Focus50
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Joined: 12/28/2004 From: Newcastle, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Focus50 Yeah, put like that, so is a wedding ring or an engagement ring.... That was exactly my point. And I'm a big marriage guy so I'm the last to say there is no significance. But MY wedding ring means something very different than the next guy's. Some people treat the rings as nothing. To some they are critically important. Some people treat the marriage itself as nothing. To others it is central to their life. Your "point" was to present a shallow and cynical perspective that's not even yours, as being helpful? Except when compared to your marriage, of course.... Which really makes it an unashamed public, backdoor compliment for yourself, no? quote:
So how can we answer in general what a symbol means? It means whatever any given person has invested in it. You do it by giving *your* perspective or opinion rather than acting like your a spokesman for the wider community in which you live. If Joe Blow nextdoor thinks a wedding ring is nothing but an empty, symbolic convenience, that's *his* perspective to present.... quote:
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Kinda think that's what the OP's asking for - *different* perspectives! I didn't. I thought the OP was looking for "The Rules". But if it helps, here goes. Carol's collar means that she has never disobeyed a command and accordingly, I see her as my slave/property rather than simply my submissive wife. That's it. It has no deep spiritual significance. It is simply the visible evidence of a measurement of obedience. Here's what the OP said: "I have no knowledge about being collared. I've learned a little bit from the web searches I've done, about what it means and whatnot. But I am curious as to what a collared does different for her/his Master than a regular submissive?" Yeah, most things in the lifestyle have a slightly different meaning to different people. But I get no sense of "The Rules" or one-twu-wayism coming from the OP, even though she does present as relatively new and inexperienced. <shrugs> Focus.
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