Greta75
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ORIGINAL: Aswad It works just fine with a willing and eager participant, too, as both Carol and Tazzy demonstrate. Tazzy relationship fell apart, so that isn't considered fine, and I really don't see Carol and Jeff in the same type of relationship. Jeff really cares about her emotional welfare. I generally see such relationships where the dom is less concern about the emotional welfare of his sub because the idea is to break her down and make her feel like she has no choice, and breed her dependency on him, his not necessarily doing what is best for her mental health, and Tazzy herself admits to being sobbing mess and have left him before and gone back and forth. To me feeling content, and happy and feeling like that's where you belong is probably what "fine" is. Really takes a sub to genuinely enjoy having zero control on her life and just gets off on following orders 24/7 to be "fine". quote:
Also, for it to qualify as "cool", the question is first and foremost the right master. Well..., "cool" if the master is less self-oriented on what he wants, and more oriented towards keeping his slave balance and healthy.
< Message edited by Greta75 -- 6/4/2013 9:01:52 AM >
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