NiceButMeanGirl
Posts: 2756
Joined: 11/4/2011 From: Bellingham, WA U.S.A. Status: offline
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I'm not so worried about whether a sub is experienced or a newb. I mean everyone has to start somewhere and I appreciate the sub who put up with me when I was a brand spanking new Domme. What matters more to me is whether he has understanding of self and what he wants from a dynamic. Whether he has a clear understanding of what Dominance and submission mean to him and he can articulate that to me, so we'll know if we're on the same page. I can understand him not knowing whether he likes something until he tries it, but this constant flitting from "yes, lets" to "no, lets not" and back to "heck, yeah!" will drive me nuts. I will say, though, as a newer Domme compared to most on this forum, I've learned an awful lot from my experienced /s play partner. NBMG
< Message edited by NiceButMeanGirl -- 2/18/2013 9:32:28 PM >
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I'm now SweetlySadistic1 on CollarSpace. NBMG is an old profile, please see my new one.
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