yourself. But then again, you ARE a cuddly wittle ratty-kins...unless your profile pic is fake.

Men have admitted to having NIGHTMARES about Me...and waking up screaming.

That's the way I like it.




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 9:45:18 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mrdeepstroker510

Please.. tell me if this is real , i am a young black male and I enjoy this site but still woundering if some of the people ive been chating with is even real ... Please comment ..


There are definitely real women on this site. I'm fairly sure there are real women on this site from your area. Are the ones you are chatting to real? That's a toughie.

Generally the more sexually explicit your early online conversations are, the more likely you're talking to a man looking to get his rocks off. If the person is asking you for money, then male or female they are probably a scammer. If the person only has one picture and it's from a porn site, that's a bad sign too.

But really the only way to check a person's 'realness' is to meet them in person. 'I've enjoyed talking to you so far, would you like to grab a coffee next week?'




Missokyst -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 9:57:11 PM)

It is a bob newhart finale

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

We're all just a dream in somebody's head.






Shininglight23 -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 9:58:48 PM)

Welcome to the forums!

I want to second what Athena mentioned... the quicker you move to sexual conversations... the more likely it is that you're speaking with a man. It seems that you are trying to portray (through your journals) that you're interested in a here and now kind of thing. If you're okay with wackin' your willy through cmails or instant messages with another guy... then more power to you.

My suggestion is to get involved in the local community.

It is difficult to say whether the people you are speaking with are "real" or not. My definition and yours (I'm sure) are different. It all depends on what you're looking for... how quickly you want it... and if you're willing to wait for it.

Allie




myotherself -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 10:27:11 PM)

Having read your profile, I'm not surprised you're being targetted by scammers and guys looking to knock off a quick one.

If you're looking for a relationship then you're going to have to figure out how to change your approach. At the moment you're looking for any kind of woman, dominant or submissive, despite listing yourself as 'dominant'.

To be honest, if I were younger and looking and you approached me, I'd assume YOU were the scammer and avoid you like the plague.




BamaD -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/12/2013 11:26:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

We're all just a dream in somebody's head.



Speak for yourself. But then again, you ARE a cuddly wittle ratty-kins...unless your profile pic is fake.

Men have admitted to having NIGHTMARES about Me...and waking up screaming.

That's the way I like it.


Never mind




mrdeepstroker510 -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/13/2013 2:12:17 AM)

Well thanks




Snitch -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/13/2013 6:56:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS
...unless your profile pic is fake.


Comes up clean in who-stole-my-pictures and isn't proven fake in collarmefakes - so I give it the benefit of the doubt.




Notsweet -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/13/2013 7:03:35 AM)

If you're in the Bay area, you definitely want to check this out: www.darkodyssey.com/surrender

You'll not only meet a ton of real people through them, you're likely to make a pile of friends, AND even more likely to find anything and everything you want.




Snitch -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/13/2013 7:47:44 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mrdeepstroker510
still woundering if some of the people ive been chating with is even real ... Please comment ..


Two general area of comment top assist the 26 year old black male dom from the SF bay area seeking submissive women ...
1. Bay area
2. Real people

In the SF bay area, you have the best munches on the planet (well, maybe in Deutschland they're up to snuff), but otherwise, you have access to a dozen local munches that others would die for to have in their vicinity. So get your google out of your lap and seek them out. The price of admission is a meal or even just a drink (for the wet munches).

Also, in the SF bay area, you have the clubs such as the Citadel and Power Exchange (although the latter is NOT recommended and the former may not even be still in business). These things come and go, as witnessed by Alex and Allie's Edges over by the San Jose airport and their prior incarnations up on the East Bay 880 spur.

In addition, if you have a hundred and fifty smackers, you can learn the ropes, literally, at the gates or at backdrop, where you pick from a bevy of young willing lasses, and for an hour you swing them from the chandeliers and use all the nice bondage equipment and experiment as you will with them, so as to become a dom worth the capitalization.

Ok, nuff for the SF bay area, the mecca of kink. Now on to the diatribe about 'real' people.

Oh, where to start. Oh my. First, use what most people use, which is your intuition. That will serve you well, in about five seconds, for, oh, maybe 1/3 of the fakes. Those are the ones EVERYONE can see through, from the dumbest on this site to the most intelligent - all can see the obvious ones. You can too. So put them on "hide" after reporting them and then move on to hide the less-than-obvious fakes.

First thing you do is filter outward. Put your filter on 5 miles, and most recent. Then scroll to the END of that list (you know, the ones who were last on in 2008), and put them on hide, en masse. Yep. One by one, click on them (takes only a second per profile and they're out of your life forever.) I would suggest anything not on the prior year, you put on hide - but you pick your cutoff (and don't argue with me about it because it's up to you).

There now, you've just cleared the field in about 1 second per profile.

Now you need to put your filter on images only and then spend another ten seconds per profile verifying the pictures for the ones that passed your intuition filter (trust me, 90% of THOSE that passed are still fake profile pictures). Omit the ones clearly meant to be artistic as most of those are stolen, but for good reasons. Concentrate on the ones intended to allure you into misthinking they are of the profile.

Simply right click on them and send them to both Tineye and Google reverse at the same time. You don't even need to look further as you can do this en masse also, and then control W the ones that come up blank. This will leave the profiles not being what they purport to be (which, sadly to say, will be the majority). Good news though. You report and hide all those. (And, if you're a good citizen, you post those profiles over to the collarmefakes Tineye section so that the third search works for you and for all others to follow - as you ARE a good netizen, aren't you? (Or are you just selfish?) Your acts will betray you.

OK. Where are we now? Hey, look'it this! After, oh, maybe about five minutes in total, you've CLEARED out all the obvious and nearly obvious fakes from your search. Wow! Now, instead of scores of profiles within 5 miles of your location, you now only have a single page of about 5 to explore.

Here comes the harder part before you actually stoop to the level of actually READING the profiles. Nope. Not yet.

Now, search for the obvious keywords that YOU don't want to deal with. For example, single keywords such as "tribute" "token" "gift" "amazon" and anything with a dollar sign are indicative of certain types of profiles. This negative keyword stuff is highly specific to YOUR needs and wants so I'll leave that up to you. The point is to eliminate the "real" profiles asking for things you don't want to deal with. Of course, all along, you should be clicking the other searchable items such as height, weight, ethnicity, etc. that is of interest to you.

OK. Now you've whittled the seemingly endless pack into about five or ten profiles within five miles of you who aren't fake and who meet your criteria. This whole process only took about five minutes because you didn't READ anything yet. All you did was use technology (and if others have better ideas, please chime in as I'm always adding to MY repertoire).

For the first time in this five-minute process, you are now to READ the profiles. Yes. READ them. It's now time to invest in what you consider real people. At this point, my technological advice will be to no avail (unless and until they correspond with you - at that point, Spokeo and Pipl and the others take root).

Those five or ten profiles are jewels to you. Give them (and only them) the time and energy they deserve! If, after those peter out, then move your radius to 10 miles, and repeat the filtering process. But keep math in mind. Remember your high-school math. Doubling the radius squares the area covered. That's why you start out at 5 miles.

Anyone who uses a radius greater than, oh, about 25 miles to weed out fakes, is absolutely crazy because the numbers of profiles by that time that are clearly fake would consume your available energy for the rest of all time. (I truly pity the people who even attempt this - even WITH technology at their stead.)

There. I've said it. I hope it helps you. If not, please ignore.




mnottertail -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/13/2013 8:00:35 AM)

????? why so many question marks ??????

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littlewonder -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/13/2013 9:25:43 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Snitch


quote:

ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS
...unless your profile pic is fake.


Comes up clean in who-stole-my-pictures and isn't proven fake in collarmefakes - so I give it the benefit of the doubt.



I'm real???? Yay! I kept wondering if I was. Thank you!




mrdeepstroker510 -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/13/2013 10:17:25 AM)

Thsts crazy




ResidentSadist -> RE: are there any real women on hear ??? bay area ?? its just a ??? (2/13/2013 10:41:05 AM)

Dear James,

You're in the bay area . . . step away from the computer and go to one of the 875,367,876 leather bars and events that are within 10 miles of you. Seriously, without exaggeration, there are 17,000 people per square mile in the bay area and the kink rate there is much, much higher than average. That means within the adjoining 10 square miles, there are about 1.7 million people of which more than 170,000 of them are involved in BDSM and over 400,000 of them are into kink and want to learn more . . . and half of them are female. Basically, real live kinky pussy is falling on your head. It is littering your street and they shop at the same grocery store as you. They buy gas at the same station, at this moment there is one or more within 100 yards of you . . . and you are fucking around with your computer?

Not to be a spelling Nazi but I thought this was about women faking deafness. It's "here" not "hear".

just sayin'




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